Straight Guys Acting Gay with Eachother at the Gym/Locker Room

  • Vordhosbn

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    Jun 02, 2007 1:04 AM GMT
    So the other day I was working out and noticed a group of guys, about 6 of them, working out. I could tell they all were friends or knew each other. During the workout, I couldn't help but notice them talking about sports/girls/cars... typical straight-guy talk. Well that all changed when they hit the locker room. They were teasing each other about being gay, and half of them were even acting gay, pretending to be hitting on the other guys. Some of them were walking around naked, slightly cupping their dicks and balls while joking around. One of the guys, as he was putting body lotion on himself even teased his buddy about needing his lotion and passed him the bottle as he was naked. The other guy, I guess trying to shock the other, put a small amount on his dick and jerked off for a few seconds while laughing. I tried to pretend I wasn't watching/listening much. Another odd thing I noticed was that when I took my towel off and dried myself off (was in close proximity), two of them glaced at me and were kind of silent for a couple seconds as they noticed my penis. One of them raised his eyebrows and seemed slightly impressed but I don't think he was necesarilly turned on. The whole time they were pretending to be gay and calling each other fags at the same time while prolonging their changing to be naked in front of eachother longer. A couple of them were totally not into the acting gay thing... one of them even going into a bathroom stall to change. Is this a new form of machismo? I don't get it. Straight guys acting gay to mess with their buddies... I wasn't necessarily turned on, as I didn't get hard, even though a few of them did have some great bodies and were good looking. I was... bewildered more than anything.
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    Jun 02, 2007 5:39 PM GMT
    Is this a new form of machismo?

    No way...I've seen a lot since I was in college and since I've been out...it's been around for a while.
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    Jun 02, 2007 9:48 PM GMT
    It does not suprize me as to what went on. A recent study that was conducted at the University of Atlanta showed that the less homophobic a man acts the strighter he really is. The more homophobic a man tends to be the more aroused he got when seeing men kissing, having oral or anal sex.

    Subjects were wired up to electrods after having an interview and completing a questionaire. They were showed mixed videos of bisexual, hetrosexual and homosexual of non-sexual and sexual in nature of couples kissing, playing, and having sexual relations. The guys who scored high meaning, the most homophobic and who became agressive in the interview towards homosexual activity were in most cases, the most sexually aroused when scenes of gay men appeared on the video clips.

    So what you experienced in the locker room where a bunch of men who where very comfortable with the gay thing and not very homophobic.
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    Jun 03, 2007 3:17 PM GMT
    Geez, grown men doing this???

    When I was in high school, back in the 70s, the guys did this in the locker room in HIGH SCHOOL. They'd even get themselves erected and dare each other to suck them off, pushing their pelvises forward toward their buddies, while standing on the benches in order to put their cocks on the other guys' face levels.

    I found this to be, at the same time, both arousing and offensive. One guy even sat on the shower room floor and beat himself off while taunting the other guys.

    The behavior you saw was so immature and insensitive. I just can't believe that it was grown men.

  • jetmanmaine

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    Jun 04, 2007 1:58 AM GMT
    i've seen this a lot too--but i dig it--lol my straight buddies dont know about me so i go along
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    Jun 06, 2007 1:55 AM GMT
    "lol my straight buddies dont know about me so i go along"

    I wonder how often this happens and the joking is only half joking :)
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    Jun 09, 2007 10:10 PM GMT
    indeed... i'd like to bet half the time one guy is really straight and the other one is really enjoying it... can't straight men handle another sexuality in the world without having something to do w/ it?
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    Jun 14, 2007 2:42 PM GMT
    My friends and I sometimes behave like this too. It makes me nervous acttually and can sometimes be mocking. They do not know about me
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    Jul 18, 2007 5:12 AM GMT
    ok guys i need a response from someone..i recently made out with this so called straight guy whom i hav know for a while...he was all over me kissing me feelling on me and even spent the night...i was really shocked...but he said it would never happen again when i told him it would happen twice..of cource he put a smiley face behinde it wouldnt happen again but we would still hang out... so whats up with that.. and he came to the gay club that i was at...and he went home with me.. im confused... someone want to hip me to something new?
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    Jul 18, 2007 5:15 AM GMT
    and i dont like to frequent gay clubs... no offense..
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    Jul 18, 2007 5:45 AM GMT
    Vord thanks for the laugh of the day. where have you been man?
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    Jul 23, 2007 2:55 PM GMT
    ok ybwc what do u mean where hav i been. care to explain a little more on what u mean?
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    Jul 23, 2007 4:32 PM GMT
    I'm confused too cutebicurious-are u the initiator of this thread? You clearly look after your body.

    As far as the "straight" guy sleeping with you.
    I read ONE person's story about exploring his sexuality. This bloke lives in Australia. The question he posed to himself was: How do I know if I'm homosexual or not? So he went out to gay clubs over a period of time to find out the answers. after being propositioned, hit on etc. etc. etc. he knew he was heterosexual. I thought that was a great way to sort it out.

    As far as straight guys acting gay with each other at the gym. If you have ever been on a sports team, like hockey in my case, this behavior is common. So out of respect to the contributor I didnt realize that he has never seen this. I am surprized is all.

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    Aug 12, 2007 11:34 PM GMT
    Straight guys do that all the time!! A couple of friends that I have like to joke around in the locker-room and I can't help but to think that all straight men are a little curious and for them the best time to explore is in the locker room where everyone's joking around. But I definently agree with rks and the research because I've never joked with them..just observed.
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    Oct 10, 2007 12:47 AM GMT
    Two comment: I was once told by a guy that if every man in the world who thought about gay sex turned green there would be a lot of green men walking around..

    I personally think everyone is Bisexual, your upbringing, cultures and the society where you reside all have influance in how you think. I am gay, but I could do a chick if I wanted to. But I know it's better on the other side icon_biggrin.gif But in my experiance that whole group of guys could be had and I am sure it would not be any of there's first time..
    Real str8 men do not act like that, they may tease you a bit but they are comfortable with themselves and there sexuality and would never act silly in a locker room.
  • BlackJock79

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    Oct 10, 2007 7:56 PM GMT
    Sounds HOT!!! They would have known I was gay cause my dick would have saluted them! LOL
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    Dec 05, 2007 1:52 AM GMT
    Everyone is bisexual. First, their have been no studies to prove that and second, that's just preposterous.
  • safety43_mma1...

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    May 23, 2010 11:19 PM GMT
    i think it is the funnest thing to watch. it makes me wonder sometimes but hey what ever makes then happy then who an i to say anything.
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    May 24, 2010 1:18 AM GMT
    There's tons of straight men in m gym that are so gay friendly that it's almost impossible to tell them apart.
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    May 24, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    jetmanmaine said...my straight buddies dont know about me so i go along

    Ok now that's offensive.
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    May 24, 2010 2:59 AM GMT
    I flirt with every guy I work with...daily...and they all know about me and flirt back. In fact, today they were all flexing their muscles and showing me their abs. Considering the fact that they're all hot except for a couple, I was totally in heaven!

    Oh...and I just happened to be playing with the camcorder and got it all on video! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
  • Nayro

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    May 31, 2010 9:35 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI flirt with every guy I work with...daily...and they all know about me and flirt back. In fact, today they were all flexing their muscles and showing me their abs. Considering the fact that they're all hot except for a couple, I was totally in heaven!

    Oh...and I just happened to be playing with the camcorder and got it all on video! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif



    Dont bother asking if he wants to share, he cant icon_sad.gif
    ;P