Do you like to see HOT MEN CRY or SUFFER in Films?

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    Jul 16, 2010 4:12 AM GMT
    Like, to see them experience emotions other than Hotness, is it hot to see that? What is the dynamic that goes on in our brains to like that or want to see that? I see it as a hot guy's vulnerability makes him seem even hotter, like more approachable maybe? I don't know.

    What's your thought on this?
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    Jul 16, 2010 4:25 AM GMT
    I like men that are secure and comfortable and aware enough of how they feel and who they are that there is no shame in having and showing emotions. If they cant show emotions, then can't show any passion or compassion or anything without being all self-conscious......and me being the caretaker type that wants to fix it so you are all better...can't resist helping and consoling this big lovable hunk that needs some care and love!icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 16, 2010 4:30 AM GMT
    Sporty_g saidI like men that are secure and comfortable and aware enough of how they feel and who they are that there is no shame in having and showing emotions. If they cant show emotions, then can't show any passion or compassion or anything without being all self-conscious......and me being the caretaker type that wants to fix it so you are all better...can't resist helping and consoling this big lovable hunk that needs some care and love!icon_smile.gif


    Ah, so maybe it's seeing the best of both worlds: a hot hunk with emotions.
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    Jul 16, 2010 5:35 AM GMT
    I think men should be men and not do all that pussyfied crybaby shit. Only girls and little babies cry. Men are supposed to "cowboy up" and take it like a man. That way, later in life, they can get all sorts of heart problems from keeping shit bottled up and never expressing any emotion other than hotness and manliness and stuff.

    After all, crying is gay. Didn't you get the memo?

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    Jul 16, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    It depends, appropriate expression of any emotion is...well...normal, so it doesn't add nor does it take away from the sex appeal. But and overly emotional guy who gets teary over every little thing is a complete turn off while the guy who decides to keep it all hidden is sexy in the beginning, irritating later on, and just plain creepy once it goes beyond a certain point.
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    Jul 16, 2010 5:43 AM GMT
    i'd say suffer, crying is ....je ne c'est quoi..lol cant see tough guys crying, but i dont mind when they cry in my arms or chest... icon_twisted.gif
  • xcvbn

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    Jul 16, 2010 6:15 AM GMT
    this type of crying.

  • hartfan

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    Jul 16, 2010 6:28 AM GMT
    I've always prefered a tortured hero than a gung-ho one who operates purely on bravado. Hence Jason Bourne over James Bond (at least before they reinvented him with Daniel Craig), also I think Bourne is way more kick ass. Another one I can think of is T-1000 in Terminator 2.

    Key here is that they need to be able to feel, but yet still handling those emotions like a grown up. And sometimes bottling it up a bit is to be expected, as long as they don't turn that into self-destructive behavior.

    Edit: I realized I misread the OP slightly. I think I don't want to see just any hot guy show extreme emotion in ordinary situations, but I'd like to think that if I get to know the guy well, especially if he were to become my partner, seeing his vulnerability during times of trial and tribulation is necessary to developing a strong love and affection.
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    Jul 16, 2010 6:33 AM GMT
    I cry all the time but I'm not in films since I'm not an actor. Its just something I do to release tension and it feel great.










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    Jul 16, 2010 8:00 AM GMT
    that scene from Good Will Hunting where he just breaks down gets me every time.
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    Jul 16, 2010 11:01 AM GMT
    No I dont think its attractive, I'm just too empathic and the mirror neurons in my head will start firing... I have a hard time distancing myself from other people's suffering or emotions
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    Jul 16, 2010 11:05 AM GMT
    realman77 saidthat scene from Good Will Hunting where he just breaks down gets me every time.


    It's not your fault, it's not your fault.

    Lol if he wasn't such a cock earlier in the film (like where he starts going all homophobe on that first psychiatrist) I'd sympathise.
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Jul 16, 2010 12:15 PM GMT
    In a movie, it's totally fine.

    In real life, men crying make me slightly uncomfortable.
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    Jul 16, 2010 12:56 PM GMT
    like....hostel?

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    Jul 16, 2010 12:58 PM GMT
    I don't know why, I just ove to see you cry.

    That's a song that is.
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    Jul 16, 2010 1:08 PM GMT
    if a hot man cries - he suddenly becomes an ice cold man to me
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    Jul 16, 2010 5:09 PM GMT
    Spartacus: Blood and Sand, when Spartacus is in his room, after he killed Varro - his best friend, that scene almost had me in tears, yet, at the same time, a turn on!
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    Jul 16, 2010 10:30 PM GMT
    I think crying of happiness is good... Like being reunited with someone after many years.

    But crying from fear is not hot!
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    Jul 16, 2010 10:32 PM GMT
    It'd really depend on the character's ability to deal with the emotions and/or suffering. It'd be moving to see someone actually learn from their emotional trauma and mental anquish, but that'd be one sick sad movie to get to that point.
  • phunkie

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    Jul 16, 2010 11:00 PM GMT
    Is this what you meant?



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    Jul 16, 2010 11:22 PM GMT
    waxon saidlike....hostel?

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    I am in the armed forces. I am no prude. This film absolutely epitomises gratuitous violence (yes, I have seen it). Because it has Tarantino's name attached to it, that is meant to give it some sort of artistic kudos, but it has none. It contributes zip to humanity, art, entertainment or education. No amount of pretentious critical bullsh*t can alter that. It is just plain f*cking sick. Period.

    Rant over.

    Waxon, I appreciate you were being ironic in posting it, btw, so no offence is meant to you (unless you like the sh*t, that is!).
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    Jul 16, 2010 11:22 PM GMT
    I have seen men of all shapes and sizes cry. The funny thing is, that type of emotion brings every human being onto the same plane, if only for a moment. Being able to share such an experience with another man is truly magical. Not once have I seen a man cry - not even on film - and thought it was sexy. It's beautiful, but it's not sexy, IMO.