zdrew78 said[quote][cite]bfg1 said[/cite] I agree if you are totally not interested then dont lead them on but on the other hand if you feel you can get the measure of someone on one date you are a better man than I
True, you can't get the full measure of a guy on the first date, but you CAN tell if you're gonna click or not, and if you're gonna want a second or third date. [/quote]
I agree with you there but sometimes nerves or shyness can be a factor tho as to wether you see the real them, ie me on a first date I talk non stop and it can be alot to handle for some but I tend to settle down when I get more comfortable (believe it or not ha ha ha)
I guess what I am saying is that whilst you can get the measure of a book by its cover your not actually reading it and a little delving could reveal an absolute gem or a total stinker of a novel
as a caveat to that if the subject matter is:
'Lesbian knitting circles in the outer Hebrides' you can kinda tell from day one you probably aint gonna get on with that one!