cromi saidthere is a lot of nice(i think)/goodlooking guys in this site so i send some emails to who i thought were both but the only problem is, most of them dont really reply and it kinda makes me sad , maybe its because im ugly, thin, asian,uninteresting or something
so, what i would like to know is how do you introduce yourself to fellow RJers cause i really dont know how to...
i just wanna make friends(no matter how lame it sounds)
First I checked my old email back for a few months, and don't see anything from you. Well, DUH, you did say nice, good-looking guys, and I fail on both counts. But I wanted to double-check to be sure.
Because I do sometimes get unsolicited email, which is what you seem to be describing, and I generally don't respond to those, and never to unknown IMs. Maybe your technique is part of the problem. Emails from out of the blue are always suspect.
I recommend you do what you are doing in this thread: introduce yourself to everyone here, get involved in the forums, become known. Then you will start to receive emails, and your own emails will be answered.
That's how I had got started here, and I've now even met a number of these great guys in person, having exchanging emails, and in some cases spoken on the telephone. So I endorse becoming active in the forums. Oh, and not to be mean, but swap your main pic for one with a smile. That one in front of the blue SUV (?) is nice.