I broke up with my boyfriend today...here's what happened.

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    Jul 17, 2010 10:08 PM GMT
    Conversation with boyfriend:

    10:30AM

    Me: Wake up! *kisses forehead*
    Let's get up, get dressed, and go do something outside!

    Him: Let me sleep for another hour. *covers face with sheets*

    Me: Ok, want me to make you breakfast?

    Him: *mumbles through sheets* I'll make my own later, let me sleep!

    Me: Fine, I'll make my own. Sweet dreams.
    *makes cereal, watches cartoons, goes online*



    12:00NOON (an hour and a half later...)


    Me: Hey you, Wake up!

    Him: Ugh, let me sleep. It hasn't been an hour!

    Me: It's 12 NOON! Day's half way over, wake up!

    Him: *mumble mumble* I hate you.

    Me: Don't be an ass, let's go do something! Anything you want, on me!

    Him: ...but I'm tired.

    Me: Sleep in the car.

    Him: I don't want to get dressed.

    Me: Go naked.

    Him: Just go by yourself.

    Me: I want to spend time with you.

    Him: We sleep every night together, isn't that enough?

    Me: That's not quality time.

    Him: Take Jason (our mutual friend). I don't want to go.

    Me: I want to go with you. God!

    Him: His number is 513-000-0000

    Me: Ugh, fuck you then. *Calls Jason*

    Jason: Hello?

    Me: Hey, let's go do something!

    Jason: what is there to do in this boring fucking town?

    Me: Check out the art museum exhibits? Ikea? Etc..

    Jason: I rather play video games.

    Me: Typical.

    Jason: How's Josh?

    Me: Being a lazy ass who just wants to sleep.

    Jason: I'm tired too.

    Mw: Then go back to sleep.

    Jason: bye
    *hangs up*

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    12:45 (pm or am? I always confuse day/night at this hour)

    Me: *gets dressed, brushes teeth, shaves, showers*

    1:10pm

    Me: *leaves and checks out the art museum alone*


    3:00pm
    Me: *Goes to a cafe, gets something for lunch.*

    3:30pm

    Me: *comes home, see's Jasons car parked in guest spot*

    3:35pm

    Me: *walks in my apartment to find them both playing video games*

    Me: *says to Josh* guess you wern't that tired...

    Josh: I woke up after you left, then Jason called an hour ago to hang out.

    Me: Yeah, sure, whatever.

    Me: *goes to bathroom, see's an empty condom in trash that I don't remember seeing this morning*

    Me: Walks back to Josh and Jason on the couch, and asks "why the fuck is this in the trash?"

    Me: Take Jason and get the fuck out of my apartment.

    Josh: You're overreacting.

    Jason: We didn't do anything

    Me: Get the fuck out.

    *they get up and leave*

    *Josh leaves me a text, explaining how he wanted
    to have a 3 some with Jason, and they were waiting
    up for me to get home, while playing a video game,
    but they ended up getting horny and doing it alone*

    I just texted back..

    *FUCK YOU, you know I've never been interested in Jason.
    It's over. I'll text you soon to come up and pick up your
    shit. I pay the rent, find another place to live.*

    I feel so fucking stupid right now. Fuck them both.

    I just spent the past hour seperating his stuff from mine, and putting it in the corner of the dining room. I'll call him soon to tell him to come pick his stuff up before I put it outside. He doesn't pay the rent here, I was helping him save money actually, and he cheats on me. We've been together over a year. All down the drain in one day...icon_sad.gif
  • rnch

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    Jul 17, 2010 10:19 PM GMT
    cut out the crotch of all his pants and throw all his shit out on the lawn.
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    Jul 17, 2010 10:20 PM GMT
    Stay home next time and maybe you can join them.
  • rnch

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    Jul 17, 2010 10:22 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidStay home next time and maybe you can join them.
    he said he wasn't interested in a 3 way with them!

    read more carefully, paul. icon_exclaim.gif
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    Jul 17, 2010 10:24 PM GMT
    Guys sucks.
    Never get emotionally attached, and you'll be fine.
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    Jul 17, 2010 10:25 PM GMT
    rnch said
    paulflexes saidStay home next time and maybe you can join them.
    he said he wasn't interested in a 3 way with them!

    read more carefully, paul. icon_exclaim.gif
    Yeah, I read that part. I'm just being facetious cause we don't know the whole story from both sides. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 17, 2010 10:25 PM GMT
    30YEAROLDVIRGIN saidGuys sucks.
    Never get emotionally attached, and you'll be fine.
    ...says the fake profile.
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    Jul 17, 2010 11:43 PM GMT
    That's how my relationship ended. ,..... Not wanting to do anything with me anymore .But looking back I was in a one way relationship anyway. It sounds like you were to . So nothing really lost.
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    Jul 17, 2010 11:49 PM GMT
    I love the bf's response, your over reacting. didnt even try to lie
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    Jul 17, 2010 11:51 PM GMT
    unfortunately thats how it ends in some relationships. Im soo sorry this happen to you..hmm...just move on...people usually take others for granted..hate to say it but i think he was doing that to you. ....just try to move on...i hope all for the best with you.


    now ..i suggest you can go two routes.......
    the waiting to exhale route...
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    or the Tina Turner route..
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  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 17, 2010 11:55 PM GMT
    I hate that this happened to you. My very first relationship ended almost the same way. Tom ( my ex) had been seeing another guy for the last 6 months of our relationship while I worked both a full-time and a part-time job. icon_cry.gif
  • Twenty_Someth...

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    Jul 17, 2010 11:57 PM GMT
    30YEAROLDVIRGIN saidGuys sucks.
    Never get emotionally attached, and you'll be fine.


    Someone's jaded!
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    Jul 18, 2010 12:01 AM GMT
    Your bound to pick some bad apples sometimes.... c'est la vie
  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 18, 2010 12:04 AM GMT
    Ricovelas saidYour bound to pick some bad apples sometimes.... c'est la vie


    Yeah.....the important thing is to never give up. If I had of stopped dating just because of one ex-boyfriend, I would have missed out on meeting a lot of great guys. icon_biggrin.gif
  • owen19832006

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    Jul 18, 2010 12:08 AM GMT
    an empty condom!? in my house?!
    i think not, your bf or ex, is a proper CUNT, he did it in your house, in your furniture or in your bed?! what a fecking arse!
    you're better off without him, it hurts ok but you know what fuck him his loss wanker
  • phunkie

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    Jul 18, 2010 12:08 AM GMT
    Two words. Good riddance. Just move on with your life. Apparently he didn't think much of it, so why should you?
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    Jul 18, 2010 12:16 AM GMT
    Ouch.
    I would have chopped his penis off so it wouldn't happen, again. icon_idea.gif
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    Jul 18, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    Wow, that was one fucked up story... Im still cursing between my teeth... Im not sorry for you though.. you did the right thing and your fuckin better off without him mate!! What a fuckin lack of character he had... theres nothing worse than lack of balls and character
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    Jul 18, 2010 12:28 AM GMT
    That was a pretty good story. I liked it.
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    Jul 18, 2010 12:32 AM GMT
    what a mother fucker. You did the right thing, he obviously has no respect for you or your relationship. Sorry your going through that man...its happened to all of us, guys can be such fucking pricks sometimes.
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    Jul 18, 2010 12:35 AM GMT
    I want a boyfriend...
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Jul 18, 2010 12:37 AM GMT
    wow icon_cry.gif
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    Jul 18, 2010 12:38 AM GMT
    We are all sexual beings. While what your guy did was wrong did it have to be the end of your relationship? Did you ever think that in another circumstance it might have been you who cheated, not because you didn't love your guy but simply because you were horny and you had the opportunity? Couldn't you have talked about what happened with your guy and tried to work through it? Did you really have to be the drama queen and kick him out?

    Guys cheat; someday you probably will too. If you don't have the same expectation of monogamy that many married heteros have (100% fidelity) then you won't be so hurt when it happens to you the next time.

    It's not to late to try to reconcile with your guy. Tell him how you feel but try to lessen your expectaion of 100 % fidelity. You never know, next time it may be YOU who is asking for forgiveness from HIM.
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    Jul 18, 2010 12:41 AM GMT
    If their relationship was predicated on the basis of monogamy, then you can't really make the "oh it's unrealistic" argument.
  • BlackBeltGuy

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    Jul 18, 2010 12:42 AM GMT
    yeah well be thankful.

    thankful he used a condom and you found it when you did.

    something good will come out of this. cheating sucks, it happened to me and i caught my guy going to glory holes.
    he could have gave me something and that was after 5 years.
    I'm thankful i caught him by missing an exit turning around, seeing his car and then following his car to the book arcade.

    it will get better just separate your shity and put it outside. change the locks. no more calls.
    done.