as if today wasnt bad enough. . . .

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    Jul 18, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    so my bf broke up with me today via text at sd pride.. . i helped out a friend with a breakfast this mornin super early and when he showed up he was anti social as usual. . . so he ate and the nature called. . .he didnt want to poop at my friends house so he went home. he was to come back but before he got back the whole party (about 25 ppl) Left.

    soooo he got so cupet with me that i didnt wait for him that he broke up with me . . . it broke my heart cause i love him, even though i never got to tell him that. so all afternoon i had to feign happiness at the only time of year i look forward too. .

    and to make it al worse he is telling me that someone came by his house and did something to it. . i would never and i didnt tell anyone to do anything but im pissed that someone would go that far as to do something destructive to his possessions. . . if i find out one of my friends did something trying to "get back at him" they pretty much disssolved my friendship with them... these tears arent worth it. . .

    ~tryin' to have fun in sd . . . .
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    Jul 18, 2010 12:35 AM GMT
    and im kinda buzzin' right now too .... so that doesnt help. . .
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Jul 18, 2010 12:44 AM GMT
    sorry icon_cry.gif
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    Jul 18, 2010 1:01 AM GMT
    He broke up over that?
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    Jul 18, 2010 1:07 AM GMT
    If that's all it took, it doest sound worth it, your beter off without em (sorry cliche, but cliches have the habit of being true)
  • NashRugger

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    Jul 18, 2010 1:09 AM GMT
    Hmm, sounds like there is much more behind this story that lead up to this.
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    Jul 18, 2010 1:11 AM GMT

    Oh Chaos, I'm so sorry about what happened to you. How long have you guys been going out, and why no talking about love and I love you? That's a little confusing to me.

    -Doug
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    Jul 18, 2010 1:12 AM GMT
    Your BF sounds quite the high-maintenance drama queen. And it wouldn't surprise me if the vandalism story was staged, his motivation being to sour your relationship with your other friends. Good riddance.
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    Jul 18, 2010 1:14 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidHe broke up over that?


    +1
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    Jul 18, 2010 1:37 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    Oh Chaos, I'm so sorry about what happened to you. How long have you guys been going out, and why no talking about love and I love you? That's a little confusing to me.

    -Doug

    been going out for about a year, and im scared to tell guys i love them cause i figure im just gonna get hurt like this. i mean this was by far the last thing i expected to come ot of the situation today . . .

    im still baffled by how everything went down . .

    he even went so far as to take my things from his place and put them in my car while i was away from it, cause he knew where my hide-a-key was
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    Jul 18, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    Wilton saidYour BF sounds quite the high-maintenance drama queen. And it wouldn't surprise me if the vandalism story was staged, his motivation being to sour your relationship with your other friends. Good riddance.



    i could only hope cause i would NEVER advocate one of my friends doing something to vandalize his things
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    Jul 18, 2010 1:43 AM GMT
    Oh ugh. Well, go with the flow. If you had talked about love and I love you long before this it would have been better. Why? Because he would have gone all hedgy on you then, and you likely wouldn't be here where you are now. Let's face it, you're going to feel what you're going to feel whether you say those words and talk about them or not.

    Doug's lil secret. I often wore my heart on my sleeve and it scared the crap out of some men. icon_lol.gif
    It was a great way to separate the flakes from those who at least wanted to try.


    Now come here and let me give you a HUGE HUG!

    *gives huge hug*

    -Doug

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    Jul 18, 2010 1:44 AM GMT
    meninlove said Oh ugh. Well, go with the flow. If you had talked about love and I love you long before this it would have been better. Why? Because he would have gone all hedgy on you then, and you likely wouldn't be here where you are now. Let's face it, you're going to feel what you;re going to feel whether you say those words and talk about them or not.

    Doug's lil secret. I often wore my heart on my sleeve and it scared the crap out of some men. icon_lol.gif
    It was a great way to separate the the flakes from those who at least wanted to try.


    Now come here and let me give you a HUGE HUG!

    *gives huge hug*

    -Doug



    ^_^
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    Jul 18, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    Find him.

    Pull his pants down.

    And FUCK HIM.
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    Jul 18, 2010 2:00 AM GMT
    *hug*...you'll find better
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    Jul 18, 2010 2:04 AM GMT
    twomack saidFind him.

    Pull his pants down.

    And FUCK HIM.


    meh topping doesnt intrigue me in any way shape or form. . . . i wouldnt even be able to stay hard lol
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    Jul 18, 2010 2:04 AM GMT
    chaos444 saidand im kinda buzzin' right now too .... so that doesnt help. . .


    Find a new boyfriend. It's still SD pride right? REBOUND!!!!!icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 18, 2010 2:04 AM GMT
    Wow dude! Sorry that happened!
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    Jul 18, 2010 2:08 AM GMT
    JakeBenson said
    chaos444 saidand im kinda buzzin' right now too .... so that doesnt help. . .


    Find a new boyfriend. It's still SD pride right? REBOUND!!!!!icon_cool.gif


    i alread paid for bottle service tonight lol, had to pay his portion too cause he dont gots a job either! imma be having as much fun as i can
  • mybud

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    Jul 18, 2010 2:24 AM GMT
    Brah...True love is stronger than bullshit like that....You deserve better....and over time you'll get better.... trust me....BUD
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    Jul 18, 2010 2:47 AM GMT
    chaos444 said
    twomack saidFind him.

    Pull his pants down.

    And FUCK HIM.


    meh topping doesnt intrigue me in any way shape or form. . . . i wouldnt even be able to stay hard lol
    Maybe that's the REAL reason he left. Ya never know. icon_wink.gif

    Personally, I never asked my ex's why they left. I'm usually the one who said fuck this and moved. icon_lol.gif
  • rnch

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    Jul 18, 2010 3:30 AM GMT
    Wilton saidYour BF sounds quite the high-maintenance drama queen. And it wouldn't surprise me if the vandalism story was staged, his motivation being to sour your relationship with your other friends. Good riddance.


    yes, my thoughts also!
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    Jul 18, 2010 5:52 AM GMT
    i'm glad in spite of you feeling hurt you're not judging him or calling him names.
    You were together for a year so you both connected and had some good times.

    now it's over, that's pretty much all, right ? Or are you going to over analyze everything and talk your friends to death over it ?
  • Webster666

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    Jul 18, 2010 6:31 AM GMT
    I have a sneaking suspicion that there's a lot more to this story than just what you've told.