oral sex

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    Jul 18, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    Advice pls

    I know this must be an old topic, but I need help

    How do you perform proper oral?... I cant hold donw the gag reflex for my life... its so bad I even have to gag when Im brushing my teeth... I would prefer to be able to deep-throat, because its probably a fantastic feeling for the other person.... HELP!!!

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  • GQjock

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    Jul 19, 2010 11:08 AM GMT
    Proper?
    I don't think there is any one way
    ............
    Just think of it as a very big runny popsickle
  • rnch

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    Jul 19, 2010 3:25 PM GMT
    practice, practice, practice!!

    my bf and I will be happy to "work with you". icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 19, 2010 3:42 PM GMT
    You don't have to take it that deep. It's the underside of the head that is most sensitive and you work that with your tongue.
  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 20, 2010 9:01 AM GMT
    southbeach1500 said
    Caslon15000 saidYou don't have to take it that deep. It's the underside of the head that is most sensitive and you work that with your tongue.

    NOTE: What Caslon15000 posts applies to cut guys only.

    Uncut guys have many (many) more places / parts of their cock that are very sensitive, compared to cut guys.


    Oh here we go.

    The nerve endings that are removed during circumcision are still concentrated around the upper half of the penis. The bases of uncircumcised and circumcised penises, I would be willing to bet, are more or less the same. Taking a penis all the way down the throat to the base isn't going to be more pleasurable for an uncircumcised guy than for a circumcised guy.

    Most guys get a turn on from deep throating because it's an eroticized sexual act, not because it's actually more physically stimulating; it's more psychologically stimulating for some people. I'm sure most guys would rather you give them a regular, non-deep throat blow job than risk you tossing your cookies in their lap.
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    Jul 20, 2010 1:27 PM GMT
    Caslon15000 saidYou don't have to take it that deep. It's the underside of the head that is most sensitive and you work that with your tongue.


    I agree. I don't get why guys want to deepthroat me. The hard cartilage back there just hurts me, and my dick doesn't bend when it is hard, so that also hurts, and I get annoyed. Just concentrate your lips and tongue on the head and the upper shaft, which is where I have the most feeling.
  • rnch

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    Jul 20, 2010 2:29 PM GMT
    viveutvivas said
    Caslon15000 saidYou don't have to take it that deep. It's the underside of the head that is most sensitive and you work that with your tongue.


    I agree. I don't get why guys want to deepthroat me. The hard cartilage back there just hurts me, and my dick doesn't bend when it is hard, so that also hurts, and I get annoyed. Just concentrate your lips and tongue on the head and the upper shaft, which is where I have the most feeling.


    yesssss!! same goes for me.

    deep throating, like many erotic sexual acts we all watch on adult videos, looks awesome on the screen...but less so in Real Life. icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 20, 2010 10:13 PM GMT
    For being a bunch of cocksuckers, it is surprising that most guys forget the first lesson of giving good head, which is to SUCK.

    Suction is fundamental. If your mouth isn't tired afterwards (at least at first), then you are not doing it right. You need to create a vacuum to swell his dickhead and make it more sensitive, and to pull your cheeks into contact with his cock.

    The second rule is to USE YOUR TONGUE! Rub and caress his dick with your tongue as you move your head back and forth. Again, if your tongue isn't getting tired (at first), you are not doing it right.

    Giving blowjobs is not for lazy people. icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 22, 2010 3:41 AM GMT
    i don't like deep throating either. agree with the other guys here. it just hurts. just love to have them suck and play with the top of my dick.
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    Jul 22, 2010 11:26 AM GMT
    Haaarff...
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    Jul 22, 2010 1:23 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    viveutvivas saidGiving blowjobs is not for lazy people. icon_razz.gif

    LOL,,, at least not Good Ones! Besides,, It's a whole lot hotter when the are anticipating your load and are really getting into it..
    I also like it then a guy uses both hands in a swirling motion to stimulate my cock while he working the head with his mouth. Love it when both the hands and the head are in a swirling motion and not just bobbing up and down like so many do!...icon_cool.gif


    Hmm, yeah, I love a nice load, especially if the guy cums buckets.

    http://www.xvideos.com/video385328/eating_cum_15_spunky_hunks_ii

    And yes, the hands are a good tip too.

    Also, don't be afraid to to play with the guys balls. Some guys just like a little soft stroking, some guys like soft grabbing, some hard, some guys like it really rough. Most guys IME like at least gentle running of your tongue over the balls. You may have to ask or other wise judge how rough he wants his balls treated, but if you don;t know, start out very gentle.
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    Jul 22, 2010 1:28 PM GMT
    Hope this isn't too confusing:

    Grab the cock from the base and put your mouth on the rest and gently suck it like you're sipping from a straw. Keep your tongue flat and occasionally stroke the cock with it; suck and stroke with your tongue when you go up, catch your breath (if you need to) on your way down.
    With the hand that's on the cock, twist it diagonally upwards one way and then down again like a corkscrew, whilst sucking at the same time. Alternate the grip strength or keep consistent.

    I usually do the sucking and hand stroking motion the same pace and direction (mouth goes up, hand goes up) and having a lot of saliva really makes it hot. And you don't have to deep throat using this method. Once you get use to this multi-tasking action (!), you can add some moaning into the mix so that your mouth vibrates a little too or use your other hand to rub the balls, taint or arsehole.

    But in regards to deep throat, you can try to relax your gag reflex by getting used to the action. In front of a mirror, open your mouth wide and exercise the back of your tongue by moving it up and down like you're gulping down a lot of water. Try touching the back of your throat with your fingers and get used to having something in the back there. You can lie on your back with your head off the bed and suck him that way which keeps your throat straight.
    Some people practice of bananas but be careful if you're going to do that and don't peel it first.
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    Jul 22, 2010 3:15 PM GMT
    jim_e saidHope this isn't too confusing:

    Grab the cock from the base and put your mouth on the rest and gently suck it like you're sipping from a straw. Keep your tongue flat and occasionally stroke the cock with it; suck and stroke with your tongue when you go up, catch your breath (if you need to) on your way down.
    With the hand that's on the cock, twist it diagonally upwards one way and then down again like a corkscrew, whilst sucking at the same time. Alternate the grip strength or keep consistent.

    I usually do the sucking and hand stroking motion the same pace and direction (mouth goes up, hand goes up) and having a lot of saliva really makes it hot. And you don't have to deep throat using this method. Once you get use to this multi-tasking action (!), you can add some moaning into the mix so that your mouth vibrates a little too or use your other hand to rub the balls, taint or arsehole.


    Wow.

    You can do me anytime... icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 22, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    There are many ways of blowing a man and some of the methods mentioned here are worth trying. Here's my favorite blowjob which is really a "lazy blowjob" my ex and I both loved. It's called "suckling" which I perform on him in the morning while we're both in a horny but semi-awake state.

    He lays on his side snoozing while I pop his cock in my mouth and suckle him while I also snooze. The head and 2/3 of his shaft remain still in my mouth while I continually flick the underside of his cock with my tongue. My mouth stays firmly around the circumference of his cock without moving. When I feel his cock start to swell, I know that breakfast is coming. Once I'm fed, we both fall back to sleep.

    Crap, now I'm hungry and sleepy.
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    Jul 22, 2010 3:34 PM GMT
    bigeasydude said
    He lays on his side snoozing while I pop his cock in my mouth and suckle him while I also snooze. The head and a 2/3 of his shaft remain still in my mouth while I continually flick the underside of his cock with my tongue. My mouth stays firmly around the circumference of his cock without moving. When I feel his cock start to swell, I know that breakfast is coming. Once I'm fed, we both fall back to sleep.


    Oh man, I would love this. From either side. icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 22, 2010 3:37 PM GMT
    jim_e saidHope this isn't too confusing:

    Grab the cock from the base and put your mouth on the rest and gently suck it like you're sipping from a straw. Keep your tongue flat and occasionally stroke the cock with it; suck and stroke with your tongue when you go up, catch your breath (if you need to) on your way down.
    With the hand that's on the cock, twist it diagonally upwards one way and then down again like a corkscrew, whilst sucking at the same time. Alternate the grip strength or keep consistent.

    I usually do the sucking and hand stroking motion the same pace and direction (mouth goes up, hand goes up) and having a lot of saliva really makes it hot. And you don't have to deep throat using this method. Once you get use to this multi-tasking action (!), you can add some moaning into the mix so that your mouth vibrates a little too or use your other hand to rub the balls, taint or arsehole.

    But in regards to deep throat, you can try to relax your gag reflex by getting used to the action. In front of a mirror, open your mouth wide and exercise the back of your tongue by moving it up and down like you're gulping down a lot of water. Try touching the back of your throat with your fingers and get used to having something in the back there. You can lie on your back with your head off the bed and suck him that way which keeps your throat straight.
    Some people practice of bananas but be careful if you're going to do that and don't peel it first.


    Wow! I defy anyone to do a better job explaining this! : ) I love to do the sucking/hand job maneuver too. Guys love it!
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    Jul 22, 2010 4:20 PM GMT
    viveutvivas said

    Wow.

    You can do me anytime... icon_razz.gif


    well i'm wide awake right now just twiddling my thumbs......icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 22, 2010 6:47 PM GMT
    jim_e said
    viveutvivas said

    Wow.

    You can do me anytime... icon_razz.gif


    well i'm wide awake right now just twiddling my thumbs......icon_biggrin.gif


    Australia though?! Even my dick isn't long enough... icon_razz.gif
  • rnch

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    Jul 22, 2010 6:50 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]viveutvivas said..... Even my dick isn't long enough... icon_razz.gif[/quote]


    brag

    bragg

    BRAGGGG!!!!


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    Jul 23, 2010 10:16 PM GMT
    If you can't deep throat swallow the cock as far as you can go, making your lips slide up and down on the rim of the helmet, use your tongue in a circular motion on the head of the cock, dribble loads (I mean loads so it runs down the shaft of the cock) this is like a warm lubricant so you can wank the shaft with your hand or fingers whilst sucking the top of the cock in steady speed.... do this for a while, try to deep throat from time to time also...... if you feel you are going to gag stop sucking for a while and lick his balls whilst wanking him...... you will find a style that suits you.

    Just relax and suck away...... suck a cock how you would like yours sucked..... !
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    Jul 23, 2010 10:53 PM GMT
    Here is how you learn to deep throat and simultaneously improve oral hygiene:

    While brushing your teeth start lightly brushing the front of your tongue. Slowly move further back until it starts to feel slightly uncomfortable. Every time you brush keep working that point. Over time, it will move further and further back.

    The gag reflex is your bodies way of going "oh shit, there is something in my throat and I am going to die!". By getting it acquainted with friends that reflex will calm down and soon you can take it like the best of them.

    Just don't brush your teeth immediately before giving actual head, as that is a great way to spread STIs.

    kisses.
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    Sep 05, 2010 2:42 PM GMT
    One person suggested using lots of salvia.

    I don't know if I suffer from a true case of "dry mouth," but I always find it difficult to generate the kind of spit that need for oral sex.

    Any suggestions?
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    Sep 05, 2010 4:06 PM GMT
    A2rower saidOne person suggested using lots of salvia.

    I don't know if I suffer from a true case of "dry mouth," but I always find it difficult to generate the kind of spit that need for oral sex.

    Any suggestions?


    Keep a glass of water by the bed, so you can keep your mouth wet.