Self Loathing Gays

  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 2:45 AM GMT
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVfkPI3AT3E

    A little youtube video I made talking about this issue.
    Don't beak me too hard! icon_razz.gif
  • creature

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    Jul 18, 2010 2:48 AM GMT
    For those of us who can't copy and paste:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVfkPI3AT3E
  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 3:13 AM GMT
    creature saidFor those of us who can't copy and paste:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVfkPI3AT3E

    I did tho. I'm so confused. LOL.
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    Jul 18, 2010 3:14 AM GMT
    great vid bryce.icon_smile.gif
  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 3:18 AM GMT
    GEM12 saidgreat vid bryce.icon_smile.gif

    Thanks bb.icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 18, 2010 4:49 AM GMT
    How cool is your mom…
    Have to say though, it is a topic that has been molested too epic proportions on here; a quick search should reveal some of the best flame-wars ever launched.

    You’re completely adorable in the video; however, I think if you said “like” one more time I would have shot myself.
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    Jul 18, 2010 5:09 AM GMT
    I so wasn't expecting you to sound like that. icon_razz.gif
  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 5:10 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidHow cool is your mom…
    Have to say though, it is a topic that has been molested too epic proportions on here; a quick search should reveal some of the best flame-wars ever launched.

    You’re completely adorable in the video; however, I think if you said “like” one more time I would have shot myself.

    It difficult for me to just talk about something and not stumble over my words.
    I didn't feel like putting a lot of time into it. icon_razz.gif
    Next time I'll rehearse and prepare. ;)
    And thank you.
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    Jul 18, 2010 5:14 AM GMT
    The part where you were questioningly labeling yourself as a twink made me laugh icon_razz.gif
  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 5:22 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidThe part where you were questioningly labeling yourself as a twink made me laugh icon_razz.gif

    Well I have some people from my town who have no clue who/what a twink is and I thought about that as I said it and immediately felt weird.icon_biggrin.gif
  • Webster666

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    Jul 18, 2010 7:07 AM GMT
    The guy in the video doesn't look like the guy in your main profile pic.
    I'm sure that they're both you. Just sayin'.

    You're wise beyond your years. And, you speak with so much intelligence and confidence and conviction, I can see you having a career that would put that to good use.

    What you're saying is simple common sense, but I'm sure that you know that a lot of people don't have common sense when it comes to certain issues, like homosexuality.

  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 7:40 AM GMT
    Webster666 saidThe guy in the video doesn't look like the guy in your main profile pic.
    I'm sure that they're both you. Just sayin'.

    You're wise beyond your years. And, you speak with so much intelligence and confidence and conviction, I can see you having a career that would put that to good use.

    What you're saying is simple common sense, but I'm sure that you know that a lot of people don't have common sense when it comes to certain issues, like homosexuality.


    Why thank you. icon_biggrin.gif
    And is me not looking the same in my photo and in the video a good or a bad thing? And which is the bad one? icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 18, 2010 8:10 AM GMT
    I dont hate myself because Im gay, but because I really am wierd, crazy and useless... ive been told by gay psychologists I needed meds, gay people hate me,(not on RJ, but in real life) I get along only with straight men and women, and I was observed by child psychologists even as a child, they thought I needed some type of counseling...

    Im seeing a shrink right now, hopefully it will help icon_sad.gif
  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 8:16 AM GMT
    amar_m saidI dont hate myself because Im gay, but because I really am wierd, crazy and useless... ive been told by gay psychologists I needed meds, gay people hate me,(not on RJ, but in real life) I get along only with straight men and women, and I was observed by child psychologists even as a child, they thought I needed some type of counseling...

    Im seeing a shrink right now, hopefully it will help icon_sad.gif

    Why on earth do gay people hate you?
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    Jul 18, 2010 8:40 AM GMT
    brycetippe said
    amar_m saidI dont hate myself because Im gay, but because I really am wierd, crazy and useless... ive been told by gay psychologists I needed meds, gay people hate me,(not on RJ, but in real life) I get along only with straight men and women, and I was observed by child psychologists even as a child, they thought I needed some type of counseling...

    Im seeing a shrink right now, hopefully it will help icon_sad.gif

    Why on earth do gay people hate you?


    I wish I knew, they dont talk to me and ignore me when I talk to them, and tell me Im crazy... They're probably right icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 18, 2010 8:52 AM GMT
    Can I have your number?
  • creature

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    Jul 18, 2010 1:13 PM GMT
    I should've commented on the video after I saw it. I agree that your mom is cool and she brought up a good point.

    One of the things that has bothered me is the term "straight acting." And I read on here about someone who boasted how could "pass." Those terms are eerily familiar to what I've heard regarding blacks (i.e. black acting/white acting) and passing as white. I don't know if it's dying down, but as a child those were some ugly issues that plagued the black community.

    Bryce, my first comment wasn't about you, it was about those who don't like to copy the url the OP posted into their address bar, so I provided the hyperlink for them. Next time click on "URL" when posting a message and replace "HTTP ADDRESS GOES HERE" with the url of the site. Or you can put the embed code.

    Keep it up, we'd love to hear more.
  • Geoedward

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    Jul 18, 2010 2:01 PM GMT
    bryce,
    You are an amazing young man. Thank you for making this video. You are so on target. How can we expect anyone else to respect us when we don't respect our own kind? The male gay community treats each other terribly. There are so many clicks and God forbid we talk to each other if we are not part of a click. Your video has opened my eyes because I am one of those people that label. My partner and I have no male gay friends. I blame myself because I keep saying that I want to hang out with guys like ourselves. I always tell him I don't want to hang out with feminine guys.
    We have lived in the same neighborhood for 21 years. All of our friends are straight. There are no other gay couples in our neighborhood that I know of. Your video has made me realize how ignorant I have been. I am going to work on this. No more labels, no more discriminating. You are so right. That is what I have been doing and I am sorry!
    By the way, I love your mom, Sh eis awesome!icon_biggrin.gif
  • frankyzhang

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    Jul 18, 2010 2:20 PM GMT
    just one of my friends says: sexual orientation is just a part of us, not all that we are. to get along with straight guys is perfectly ok, and we cant get along with anyone body just because we are all gay. so just let it be, and well, let's say, let the gay part of our lives just stays in the bedroom, enjoy the happy hours with straight guys whenever we can.icon_smile.gif
    good job, man, you are such a brillient guy!!
  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 6:05 PM GMT
    Geoedward saidbryce,
    You are an amazing young man. Thank you for making this video. You are so on target. How can we expect anyone else to respect us when we don't respect our own kind? The male gay community treats each other terribly. There are so many clicks and God forbid we talk to each other if we are not part of a click. Your video has opened my eyes because I am one of those people that label. My partner and I have no male gay friends. I blame myself because I keep saying that I want to hang out with guys like ourselves. I always tell him I don't want to hang out with feminine guys.
    We have lived in the same neighborhood for 21 years. All of our friends are straight. There are no other gay couples in our neighborhood that I know of. Your video has made me realize how ignorant I have been. I am going to work on this. No more labels, no more discriminating. You are so right. That is what I have been doing and I am sorry!
    By the way, I love your mom, Sh eis awesome!icon_biggrin.gif

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    Really, I made that much of an impact?
    Wow, I'm really touched.
    Thank you so much, and I'm happy I could help. icon_smile.gif
  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 6:06 PM GMT
    tryandbuy saidCan I have your number?

    When I get a cell phone, sure! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 18, 2010 6:13 PM GMT
    Congratulations on a wonderful video and a wonderful statement.

    So much wisdom for one so young!
  • tony_boost

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    Jul 18, 2010 6:23 PM GMT
    A1EX saidI so wasn't expecting you to sound like that. icon_razz.gif


    i know right, he's so cute icon_smile.gif
  • brycetippe

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    Jul 18, 2010 6:26 PM GMT
    amar_m said
    brycetippe said
    amar_m saidI dont hate myself because Im gay, but because I really am wierd, crazy and useless... ive been told by gay psychologists I needed meds, gay people hate me,(not on RJ, but in real life) I get along only with straight men and women, and I was observed by child psychologists even as a child, they thought I needed some type of counseling...

    Im seeing a shrink right now, hopefully it will help icon_sad.gif

    Why on earth do gay people hate you?


    I wish I knew, they dont talk to me and ignore me when I talk to them, and tell me Im crazy... They're probably right icon_sad.gif

    That's horrid! D:
    I'm sorry.
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    Jul 18, 2010 6:26 PM GMT
    frankyzhang saidjust one of my friends says: sexual orientation is just a part of us, not all that we are. to get along with straight guys is perfectly ok, and we cant get along with anyone body just because we are all gay. so just let it be, and well, let's say, let the gay part of our lives just stays in the bedroom, enjoy the happy hours with straight guys whenever we can.icon_smile.gif
    good job, man, you are such a brillient guy!!


    Being gay is not just a part of me that I keep in the bedroom. I've been living with my boyfriend for nearly eight years. When a straight person at work discusses what they did over the weekend with their spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend, I want the same freedom to respond with something like "Phil and I saw a great movie Saturday night." When we go to the grocery store, I want to be able to ask, "Do we need milk, dear?" Our lives together are more than just sex and the bedroom.