Hot straight friends

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    Jul 18, 2010 5:38 PM GMT
    Do most of you have any hot guy friends who are straight, know your gay, and don't have a problem with it, you can hang out, play sports etc. How do you guys resist the urge to want to have sex with them, or do you even want to? If I see a hot guy I am sexually attracted to him , whether he is straight or gay, thats why I only have ugly straight friends haha. I could never just hang out with a really sexy straight guy, it would drive me insane lol. Any thoughts?
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    Jul 18, 2010 6:19 PM GMT
    Yep. It's called 'growing up'....and I'm not slamming you.
    It'll happen after you discover that you can have sex with about anyone.....but only friendship with special people and never the twain should meet!
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    Jul 18, 2010 6:28 PM GMT
    I have a couple of really hot straight friends. My most recent straight guy friend has become one of my best friends. When I first met him, I thought he was gorgeous and had the best ass I have seen in person.

    The more I got to know him and our friendship grew, the thoughts about his hotness went away. I still hit him on the butt, and make inappropriate comments but those are just like the comments he makes about my Mom.

    As Studly said, it is a part of growing up. Would I have had sex with him when I first met him and he wasn't married? Yes. If he got divorced this week and wanted to fool around, I wouldn't do it.
  • Delivis

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    Jul 18, 2010 7:25 PM GMT
    Several. If I know they are 100% straight then I have no sexual inclinations towards them whatsoever.
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    Jul 18, 2010 10:33 PM GMT
    Balljunkie saidI have a couple of really hot straight friends. My most recent straight guy friend has become one of my best friends. When I first met him, I thought he was gorgeous and had the best ass I have seen in person.

    The more I got to know him and our friendship grew, the thoughts about his hotness went away. I still hit him on the butt, and make inappropriate comments but those are just like the comments he makes about my Mom.

    As Studly said, it is a part of growing up. Would I have had sex with him when I first met him and he wasn't married? Yes. If he got divorced this week and wanted to fool around, I wouldn't do it.



    It's funny how that works out. I have a couple of seriously gorgeous straight friends that I used to fantasize about (jk) (no really). But as you get to know them as people and not as pieces of meat the urge becomes more manageable and with some people goes away completely.
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    Jul 18, 2010 11:49 PM GMT
    oh lord... this again? get therapy.
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Jul 19, 2010 7:19 AM GMT
    yes i do the problem is they r my teammates so that makes it even worse but my rule is no messing around with teammates so i dont.
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    Jul 19, 2010 7:20 AM GMT
    I don't have any friends.
    So it's not an issue for me.
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    Jul 19, 2010 7:25 AM GMT
    You learn to think with the big head, and not the little one.
  • Road89

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    Jul 19, 2010 7:28 AM GMT
    Well, what if they flirt with you, in front of there girl friend, and away from their girl friend? I have a friend - a few years younger than be - but he's a swimmer/soccer player and I am attracted to him, but he's gf is a good friend of mine, so it's weird? Idk - I enjoy the attention because it makes me feel attractive, but on the same line I have to keep myself believing that it's all just a game.
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    Jul 19, 2010 7:29 AM GMT
    yes, I have many hot straight friends... I get along bette with them than with gay people, perhaps because there is no sexual tension there
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    Jul 19, 2010 7:30 AM GMT
    I think the question is "how do they resist the urge to have sex with me?"
    And the answer is: They don't. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 19, 2010 7:31 AM GMT
    amar_m saidyes, I have many hot straight friends... I get along bette with them than with gay people, perhaps because there is no sexual tension there


    I totally agree with you on that...

    i have tons of good looking str8 friends, but there is that boundary that one shouldnt cross, just respect your friends, i am very comfortable around my friends, we hug, some time even kiss on the cheek, and they know i am gay, but i dont think about them sexually, i am just glad to have them as my friends.....thats the most important thing to me
  • Tiller66

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    Jul 19, 2010 7:36 AM GMT
    Well I'm sure that many have had the same problem and I'm one of them.I've had and have a few really hott friends that if I had my way I would be doing very,very dirty things with.But that's not how it is,so instead I have very hott friends that trust me and I them.So I'm happy with that,I've shared so many other things with that have ment so much more,having sex now would insult all of that.
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    Jul 19, 2010 7:50 AM GMT
    Hot straight buddies are the story of my life... But they have to remain just that, buddies. No matter how big the temptation might be to reach over and touch the big perfectly defined muscles on that hot straight guy, you have to remember he's straight. And unless he feels the same way about you, then the guy is forbidden. And in my case, I feel like the more I get to know my hot straight buddies the less I like them romantically and the more I love them like brothers... And I wouldn't want to ruin our friendship over something like that.
  • coastguy90814

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    Jul 19, 2010 9:39 AM GMT
    naivenewbie saidDo most of you have any hot guy friends who are straight, know your gay, and don't have a problem with it, you can hang out, play sports etc. How do you guys resist the urge to want to have sex with them, or do you even want to? If I see a hot guy I am sexually attracted to him , whether he is straight or gay, thats why I only have ugly straight friends haha. I could never just hang out with a really sexy straight guy, it would drive me insane lol. Any thoughts?


    haha...forget about hot straight friends. I have hot Gay friends to worry about...Sounds like you have some sort of weird 'straight' fetish...Never a good thing.
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    Jul 19, 2010 9:40 AM GMT
    all my straight man friends say I wake up their softer side... for some reason i find that disturbing. NOT! icon_smile.gif
  • SFGeoNinja

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    Jul 19, 2010 9:47 AM GMT
    If you really, truly have desires to sleep with your straight friends AND you are receiving no validation for your desires - they are totally straight and totally not interested - then my guess is that you are not in a good place to be truly good friends with them. In terms of romantic/sexual fulfillment you are just wasting your time. Even if you get "lucky" with one of them, in reality the "straight" guy you messed around with will probably be too embarrassed by the breaching of the friend/lover boundary that your friendship will fade afterwards. Best to use your friends to introduce you to new lovers, not to make lovers out of the guys who are your best friends.