He Won't Kiss Him Until.....

  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 18, 2010 9:53 PM GMT
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    First Kisses....

    Did your first kiss involve some guy sticking his tongue down your throat, while you both were drunk, in front of a dancing crowd? Or, were you both alone in a somewhat more romantic setting?

    I have a couple of friends who are dating and who have said that their very first kiss will be on the day that they decide to make a commitment to each other. Right now, there is a very romantic element in that. To take a more serious step towards the future, with a soft kiss of affection, for the very first time, and then to never kiss anyone else in the whole world for as long as the two of them are together.

    That's more than just not sleeping together before their commitment, that's not kissing. A bit of old-fashioned romanticism. I'm not sure I could do it, it all depends on the guy I am dating.

    However, I am looking forward to going to their wedding icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 19, 2010 12:25 AM GMT
    Some stupid college dorm. Most unremarkable moment of my life. And it kind of set up this pattern where all my subsequent kisses were just as unremarkable.
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    Jul 19, 2010 12:28 AM GMT
    College dorm room
  • somedaytoo

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    Jul 19, 2010 12:29 AM GMT
    1st guy I met online was the 1st guy I kissed. He was handsome, and realized I was new to this guy/guy stuff. He told me whatever made me comfortable was fine with him. When he kissed me, I swear I saw fireworks. My first kiss was a great experience.
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    Jul 19, 2010 12:38 AM GMT
    the drunkn tongue bath at a bar...not romantic, but I don't think my heart rate has ever been the same.
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    Jul 19, 2010 12:40 AM GMT
    What happens when they do kiss, and it's horrible?

    Maybe I've lost my romanticism over time, but I think it's absolutely crucial to 'test drive' before you buy.

    Mine was in an out door sculpture garden with a couple ponds and a water fountain.
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    Jul 19, 2010 12:46 AM GMT
    It was preceded by a massage with scented oils in a candle-lit bedroom. A romantic setting for a tender kiss of affection that's impossible to forget.
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    Jul 19, 2010 12:49 AM GMT
    At home, first guy I dated came into my house

    Was not bad, not great, just so so, but had never done anything with a guy before and needless to say I was turned on icon_exclaim.gif
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    Jul 19, 2010 12:51 AM GMT
    At home, first guy I dated came into my house

    Was not bad, not great, just so so, but had never done anything with a guy before and needless to say I was turned on icon_exclaim.gif
  • GQjock

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    Jul 19, 2010 1:15 AM GMT
    Hmmm ..... my first kiss with a man was from a Hot Roofer foreman as a prelude to sex icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 19, 2010 1:18 AM GMT
    My first guy guy kiss didn't happen until after I came out in my 20s. He knew I was new to dating guys so he was taking things slow. Too slow! After the date, in the car in front of my place, I leaned over and planted one on his lips. Not the best, but they got better after that!
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    Jul 19, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    It was a bet between underage drunk guys in college, when we were all innocenticon_rolleyes.gif. He could either kiss me or do the dishes for rest of the week.icon_question.gificon_twisted.gif
    I, of course, found this out later. He actually was nice looking, or maybe I was too out of it to notice.
    I do not drink anymore.
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    Jul 19, 2010 1:26 AM GMT
    First year of college: I was drunk and emotionally distraught. The guy gently pressed me against the outside of my dorm's entrance door and drove his face into mine. I pushed him away, stared breathlessly at him as he wiped his mouth, and ran off to the nearby lake, where I cried. Soon after he accompanied me, and he let me cry on his shoulder.

    Needless to say, I wasn't very comfortable with coming to terms with myself.
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    Jul 19, 2010 1:28 AM GMT
    carmineastoria saidIt was a bet between underage drunk guys in college, when we were all innocenticon_rolleyes.gif. He could either kiss me or do the dishes for rest of the week.icon_question.gificon_twisted.gif
    I, of course, found this out later. He actually was nice looking, or maybe I was too out of it to notice.
    I do not drink anymore.


    Sounds like you all were ahead of the game in playing gay chicken before it became all the rage among young straight (or so they say) guys!
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    Jul 19, 2010 1:29 AM GMT
    My first gay kiss was with my first boyfriend, about 30 minutes after we met.
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    Jul 19, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    Sounds like you all were ahead of the game in playing gay chicken before it became all the rage among young straight (or so they say) guys![/quote]

    Yes. Nerds are usually ahead of the learning curve.icon_biggrin.gif
    Soon, my total vocabulary will consist solely of emoticons.
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    Jul 19, 2010 1:46 AM GMT
    carmineastoria saidSounds like you all were ahead of the game in playing gay chicken before it became all the rage among young straight (or so they say) guys!


    Yes. Nerds are usually ahead of the learning curve.icon_biggrin.gif
    Soon, my total vocabulary will consist solely of emoticons.[/quote]

    LMAO . Well, you and I know how overated complete sentences are!icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 19, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    Mine was pretty meh. He was just as inexperienced as I was. I call discontinuity -- it never happened. So I'm still waiting. =D
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Jul 22, 2010 6:22 AM GMT
    first gay kiss was with my best friend that was curious so we kissed and then other things happened. to this day we talk all the time i go home. he is married with two kids and we told his wife she thought it was funny and told us to kiss again so we did lol lol.
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Jul 22, 2010 6:26 AM GMT
    HabeasCorpses saidFirst year of college: I was drunk and emotionally distraught. The guy gently pressed me against the outside of my dorm's entrance door and drove his face into mine. I pushed him away, stared breathlessly at him as he wiped his mouth, and ran off to the nearby lake, where I cried. Soon after he accompanied me, and he let me cry on his shoulder.

    Needless to say, I wasn't very comfortable with coming to terms with myself.






    Cutest story ever icon_cry.gif
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    Jul 22, 2010 6:37 AM GMT
    I would like to do something so romantic as to wait till a more serious moment to share a kiss. If you can wait for a kiss then I believe that shows promise for a strong and lengthy relationship.

    My 1st kiss was stolen by a girl while I stayed with some friends during turbulent times at my home. I felt raped.... icon_cry.gif
  • NerdLifter

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    Jul 22, 2010 6:51 AM GMT
    I was 20; he was 23, and it was at his place. He cooked me dinner and was above and beyond a gentlemen.

    He turned out the lights after watching an episode of BSG together. For the next seemingly timeless few minutes, the world transformed into a landscape of utter perfection.

    I'm happy to say I'm glad I saved myself for the right first kiss to remember for a lifetime.
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    Jul 22, 2010 7:35 AM GMT
    my most passionate kiss was in a bath house (yes i said it... yall ain't saints, so shut it).
  • Navyboy

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    Jul 22, 2010 8:12 AM GMT
    was a little romantic, was at the airport before i flew out to deploy to Iraq, make about 50 Chinese tourists giggle,
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