What should i do first in sex?!!

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    Feb 12, 2008 7:08 AM GMT
    Okay so im going out for gay sex in 2 nights... im going to meet this really hot guy at a shop in my town... and im still in hs.. so i cant just go off to a hotel... we have been talking and he seems kinda shy and not so sure.... but hes up for sex!... I mean i have had sex befor but not like this.. the guys were really outgoing and ready to take over.. what should i do first?.. should i rip his shirt off? or should i slowly kiss him?... what do i need to do to make him feel comfortable?
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    Feb 12, 2008 7:40 AM GMT
    LOL .. same here , I met this guy and we knew wer'e meeting only for sex ..but still it was a bit difficult to make the first move ...

    Here what I did : I talked to him to make him feel comfortable , offered him something to drink, asked him if he feels comfortable .. try to joke with hhim a bit .. and smile always to him ..

    Then I asked him: why are you sitting on the floor? ..
    he: where can I sit?
    me: come here ..(on my lap)
    then I held his hand ..felt them softly.. spoke to him in a low voice..
    Should I continue ??

    Most important you must feel comfortable and make him feel that you are close to him and not too anxious..

    You can always start with a kiss after talking.. be creative it'll come when it should..
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    Feb 12, 2008 12:34 PM GMT
    Just be natural.

    For starters, just talk about how you feel. It's nice to verbalize exactly that 'cos he might be feeling the same way.

    Then at any point something triggers a laughter, look at him straight in the eyes then slowly meet your lips with his.

    Practice in front of the mirror so you can study the lighting too. LOL

    Goodluck and Oi... keep us posted. xx
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    Feb 12, 2008 10:27 PM GMT
    This is a hard question to answer, I never really did much thinking before sex, I just did it based on the cues he was sending me! If he is shy then don't try to come across as overpowering or domineering. I am a very shy person and I found that a lover that was considerate was the best for me.

    There are several different things you could try first. I always liked starting off on the couch and slowly get into it (petting, kissing, etc.). Or starting off standing up and cupping the guys head with your hand and kissing him slowly, while using your other hand to start exploring icon_wink.gif
  • GQjock

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    Feb 12, 2008 11:24 PM GMT
    LOL...it's kinda like prepping yourself for learning how to fall down

    There's no real way to do it
    But...it's gonna happen anyway

    so make sure that you have the the most fun doin it

  • Timbales

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    Feb 13, 2008 2:01 AM GMT
    Do what comes natural, have fun and use condoms.
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    Feb 13, 2008 3:20 AM GMT
    The start button is between his legs, and yours. Press to engage.