deal breakers?

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    Jul 21, 2010 6:10 AM GMT
    so i have this big requirement in guys that i date that they have to have near perfect teeth. if a guy is cute, but with a jacked up grill (even something simple like an overbite) I just lose all interest. I know that's shallow but what can ya do? does anyone else have any weird turnoffs like something like this?
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    Jul 21, 2010 10:51 AM GMT
    Hmmm, physically no I dont, I once knew a cute guy who was born with one hand... Id still totally date em, he had a great personality... cliche, but true icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 21, 2010 11:05 AM GMT
    Hairy backs turn me off and there is nothing I can do to stay attracted to the guy.
  • Hokenshi

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    Jul 21, 2010 11:54 AM GMT
    That's a deal breaker?
    Physical stuff to me isn't really a deal breaker, unless someone is really over weight and it's more to do with a lack of them taking care of themselves(in some cases).

    I wouldn't date a smoker, I hate it. I think it's unhealthy, expensive and disgusting...there are other issues there as well. I've tried dating a smoker and it was a major issue.

    I'm currently living in a foreign country and meet pleanty of other foreigners so one issue is guys from any country where "gay marriage" isn't legal.
    I'm not saying I'm in a rush to get hitched but I don't see the point in entering into something serious if we're going to be pulled apart by government rulings. Why put effort into something that will fail.

    A guy whose not out to his family or has major family issues is a no-no too, family is REALLY important to me.

    So yeah, I guess the mental issues are the one that make me walk away rather than the physical.
  • Hokenshi

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    Jul 21, 2010 11:55 AM GMT
    Oh and dick piercings! (just to show I do have a more shallow side).
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    Jul 21, 2010 12:03 PM GMT
    The inability (or unwillingness) to flex is a total turn off for me. Even if the guy is totally fucking hot. In my warped little mind, there's no use having a jacked up bod if you're not gonna enjoy flexing it and having it worshipped. icon_wink.gif
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Jul 21, 2010 12:10 PM GMT
    Not really a deal breaker, but I'm not a big fan of guys not willing to do something related to the "gay scene". I kinda interpret it as not wanting to be associated with being gay.

    It's not going to kill you to go to a gay bar, let loose, and dance to some crappy pop music. Nor will it kill you to take in a musical. A gay book club. These things are ok.
  • cromi

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    Jul 21, 2010 12:26 PM GMT
    boring guys... im pretty boring so two guys doing nothing is uhm boring lol
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    Jul 21, 2010 12:29 PM GMT
    jlly_rnchr saidNot really a deal breaker, but I'm not a big fan of guys not willing to do something related to the "gay scene". I kinda interpret it as not wanting to be associated with being gay.

    It's not going to kill you to go to a gay bar, let loose, and dance to some crappy pop music. Nor will it kill you to take in a musical. A gay book club. These things are ok.


    I dont like crappy pop music and I only like the odd musical... add to that I dont dress well, I think Im a bit out of place icon_razz.gif I dont mind drag queen shows though, one of my oldest friends from the island is the host for the gay parties on the island, and she/he is a superb drag queen, those parties are totally the bomb,
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    Jul 21, 2010 12:30 PM GMT
    Dealbreakers?

    Meeting and he looks nothing like his pics

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  • JESIE

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    Jul 21, 2010 1:56 PM GMT
    no sense of humor
    no effort to stay healthy
    and laziness

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    Jul 21, 2010 2:07 PM GMT
    If he doesn't know how to kiss, he's gone! Nothing worse than a bad kiss in my books!
  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 21, 2010 4:46 PM GMT
    Smoking.

    And being a douche canoe.
  • pipsqueek

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    Jul 21, 2010 4:54 PM GMT
    Major political differences.
    A "Prince Albert"
    Unwillingness to hold hands.
    Smoking is pretty gross too, but I smoke weed, so you gotta be fair hehe
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    Jul 21, 2010 4:54 PM GMT
    My biggest deal breaker is an easy fix, if someone has long finger/toe nails I am turned off

    The way I see it is, if someone has time to spare to jerk off, then they should have time to cut their nails
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    Jul 21, 2010 7:06 PM GMT
    amar_m said
    jlly_rnchr saidNot really a deal breaker, but I'm not a big fan of guys not willing to do something related to the "gay scene". I kinda interpret it as not wanting to be associated with being gay.

    It's not going to kill you to go to a gay bar, let loose, and dance to some crappy pop music. Nor will it kill you to take in a musical. A gay book club. These things are ok.


    I dont like crappy pop music and I only like the odd musical... add to that I dont dress well, I think Im a bit out of place icon_razz.gif I dont mind drag queen shows though, one of my oldest friends from the island is the host for the gay parties on the island, and she/he is a superb drag queen, those parties are totally the bomb,


    Unfortunately for you, you are a little too young to have gone to gay bars when they had a little more variety than today. Back in the 80's and into part of the 90's there were more of those clubs with a big dark back room dance floor that played deep house, techno, or electronic music that was often wordless or had eccentric vocals instead of the pop divas like Madonna or Whitney. These less mainstream music gay clubs still exist today, just not in the numbers they once did.
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    Jul 21, 2010 7:19 PM GMT
    I wouldn't call this a dealbreaker, but I hate it when a guy wont acknowlegde me to others as his BF.

    Another turn off is monopolizing a conversation and not "hear" what I say and has to go as soon as he is done talking.

    Guess my only dealbreaker is someone who does drugs, pot i can handle once in awhile, but thats it.

  • maximumrisk

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    Jul 21, 2010 7:48 PM GMT
    The biggest Deal breaker I found so far and only once, was a guy I fell completly in love with, but he always had a facial expression as if he would be worn out. Something like Sylverster Stallone times 5. I know its shallow, but I just couldnt do it for long, besides the overwhelming love he had to give which I really couldnt handle.
  • havingfunmtl9...

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    Jul 21, 2010 9:32 PM GMT
    Wanting children ! My bf and I are ignoring the issue for now, but I do not want children and he wants at least two if not three. Its under the rug for the moment.. lol
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    Jul 21, 2010 11:00 PM GMT
    Okay, deal.
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    (I hope someone puts the pieces together and gets this...)
  • mybud

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    Jul 21, 2010 11:04 PM GMT
    Prejudice guys.....my deal breaker
  • BlackBeltGuy

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    Jul 21, 2010 11:43 PM GMT
    DEAL BREAKER:

    SMOKERS.

    also; haven't tried it but what i see I wouldnt be into a hook up as much if I saw that.... cock rings or dick piercings.
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    Jul 22, 2010 12:02 AM GMT
    bad breath
    smokers
    piercings-especially those in the dick
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    Jul 22, 2010 12:08 AM GMT
    justin67 saidso i have this big requirement in guys that i date that they have to have near perfect teeth. if a guy is cute, but with a jacked up grill (even something simple like an overbite) I just lose all interest. I know that's shallow but what can ya do? does anyone else have any weird turnoffs like something like this?



    Lol an Overbite...hahaha thats pretty shallow...

    I say smoking, is gross in my opinion... icon_idea.gif

    Take care of yourself, like being active and fit..i dont think thats much to ask




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    Jul 22, 2010 12:11 AM GMT
    Deal breakers; smokers, girly types, couch potatoes, toppers...LOLicon_rolleyes.gif