jlly_rnchr saidNot really a deal breaker, but I'm not a big fan of guys not willing to do something related to the "gay scene". I kinda interpret it as not wanting to be associated with being gay.
It's not going to kill you to go to a gay bar, let loose, and dance to some crappy pop music. Nor will it kill you to take in a musical. A gay book club. These things are ok.
I dont like crappy pop music and I only like the odd musical... add to that I dont dress well, I think Im a bit out of place
I dont mind drag queen shows though, one of my oldest friends from the island is the host for the gay parties on the island, and she/he is a superb drag queen, those parties are totally the bomb,