SAEMike saidI am not into the West Hollywood gay scene, and don't have many gay friends. It's hard finding other gay guys who are like me. I was wondering if anyone knows about a chill, non-pressure place where guys like me can go and hang out?
So, tell us what are you like, that other gay guys are not like you?
No offense to anyone, I should have worded my question better. I know there is a huge spectrum of gay men.
I had a friend (girl) who wanted to date me and I ended up telling her that I was gay and she responded with "if you don't want to go out with me just say so". I don't consider myself flamboyant nor a complete macho. In a scale from 1 - 10, 1 being your stereotypical flamboyant gay guy and 10 being completely macho I would say i am about a 8.
I have two gay friends who I can talk to, and for some reason they always want to dress me up in drag, put on makeup "teach me to catwalk," walkways calling me "gurl."
I am just looking for a group of guys to hang out with and be open with. I've got a bunch of straight friends who I am out to, but I can't really talk to about being gay, they just don't understand me.