college experience


  • Jul 21, 2010 12:30 PM GMT
    I'm planning on coming out in college.
    It's a new experience, new life, so why not?
    Has anyone decided to come out in college?
    If so, what was it like? (especially for a guys who tends to be more masculine)
    If not, than how did that work out for you?
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    Jul 21, 2010 12:44 PM GMT
    I came out 10 years before attending college.
    I went back in the closet during college just so I could get closer to the hot closeted college guys.
    It worked. icon_wink.gif

  • Jul 21, 2010 7:13 PM GMT
    haha lucky you
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    Jul 21, 2010 7:21 PM GMT
    Well, I'm not officially out yet... however, most of my fraternity brothers know that I'm gay now. ....and it's taken me 3 years for that, just because I didn't know how they would react.

    However, I know several people that have come out of the closet entirely and most people have been accepting. ...just, if you join a frat or anything, make sure they're cool with it before doing so.
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    Jul 21, 2010 9:00 PM GMT
    One of the main reasons It was easy for my coming out in college is cause I had awesome friends to support me no matter what. I consider myself masculine but with gay tendencies but no matter how I tried to hide it a number of people knew and weren't surprised.

    Make good friends dude. It makes a world of difference. But as for family its a whole different story. My mom didnt care and neither did my bro and sis as for my dad well we just pretend like it didnt happen. Which sucks but Id rather have that then not have him.
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    Jul 21, 2010 9:09 PM GMT
    first year i college, didn't tell anyone...
    i have great college mates, best in the world, i'm afraid they may act differently if i tell them...still scared, i'll keep it a secret

    i say make friends and don't tell them just yet. let them know that they can trust you because if you tell your friends that you are gay they may act weird thinking that you may try to see them naked and stuff.

  • Jul 21, 2010 10:31 PM GMT
    ya, i dont plan on announcing that I'm gay, only if I'm asked. i want people to get to know me before i come out to them