Size queens?

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    Jul 22, 2010 3:16 AM GMT
    What is up with gay dudes and wanting to know how big my dick is? I think I have a nice dick in size and shape and everything else. To me it's just the cherry on top though, not the whole package. Why is dick size so important to gay guys? Does it equate with masculinity or something else I'm missing? The size of a guy's dick is the last thing on my mind when I hit them up to chat.
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    Jul 22, 2010 7:20 AM GMT
    Agree with u guys fully
    Tho I do like the look of a cut cock especially when soft
  • Navyboy

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    Jul 22, 2010 8:15 AM GMT
    Size doesnt matter its what you do with it, im sorry but id rather have someone fun in bed , than some dude with 12" ramming it in
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    Jul 22, 2010 9:02 AM GMT
    realman77 saidWhat is up with gay dudes and wanting to know how big my dick is?
    Because the straight dudes are too scared to ask.
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    Jul 22, 2010 11:14 AM GMT
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    realman77 saidWhat is up with gay dudes and wanting to know how big my dick is?
    Because the straight dudes are too scared to ask.


    You said a mouthful! HA!
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    Jul 22, 2010 11:19 AM GMT
    But seriously, boys....

    Sexual activity is physical. A partner's physical attributes (as well as one's own) are all part of the package. People have preferences in that regard. Nothing wrong with that.

    If you are going to have a "casual" sexual encounter with someone (or decide not to), it makes sense to "size" them up first, doesn't it?
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    Jul 22, 2010 11:50 AM GMT
    TomTom504 saidBut seriously, boys....

    Sexual activity is physical. A partner's physical attributes (as well as one's own) are all part of the package. People have preferences in that regard. Nothing wrong with that.

    If you are going to have a "casual" sexual encounter with someone (or decide not to), it makes sense to "size" them up first, doesn't it?


    If it's good sex, it's more mental than physical. If your most sensitive g-spot is outside your brain, it's misplaced.
  • DanOmatic

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    Jul 22, 2010 12:01 PM GMT
    I think the preoccupation with size is pretty primative, and I mean that in the literal sense of the word. Size--not just penile--since the earliest days of human existence has been equated with (the perception of) strength and virility. When I run into guys for whom dick size is of paramount importance, I just consider them to be unevolved.
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    Jul 22, 2010 12:06 PM GMT
    ...nothing terminates a conversation quicker than someone asking me how big my dick is icon_rolleyes.gif....

    ...and the posting of dick and ass shots is another big turn off...the delete button is a very handy device in such situations...

    ...some fellas just don't get it - it is the whole package that counts...it is only then that you tend to like all the accessories...
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 22, 2010 12:09 PM GMT
    Ridiculous question and I'd never ask it even if I were single. It's none of my business (or anyone elses). If you have sex, you figure it out by experience....
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    Jul 22, 2010 12:44 PM GMT
    right or wrong
    straight guys want big tits
    gay guys want big dicks
    of course at the end of the day there is alot more to it

    Course some bottoms are so loose if your not john holmes "you need a board strapped to your ass to keep from falling in" lol.
    Bonus points if you know what movie that's quote is from????
  • rafiki87

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    Jul 22, 2010 12:50 PM GMT
    it's not the size of the wand that counts but the magic in it...
  • owen19832006

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    Jul 22, 2010 12:53 PM GMT
    size doest really matter as long as you know how to use it, some have a massive one and cant use it!
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    Jul 22, 2010 1:00 PM GMT
    It's gotta be bad etiquette to ask someone something like that isn't it?
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    Jul 22, 2010 1:21 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidCouldn't agree with you more! The worst is when someone's seen your pic's and then doesn't want to share because they don't think they stack up.. Since when is this a comparison contest? I love cocks of all shapes, colors and sizes... So guys, share and share a like.


    Mind if we share?!!!icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 22, 2010 1:36 PM GMT
    like the original post says, a nice cock is a nice cock. i was with someone once whose cock was about 5 inches, which was not fun, and i've been with guys who are about 8+. i like 8+ better.

    if your dick size comes up in chat, maybe it's just the other guy trying to get a visual, since you're not right there in front of him, showing it off.
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    Jul 22, 2010 1:52 PM GMT
    I get the size question often, too. I think my profile photos invite it. I think it's a usual aspect of sex chat so it doesn't bother me at all. BTW, every guy lies in response to the size question. The average in real life is 5-6 inches erect. The average on the net is 8-10. Go figure.
  • MuscPup

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    Jul 22, 2010 1:53 PM GMT
    Actually i prefer something average or smaller than average because its more comfortable (at least for me).
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    Jul 22, 2010 1:56 PM GMT
    Navyboy saidSize doesnt matter its what you do with it, im sorry but id rather have someone fun in bed , than some dude with 12" ramming it in
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    ha! you lying!icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 22, 2010 1:58 PM GMT
    NC3athlete saidI think the preoccupation with size is pretty primative, and I mean that in the literal sense of the word. Size--not just penile--since the earliest days of human existence has been equated with (the perception of) strength and virility. When I run into guys for whom dick size is of paramount importance, I just consider them to be unevolved.


    is it any more primitive than focusing on the perfect ceps,abs bis etc?


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    Jul 22, 2010 1:59 PM GMT
    seems to me you only knock size if you don't have any and wish you did. sorta like that lil ole fox who wanted the grapes
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    Jul 22, 2010 2:01 PM GMT
    because big dicks are hotter than small ones. does one need to explain it? why do you like athletic/fit guys better than morbidly obese ones? why do some like liquor better than beer, and others like beer better than liquor? why does anyone prefer anything over anything else?

    no one needs to justify or defend their preferences- and yes that even includes ethnic preferences in romance. live and let live guys. if you've been shot down because you tried dating a dude with a fetish for big cock, and yours looks like a ring finger, get over it and just keep looking for someone who is turned on by other attributes- don't begrudge the sizequeen for knowing what they like and for you not being it. i think THAT'S a bit "primitive" and even perhaps immature.
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    Jul 22, 2010 2:03 PM GMT
    czarodziej saidbecause big dicks are hotter than small ones. does one need to explain it? why do you like athletic/fit guys better than morbidly obese ones? why do some like liquor better than beer, and others like beer better than liquor? why does anyone prefer anything over anything else?

    no one needs to justify or defend their preferences. live and let live guys. if you've been shot down because you tried dating a dude with a fetish for big cock, and yours looks like a ring finger, get over it and just keep looking for someone who is turned on by other attributes- don't begrudge the sizequeen for knowing what they like and for you not being it. i think THAT'S a bit "primitive" and even perhaps immature.


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    Jul 22, 2010 2:39 PM GMT
    Being black! It gets on my fukking nerves like I dont have a brain. icon_razz.gif

    Sorry had to let it out....

    For me, I am not like a bottom and the idea of something the size of an arm going in my bum is Horrible. I ve bottomed before and average to above average works best for me. Huge cocks are good to look at thats it and jerking it, to see what comes out..heheheh
  • Regina_Guy

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    Jul 22, 2010 2:41 PM GMT
    I've never really been a size queen. Sure it's a nice surprise to undress a dude and find a big dick, but it's not a deal breaker for me. Personally, I like seeing cocks of all shapes and sizes! icon_biggrin.gif