Have You Been Somebody's First?

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    Feb 12, 2008 10:23 PM GMT
    I have never suffered from performance anxiety when it came to sex, from day one I took to it like a duck to water.

    There was one time though where I did feel a bit apprehensive. Back in August 1991 I met a 19-year old guy from Quebec City at Woody's in Toronto. We went back to my apartment and started fooling around. During the foreplay I found out that he was a virgin. I thought to myself, "holy shit this guy is going to remember this for the rest of his life!" I frankly found it a bit intimidating (just a bit mind you).

    I made sure I didn't rush things or pressure him into to doing something that he was not comfortable with. The sex was pretty good overall despite the difference in experience.

    Has anyone else on RealJock been someone else's "first", and did you have similar feelings?
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    Feb 13, 2008 1:07 PM GMT
    The question for me would be "should I tell someone he's my first and scare him into bad sex"? LOL

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    Feb 13, 2008 3:08 PM GMT
    My partner is Filipino, and although shy he didn't seem to have any performance anxieties when we first made love icon_lol.gif

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    Feb 13, 2008 7:19 PM GMT
    I've been someone's first before. Some of the pressure and anxiety was taken off because I found out before the fooling around. Way before the fooling around. The little twit told me that I had been specifically drafted to be his first.

    I'm not going to lie though, I was still completely terrified when it came down to it because it was something that he'd remember for a very long time and it needed to be done right...heh
  • helium

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    Feb 13, 2008 7:53 PM GMT
    That's the same with me and some of the guys I had in which I was their first. I still talk to one who I was their first. He's a nice guy and I would consider dating him if I lived out in FL.
  • BlackJock79

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    Feb 14, 2008 5:54 PM GMT
    I was one guys 1st. He was fucking HOT! Nice white guy, AMAZING body! I tried to give him one of my best performances. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 14, 2008 6:23 PM GMT
    BlackJock79 saidI was one guys 1st. He was fucking HOT! Nice white guy, AMAZING body! I tried to give him one of my best performances. icon_biggrin.gif


    What a nice guy you are! I am sure his introduction to gay sex was a memorable one, which is very important in my books! icon_wink.gif
  • Timbales

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    Feb 15, 2008 12:05 AM GMT
    I was the first for a two guys who had never been penetrated. Both were a little impatient, but really liked it once we got going.
  • Sirkit

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    Feb 15, 2008 1:12 AM GMT
    Yeah for a few people now. One was really bad, the other was really nice though we were in love at the time so...
  • GQjock

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    Feb 15, 2008 11:44 AM GMT
    Not first time at sex but I had two first timers when it came to gay sex

    One was a Jehovah's Witness icon_eek.gif

    Kinda fun bein the "instructor"
  • zakariahzol

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    Feb 17, 2008 12:17 PM GMT
    I was the first gay experience for my first live in lover. I flirt with him seduce him into coming to my room. He was real nervous, I dont even see his dick until a couple of days latter. Before that he is all but straight. It been 17 years since I last saw him, not sure if he remain gay or a straight now.
  • EricPrado

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    Feb 20, 2008 6:43 AM GMT
    GQjock saidNot first time at sex but I had two first timers when it came to gay sex

    One was a Jehovah's Witness icon_eek.gif

    Kinda fun bein the "instructor"












    one was a jehova's witness? lol
    how'd you get him in bed?
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    Feb 20, 2008 12:26 PM GMT
    It was 5 years ago and we were each other's firsts for anal. I was the top, he was the bottom. Neither of us were nervous. We were both excited. I think we were too horny to put the situation into the perspective of being the first time either of us had anal. We were 69ing and I was really gentle playing with his ass for a while to make sure he was comfortable and relaxed enough to get three fingers in pretty easily. When he was ready for my penis, he put his ass in the air and waved it side to side. After I mounted him, it lasted less than 30 seconds! He wasn't hard at all, but when I put my penis in him he got an instant hard-on and blew the biggest load I ever saw from him. He made me stop after that. I was so disappointed. What's worse, the condom kept me from feeling anything but tightness when I was in him during that short amount of time. Then he blew me and tried to make me cum for half an hour before he got tired. I didn't cum at all that night or the next morning. We didn't do anal again after that. Now he's a pretty aggressive bottom. Too bad he moved away.
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    Feb 26, 2008 2:19 AM GMT
    Once but we were both eleven at the time.