Grow-er vs. Show-er

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    Jun 03, 2007 9:58 AM GMT
    Guys, when I am not erected, I'm pretty small, and my penis is pulled into my foreskin (despite the fact that I'm circumsized). It's pretty embarrassing in the gym. It somehow makes me feel like a little boy instead of a man. However, when I'm fully aroused, I'm 6" or more. I just don't hang like other guys do when flacid.

    I've heard of this as being a "grow-er", as opposed to a "show-er" who is showy all the time, whose length and girth are always the same, but the only difference is how stiff the dick is.

    So does this matter? Should I be embarrassed? How many of you would actually not care, and find either erotic?

    Also, a lot of you guys have, in other forums, talked about how you're "big boys". I want to know what big is, and what monster is.

    Guess I just have penis envy. LOL.
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    Jun 03, 2007 12:31 PM GMT
    I'm also a grow-er, and I'm a little self-conscious about it. One thing I've noticed, though, is that show-ers don't seem to get as throbbingly hard as grow-ers. It's kinda cool to see a dick go from shrinkly to powerful and rock hard.
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    Jun 03, 2007 7:13 PM GMT
    I'm also a grower and I'm cool with it. I actually have seem other guys that are the same and think it's very sexy. I put on a cock ring for extra confidence sometimes if I know my bulge will be showing.
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    Jun 04, 2007 12:05 AM GMT
    i'm also a grower though when i'm flaccid i reckon it's proportional to my body so i've got no problems with my dick. I do nude modelling occasionally for my photography friends and the only time i'm self conscious is when the room is cold, i'm more worried if i'm too skinny or fat or if my stretch marks will show.

    but it's like one of those laws of attraction. if you draw attention to what you're hiding, people tend to notice more so if you don't give a crap then others tend to not to as well or as much. you got nothing to me embarrassed about, some fellas here i reckon just post up their dick size to stroke their ego

    penis size, i reckon 6-7.5" average, 7.5-8.5" large, 8.5"+ ex-large. girth wise if you can touch your thumb and pointer finger around your dick it's thin, 1cm apart average, 2cm apart thick
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    Jun 04, 2007 6:32 AM GMT
    Ah, aren't the mathematics of the cock precise and wonder-ful.
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    Jun 04, 2007 6:33 AM GMT
    Oh, stupid me, I forgot to ask. When you talk about dick size, I assume that you're talking about fully erected. Is that right?
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    Jun 05, 2007 1:53 PM GMT
    fully erect mate, yeah i've been 'round the block i'm afraid lol
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    Jun 06, 2007 1:49 AM GMT
    im more a show-er, unless its really cold. without wanting to brag here, im pretty big and it isn't always the best thing to have. im not in the business of hurting my partners.
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    Jun 06, 2007 10:35 PM GMT
    Why would you feel embarassed? If your lover/partner/boy friend is content, that is what counts.

    So guys appear big in the flacid state and once the blood flows to a full erection, the sizr does not change.

    Check out the penis exercises on another forum and you can losen up and extend the ligament that holds the penis up when erect.

    Remember that your penis always looks smaller when you are looking down at it.
  • GQjock

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    Jun 10, 2007 12:42 PM GMT
    as long as it works and you're having fun with it...I wouldn't fret none my man :)
  • NicoTheGreat

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    Jun 18, 2007 6:29 PM GMT
    I would have to agree with GQjock...if it's working, then simply enjoy it.

    While you can go back and forth between "size does not matter" and "size queen" it really doesn't matter.

    I know that it can be a bit of a self-esteem issue sometimes if you don't feel adequate in some departments, and that will always happen. To put it bluntly, there is always going to be someone bigger or better than you no matter what. Realizing that and understanding that you have to work with what you've got...that's all it comes down to.

    I myself am kinda unsure of what I am...a grower or a shower. I'm pretty big, and I've had guys tell me that by looking at me, they wouldn't be able to tell the difference. And that's fine. I'm happy with what I have, and I've never had any complaints by any of my partners.

    Bottom line...just be happy with what you have. There is always someone who will appreciate you for who you are, and not for who you want to be.
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    Jul 27, 2007 7:49 AM GMT
    all u guys have good points,but i am not sure what i am, i have a pretty large dick when its not erect and when i am erect its rock hard. so if any guy is like me and is a grow-er and a show-er gimme a holla and u can look at my pics and tell me what u think!

    but about the guys with large flacid dicks, i would rather have a small dick guy with a rock hard one rather than a softer big one.... i can speak from experience cause i was with this one guy who was fairly small and he could give it to u like u werent gona get it again.. holla guys.........