Chase or be chased?

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    Jul 24, 2010 6:15 AM GMT
    Okay, so if you knew 100% certainly that no matter what, you were going home with a handsome guy that you click with... would you rather chase him or be chased by him? ....or, be set up where you don't have to do either?

    Personally... hell yeah, I'd rather chase... it's all part of the fun. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 6:15 AM GMT
    I thought this was going to be about Chase bank. I'm more of a BoA and Wells Fargo kinda guy.
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    Jul 24, 2010 6:18 AM GMT
    hmmm... ya know... I don't think we have any chase banks in Mississippi.... actually, after checking google, it couldn't find any....so.... dang.
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    Jul 24, 2010 6:19 AM GMT
    Isnt it a bit of both? Id get hella tired of being only one ... especailly with another guy, id expect a little reciprocity, thank you very much

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    Jul 24, 2010 6:23 AM GMT
    On topic (gasp!), it's lose-lose for me. If I'm chasing I get bored as soon as I catch, if they're chasing I immediately lose interest.
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    Jul 24, 2010 6:24 AM GMT
    I prefer to be chased, that's more flattering.icon_lol.gif
  • GQjock

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    Jul 24, 2010 11:58 AM GMT
    I think it's more fun to chase right up to the point where the question will be asked and have the other guy take it from there icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 12:16 PM GMT
    I'm with Ciarsolo.

    Once I have caught it I usually want to throw it back in the water.
  • neosyllogy

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    Jul 24, 2010 1:31 PM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidOn topic (gasp!), it's lose-lose for me. If I'm chasing I get bored as soon as I catch, if they're chasing I immediately lose interest.


    So basically you only like coerced sex...?
    Well, some people are into that (or part of them is icon_razz.gif )

    Personally, I have only a little patience for the chase. If they don't go down right away I get bored. If they're the one chasing... eh, nothing wrong with it in principle. Usually just doesn't work.

    (My interest in sex or relationships tends to be fleeting, if something hasn't been cemented quickly, my interests will ususually move to something more edifying. And people can generally only chase you if you're not very interested to begin with, ya? Unless you play games, which I find boorish at best.)
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    Jul 24, 2010 2:10 PM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidI thought this was going to be about Chase bank. I'm more of a BoA and Wells Fargo kinda guy.
    BoA is crooked and Chase has snobs as employees.
    I like Wells Fargo, though. They've been good to me. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 2:16 PM GMT
    Chase bought-out WaMu; I had no choice in the mater.
  • Celticmusl

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    Jul 24, 2010 2:21 PM GMT
    Us chubbies like to be chased.
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    Jul 24, 2010 2:23 PM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidOn topic (gasp!), it's lose-lose for me. If I'm chasing I get bored as soon as I catch, if they're chasing I immediately lose interest.


    So the only guys you can truly stay interested in is the ones that appear to have no interest in you......Hmmmmmm
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    Jul 24, 2010 2:28 PM GMT
    amar_m saidIsnt it a bit of both? Id get hella tired of being only one ... especailly with another guy, id expect a little reciprocity, thank you very much

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    Ditto.
  • Celticmusl

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    Jul 24, 2010 2:34 PM GMT
    Eden said
    Celticmusl saidUs chubbies like to be chased.
    Not that we can run. icon_wink.gif


    We are but hopeless prey.
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    Jul 24, 2010 2:50 PM GMT
    I'm with amar. It should be a little of both. You want to put some effort but you also want the other party to put some effort as well.
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    Jul 24, 2010 2:51 PM GMT
    Hahah I'd like to keep him chasing along for just a little while ;)
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    Jul 24, 2010 3:27 PM GMT
    A little bit of both is fun, chase a bit and get chased a bit. That really gets me excited and makes my heart go Pop icon_smile.gif
  • Runningonempt...

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    Jul 24, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    I don't want to be the idiot to ask this, but if I don't then I'll never learn anything. What exactly do you mean by chase or be chased?
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    Jul 24, 2010 3:51 PM GMT
    Celticmusl said
    Ciarsolo saidOn topic (gasp!), it's lose-lose for me. If I'm chasing I get bored as soon as I catch, if they're chasing I immediately lose interest.


    So the only guys you can truly stay interested in is the ones that appear to have no interest in you......Hmmmmmm


    And that's probably the least fucked-up part about it!
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    Jul 24, 2010 3:53 PM GMT
    Ciarsolo said
    Celticmusl said
    Ciarsolo saidOn topic (gasp!), it's lose-lose for me. If I'm chasing I get bored as soon as I catch, if they're chasing I immediately lose interest.


    So the only guys you can truly stay interested in is the ones that appear to have no interest in you......Hmmmmmm


    And that's probably the least fucked-up part about it!


    LMAO

    And back on topic, I liked to be chased. icon_wink.gif
  • Runningonempt...

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    Jul 24, 2010 4:24 PM GMT
    Ive never been chased, or been the chaser
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    Jul 24, 2010 4:26 PM GMT
    I prefer to chase coz I always get chased by the weirdest peopleicon_sad.gif
  • JayDT

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    Jul 24, 2010 4:40 PM GMT
    I would rather be chased but I always end up doing the chasing. I guess I am just more aggressive.
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    Jul 24, 2010 4:51 PM GMT
    I can be the fox . be chased . icon_biggrin.gif