Ugh I'm bored with sex.

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    Jul 24, 2010 8:26 AM GMT
    Yes, I mean it. I'm bored, sex is still great but I've other things now that just seem sooo much more exciting, plus with everything I'm doing these days i really am tired all the freaking time, tired but happy and very excited..

    Poor fella the other night, I was so complacent sbout it, i told him, if he gets on and does all the work, ill stay hard, but I'm going to sleep once I'm done.

    He seemed to enjoy himself and i even put some energy into it, but really I enjoyed the sleep more hahahha

    Ugh let me sleep hahaha
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    Jul 24, 2010 8:58 AM GMT
    Me too. I cut my sexcapades by 80%, deleted half of my "Grindr" phone numbers, and 25% of my numbers overall. And I plan to get rid of more. I'm trying to figure out what life is like without constantly looking for sex, and I realize that looking for sex has got in the way of my life.
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    Jul 24, 2010 9:01 AM GMT
    JB82 saidMe too. I cut my sexcapades by 80%, deleted half of my "Grindr" phone numbers, and 25% of my numbers overall. And I plan to get rid of more. I'm trying to figure out what life is like without constantly looking for sex, and I realize that looking for sex has got in the way of my life.


    Just keep a few of the hot ones. preferably between 21 and 25, muscular and willing... ..

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    Jul 24, 2010 10:27 AM GMT
    Yall must be crazy, but then yeah, I never have sex, so its easy for me to talk lol
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    Jul 24, 2010 10:34 AM GMT
    You All need a Hug .
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    Jul 24, 2010 10:37 AM GMT
    yeah, I'm in the same boat. Haven't had or looking for sex in about 18 months! When I think about it, sounds like fun, but I'd just rather watch tv or take a nap. God, I sound boring. I'm glad to know there are others in the world that think of other things than just sex. Maybe I'll feel differently after our Gay pride is here (Vancouver Aug.1st). I shouldn't feel this way, as I'm only 35. Or should I?
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    Jul 24, 2010 10:44 AM GMT
    OK boys .....time to get the testosterone checked. Many men..all ages can have drops in testosterone levels due to stress, diet, genetics, etc.

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    Jul 24, 2010 11:24 AM GMT
    Meh, we all go through it. You'll be right back on the... er... horse... soon enough icon_smile.gif
  • GQjock

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    Jul 24, 2010 11:55 AM GMT
    Sex is something that requires no distractions
    when you have other things on your mind .... sex will take a backseat
    not that it ever goes away or that this will be permanent
    it's just a new set of priorities
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    Jul 24, 2010 11:56 AM GMT
    You're just in your winter hibernation phase.

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    See you in the spring.
  • beaujangle

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    Jul 24, 2010 12:54 PM GMT
    OMG, this thread is as contagious as a yawn!

    I too feel the same way because there are other stuff to enjoy and sex can take a backseat ...
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    Jul 24, 2010 1:03 PM GMT
    I wish I lived somewhere with enough eligible men so as to make it possible to have this problem. I just haven't had sex with someone I'm that attracted to for many months. But I am bored with having to settle for just barely okay-looking guys because that's all there is.
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    Jul 24, 2010 1:20 PM GMT
    Let it be written in the royal annals that lilTanker said: Yes, I mean it. I'm bored with sex! Gather together the elders of the tribe and discuss this turn of events. Perhaps it's a harbinger of addition queer acts of nature yet to come?!
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    Jul 24, 2010 1:28 PM GMT
    JB82 saidMe too. I cut my sexcapades by 80%, deleted half of my "Grindr" phone numbers, and 25% of my numbers overall. And I plan to get rid of more. I'm trying to figure out what life is like without constantly looking for sex, and I realize that looking for sex has got in the way of my life.
    In my case, life gets in the way of looking for sex.
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    Jul 24, 2010 1:37 PM GMT
    Poor Tanker...your tricks are just not getting the full impact of "you" in the sack! S.A.D. .....Seasonal Affective Disorder...go workout a bit more...LIFTING, not really cardio, and get outside to the sunlight, eat more complex carbs, keep HYDRATED and pump up the vitamins....particularly the B's, D, Calcium, magnesium, protein, H2O.... along with a regular schedule of SLEEP a....and your "wild side" will be back in overdrive!icon_lol.gif...is it a bad thing to set "bounds" for your tricks to have to work at their own pleasure? Sweet (WET) dreams!icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 1:40 PM GMT
    Yeah... I hear ya tank... I'm even not interested in facebook any more...
    I joined crapbook a year ago to help me find my host family from 18 years ago.. and it served its purpose.

    now, those that want to stay in touch, will.. those that dont... wont.

    It's not quantity...it's quality.

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    Jul 24, 2010 2:11 PM GMT
    Yet more evidence of the 2012 revelations.
    Tanker, Jake, who’s next…if Paul gets board with sex I’m heading to the cabin in the mountains.
  • Cdnontherun

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    Jul 24, 2010 2:30 PM GMT
    Maybe it isn't sex that is boring you, but empty sex. You just may be growing up.
  • trackrocks

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    Jul 24, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    I am going to go with what the guy above me said on this one!
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    Jul 24, 2010 2:59 PM GMT
    You will have plenty of time to contemplate the flowers when you are old. Fuck like rabbits now.
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    Jul 24, 2010 3:25 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidYes, I mean it. I'm bored, sex is still great but I've other things now that just seem sooo much more exciting, plus with everything I'm doing these days i really am tired all the freaking time, tired but happy and very excited..

    Poor fella the other night, I was so complacent sbout it, i told him, if he gets on and does all the work, ill stay hard, but I'm going to sleep once I'm done.

    He seemed to enjoy himself and i even put some energy into it, but really I enjoyed the sleep more hahahha

    Ugh let me sleep hahaha



    Sex is like chocolate cake; it tastes so good but after a few slices you don't want it anymore. When I was with my ex for the last 4 years of my life, we had sex only 10-15 times over that timeframe, mostly because he didn't like sex or would just lay there. So I really didn't like sex at all and thought it was a waste of time.

    But when we broke up and I found a muscular 21 year old at the gym, let's just say that chocolate cake was bursting with flavor.
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    Jul 24, 2010 3:35 PM GMT
    Cdnontherun saidMaybe it isn't sex that is boring you, but empty sex. You just may be growing up.


    Best response, I think...and Caslons's too!
    But seriously, guys. . at YOUR age?? Cummon now. Take advantage of your youth... trust me, it won't last forever!!!
    I don't think testoserone is the problem, though... maybe your libido.
    But, as I always say.... This Too Shall Pass. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 3:54 PM GMT
    Sex is designed biologically for procreation. So don't sweat your misalignment with the contemporary gay party line. Normal gay behavior iis just an instituted fantasy anyway.
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    Jul 24, 2010 4:13 PM GMT
    Dang Alfa, your cuts keep getting deeper and deeper; won’t be long before you have all of us wearing flak vests.

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    Jul 24, 2010 4:58 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidYes, I mean it. I'm bored, sex is still great but I've other things now that just seem sooo much more exciting, plus with everything I'm doing these days i really am tired all the freaking time, tired but happy and very excited..

    Poor fella the other night, I was so complacent sbout it, i told him, if he gets on and does all the work, ill stay hard, but I'm going to sleep once I'm done.

    He seemed to enjoy himself and i even put some energy into it, but really I enjoyed the sleep more hahahha

    Ugh let me sleep hahaha


    Yep I'm sure you are.
    Simple case of whoring yourself out too much. Anything in excess is bad.
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