i met the first guy from RJ, he was amazing~~~

  • frankyzhang

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    Jul 24, 2010 3:17 PM GMT
    i met the first guy from RJ today. we went hiking with other two people. that's fun!!!! hope to meet more guys from RJ, maybe we can have a community hereicon_lol.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 3:25 PM GMT
    I know how you feel. I just got back from Colorado where I met a guy I've been dating online since last March. We met on a different site, but it's all on the net. I wasn't the slightest bit worried that either of us would be surprised or disappointed because Jay and I have been webcamming on a daily basis since we first met. It was like meeting up with an old friend you haven't seen for a couple of years...total comfort on both sides!!
    The ONLY drawback, is that having touched him, cuddled and kissed just makes it harder to be apart. Hopefully that will change within the next few months...and we'll be together full time.
    BTW, Love your doggie!! I'm a groomer, and our four legged friends are my life and love!!! (next to my baby bear, of course)
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    Jul 24, 2010 6:44 PM GMT
    I wish there were more local folks on here. I need somebody to lift with haha!
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    Jul 24, 2010 6:51 PM GMT
    i've met several guys from this site, and they're all top notch people.
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    Jul 24, 2010 6:54 PM GMT
    dancerjack saidi've met several guys from this site, and they're all top notch people.


    Agree!
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    Jul 24, 2010 8:00 PM GMT
    I have met seven people from RJ and we really have hit it off.

    I think the site, not being a dating site, serves as a filter. Also, my seven experiences PROVE that generally, if a guy has lots of pictures on the site, and is verified, that he IS honest.

    I have pictures of several of the guys I have met on RJ on my Profile....
  • jgymnast733

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    Jul 24, 2010 11:05 PM GMT
    I'v met a few guys in person from RJ , i'm actually meeting one of my buddys tonight for the first time for drinks....he's a hot one ya'll...icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 11:26 PM GMT
    meh, ive ,met some sub-par ones, names withheld icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 11:31 PM GMT
    Really.... My experience so far has not been real great. How did it work and or happen for you all?icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 11:45 PM GMT
    I've met 6 guys from RJ, 5 visiting from out town, 1 a local. Just for drinks or dinner, not dating, my partner along with us. All nice guys, a couple of them back for "repeat appearances," even attending my birthday party in June.

    And I agree with fastprof, there are ways you can evaluate a guy from his profile with some degree of accuracy. His thread posts are also important to me. Even when I was still dating, I don't think I ever had a bad experience meeting guys from online, I suspect also because I can take my time and not be rushed. Versus bar hook-ups, which were the source of all my bad dates.

    Oh, and BTW, everyone's RJ pics were completely true & current, no tricks or surprises.
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    Jul 24, 2010 11:47 PM GMT
    I've met two guys from the site in person. In both cases they came across in person very much the same as they do online. And in both cases, they are great guys that I'd like to stay in contact with.

  • frankyzhang

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    Jul 25, 2010 12:53 AM GMT
    DFWguy saidReally.... My experience so far has not been real great. How did it work and or happen for you all?icon_eek.gif

    i think the thing is, it you meet a guy online, start with friends, dont expect or push too much. chat with the guy before you met him, see if there is anything in common between you two. then it would be any problem.
    well, the guy i met is not really a date. we are just hiking buddies, and he has a boyfriend, i have no interest in breaking into people's relationships. it's just cool to have someone to talk about our own things, share feeling, something you dont wanna share with heterosexual people. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 25, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    No, we've never met anyone. icon_redface.gif
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    Jul 25, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    Friendsrbetter saidI know how you feel. I just got back from Colorado where I met a guy I've been dating online since last March. We met on a different site, but it's all on the net. I wasn't the slightest bit worried that either of us would be surprised or disappointed because Jay and I have been webcamming on a daily basis since we first me. It was like meeting up with an old friend you haven't seen for a couple of years...total comfort on both sides!!
    The ONLY drawback, is that having touched him, cuddled and kissed just makes it harder to be apart. Hopefully that will change within the next few months...and we'll be together full time.
    BTW, Love your doggie!! I'm a groomer, and our four legged friends are my life and love!!!


    Awww that's a really cute story!
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    Jul 25, 2010 12:58 AM GMT
    frankyzhang saidi met the first guy from RJ today. we went hiking with other two people. that's fun!!!! hope to meet more guys from RJ, maybe we can have a community hereicon_lol.gif
    You're a little late. There's already a community here. Welcome to it, and congrats on your first meet-up! icon_biggrin.gif

    I've met a few RJ'ers. All were cool. This site is definitely where the "Mr. Rights" are.
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    Jul 25, 2010 1:01 AM GMT
    Bullshit. I've been here for years and not one single hot sexy guy wanted to meet up with me... wait... was yours hot and sexy? icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 25, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
    I've met numerous guys and they've all been super nice. Met one for lunch last week and was not even surprised at how nice he was, his reputation had already preceded his arrival icon_smile.gif Thanks Kurt.
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    Jul 25, 2010 1:05 AM GMT
    A1EX saidBullshit. I've been here for years and not one single hot sexy guy wanted to meet up with me... wait... was yours hot and sexy? icon_confused.gif
    That's because they know they're not as hot and sexy as you, and feel self-conscious about it.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 25, 2010 1:06 AM GMT
    Excellent. Glad you are here with us and that you had a chance to meet another
    RJer. I've met several and have a number as friends. Its a great site.
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    Jul 25, 2010 2:22 AM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidExcellent. Glad you are here with us and that you had a chance to meet another
    RJer. I've met several and have a number as friends. Its a great site.



    Well, as Chris said, it's a great site. Chris is the only one I have met in person so far. He is looking mighty sexy in that garden tub --- don't you just love my photography work? I've been fortunate to be able to take several pictures for him.
  • Celticmusl

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    Jul 25, 2010 2:30 AM GMT
    I've also met a few local guys from this site, and once again all were top notch, top shelf, sincere and sweet guys. Most I just bumped into at gay events or, believe it or not, one time a straight bar.

    I think it would be an honor if at some point I wound up in an LTR with someone from RJ.......... a girl can dream.
  • HOTWEILLER

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    Jul 25, 2010 6:48 AM GMT
    I never had this luck...

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    Jul 25, 2010 3:57 PM GMT
    I've not met atone from this site. But that has something to do with me, not them. I tend to idolize guys with muscular physiques and so I tend to say dumb things or inappropriate things. That, and the fact that I'm none to graceful in meeting people initially. I get tongue tied. Not too swift unless I'm really comfortable.
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    Jul 25, 2010 4:12 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    A1EX saidBullshit. I've been here for years and not one single hot sexy guy wanted to meet up with me... wait... was yours hot and sexy? icon_confused.gif
    That's because they know they're not as hot and sexy as you, and feel self-conscious about it.

    To put this on a more serious plane, of course that's not what we're talking about here, just meeting RJers on a friendly basis. Hell, I'm the antithesis of hot & sexy, and if that was a requirement I wouldn't even step outside my door.

    So I hope no one here would misunderstand, joking or not, and start making decisions to meet or not based on relative hotness. I mean, unless you really are thinking in terms of dates, hook-ups & boyfriends, which I don't think was the initial intent of this thread.
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    Jul 25, 2010 4:17 PM GMT
    I wish I could meet alot of you all...imagine the convo