Ahhhh...he's just average

  • mybud

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    Jul 24, 2010 8:13 PM GMT
    I went with some friends to a pool yesterday...I saw this guy mid thirties...he was carrying about 5 pounds around his belly...pleasant...fairly handsome features..One the the females commented he's average...it made me think...damn average can be fucking hot....I'm wondering if others feel this way?...If they see a guy who may not be perfect body wise and can see past that...I did yesterday...Perfect or not I would have hit it...What do you guys think?....BUD
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    Jul 24, 2010 8:33 PM GMT
    compared to some of the stunning early 20 somethings I have, erm, known, I am pretty "average".

    Sexy is not about body fat percentage icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 24, 2010 9:34 PM GMT
    Eh, I don't have a remarkable body, but what I do have is a shit load of personality and even more confidence and self assurance.

    I pull guys that some shallow people think are well outta my league, but then, I also go after guys that again, the shallows think aren't nearly hot enough for me..

    It's all very funny, ya know what, if you like the guy, screw what anyone else thinks, its not about them they just wish it was!!
  • DCEric

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    Jul 24, 2010 9:37 PM GMT
    lilT, ain't no one out of your league.
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    Jul 25, 2010 12:36 AM GMT
    mybud said ..One the the females commented he's average..


    One of the females is shallow.

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    Jul 25, 2010 12:38 AM GMT
    mybud saidOne the the females commented he's average...it made me think...

    Without seeing her, I'm guessing she was probably a 4 herself looking to score an 8+. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 25, 2010 12:48 AM GMT
    The Ordinary is Extraordinary , icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 25, 2010 12:49 AM GMT
    To me average guys have the appeal of looking attainable... I won't fantasize about guys out of my league! But then I find everyone else also thought they are more approachable, and these average guys end up becoming less approachable because they are busy trying to deal with the attention coming from people who though they were more approachable.
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    Jul 25, 2010 12:53 AM GMT
    and how ugly was she?
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    Jul 25, 2010 1:34 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidEh, I don't have a remarkable body, but what I do have is a shit load of personality and even more confidence and self assurance.

    I pull guys that some shallow people think are well outta my league, but then, I also go after guys that again, the shallows think aren't nearly hot enough for me..

    It's all very funny, ya know what, if you like the guy, screw what anyone else thinks, its not about them they just wish it was!!


    lilTanker, you are pure sex appeal, it's in your eyes! Just for the record...
  • Timbales

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    Jul 25, 2010 1:47 AM GMT
    I think that personality is a key component in attractiveness.
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    Jul 25, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    My friends and I have had that experience. We'll meet someone at a party who looks like just an "average guy," but after we're alone, we'll agree that there's just something sexy about him, that "it" factor.
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    Jul 25, 2010 1:55 AM GMT
    I like average guys. >__>

    More than guys that are built like crazy even.
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    Jul 25, 2010 2:02 AM GMT
    I prefer average looking, average bodied guys... I find them extremely sexy, and very manly! It's really hot to see a dude with muscles and a small beer belly ;) I'm not shallow at all.
  • oursirpeace

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    Jul 25, 2010 2:06 AM GMT
    Timberoo saidI think that personality is a key component in attractiveness.

    Damn skippy! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 25, 2010 2:07 AM GMT
    Oh c'mon, perfection at all costs or the dude's a complete loser. That's why all of us are suicidal, right?
  • Celticmusl

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    Jul 25, 2010 2:14 AM GMT
    It's neither good or bad, but I think women tend to like different things about a man than a gay man likes in another man.

    Maybe she was talking about his "average" bank account.
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    Jul 25, 2010 2:36 AM GMT
    My most recent ex is quite a handsome guy. One of the reasons he broke up with me was "I still want to have fun while I have this face"... I'll never let that go. He was never less attractive to me then at that time.
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    Jul 25, 2010 2:43 AM GMT
    Lostboy said Sexy is not about body fat percentage icon_rolleyes.gif


    Couldn't have said it better myself!
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    Jul 25, 2010 3:25 AM GMT
    My friends would comment along the same lines about my ex... to me he was perfect, beautiful, handsome and sexy... and he still is all of those things to me...
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    Jul 25, 2010 3:36 AM GMT
    Luckily she didn't trip over the collagen in her lips or the oversized implants in her chest....just guessing.
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    Jul 25, 2010 3:41 AM GMT
    "average" in america now is obese since the obesity rate is over 25% for adults
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    Jul 25, 2010 4:35 AM GMT
    At the recent Pride parade here in Toronto, (my first ever) the standard "hot" guys got old really fast. I noticed the majority of them looked the same, but what struck me as odd was the fact that most of them were dating someone who looked just like them.

    The one guy that I met that day and I've taken a fancy to, is what other people would consider average, but he's completely adorable to me.

    Now only he would answer my email.icon_evil.gif
  • NerdLifter

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    Jul 25, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    I'm growing increasingly confused as to what "average" means; to every other person it means something completely different.
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    Jul 25, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    There are guys who are average in physical appearance who far excel average in personality. I would agree that average can be freaking hot.