How to be polite with a trick when theres a sexual issue

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    Jul 24, 2010 10:39 PM GMT
    I have had a sensitive issue come up last week. I was with this incredibly hot stud and i went to give head and his uncut cock reeked. I didnt know how to stop things so I gave it a shot and found it tasted really bad. So I just kinda stopped head and let him do shit to me. He said after I seemed disinterested and disconnected from him. I do like him and want to see him again but how do I tell him his personal hygiene sucks without making him embarrassed or turned off of me?
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    Jul 24, 2010 10:46 PM GMT
    It maybe his diet? try having a shower or bath with him (I love doing this with my partner and his cock smells dick-a-licious no matter what!....... give his cock a good soaping! he will love it! make out its a big turn on of yours!icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 25, 2010 9:03 PM GMT
    The shower idea could work but what if we have sex in odd places like his car or a stairwell lol. Its a pain in the ass to get him to bathe every time i wanna suck him off. Maybe I should move on haha
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    Jul 25, 2010 9:12 PM GMT
    jocktalk_TO saidThe shower idea could work but what if we have sex in odd places like his car or a stairwell lol. Its a pain in the ass to get him to bathe every time i wanna suck him off. Maybe I should move on haha


    you have to tell him, otherwise he´s going to have this issue forever
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    Jul 25, 2010 9:25 PM GMT
    I once was about to blow an uncut guy, and his cheese was massive, I mean positively caked on. I simply said to wait a minute, went into the bathroom and got a wet washcloth, came back and proceeded to clean him off.

    He didn't say a word. If he had I would have sent him packing.

    I am always in charge, in that you either meet my standards or one of us leaves. And you are free to do the same with me.

    Don't EVER accept something you don't want to do.

    I've used the tactic Jamesuk mentions, of having a shower first. Usually we'd be coming back from a gay club to my place, and smelling of cigarette smoke from there.

    I'd tell him I needed a shower to rid myself of the smoking stench, and I never had a guy refuse to join me. In the shower I'd clean his dick myself, especially if he was uncut, and give it some preliminary sucking.

    Back in bed, all would be well. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 25, 2010 9:25 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidyou have to tell him, otherwise he´s going to have this issue forever


    Yeah. That is the only way. A polite line like "I find you really hot and I had a good time with you last week. I would love to do it again but I had a little problem. I really like squeaky clean guys. Like, fresh out of the shower clean. It is just a preference of mine. So, I would love to go down on you after a hot shower."

    That way, it isn't all about his poor hygiene and rancid cock and more about your preference for cock that doesn't taste like a dumpster.
  • xebec75

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    Jul 25, 2010 9:46 PM GMT
    You should say something Ike this...

    You have...
    MunchingZombie said poor hygiene and rancid cock and {I prefer} cock that doesn't taste like a dumpster.
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    Jul 27, 2010 3:22 AM GMT
    My question is: Why would any practicing gay man allow his cock to become so bad? Do ppl not see how bad it can get or smell it? Hell if I can from just pulling down the undies how can the guy not?

    Sometimes Im happy to be cut cuz I dont have to be self conscious of any smells down there other than sweaty balls after a hard workout!
  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 28, 2010 8:59 AM GMT
    jocktalk_TO said
    Sometimes Im happy to be cut cuz I dont have to be self conscious of any smells down there other than sweaty balls after a hard workout!


    If you shower once a day with the foreskin pulled back, you should not have any dumpster-dick problems. This guy just has bad hygiene, and if you don't tell him, it'll be an issue for all of his future partners. It's your duty as a responsible sexual partner to mention it, and it's his responsibility as a sexually-active adult to listen and then change his bathing habits.
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    Aug 01, 2010 5:33 PM GMT
    This thread made me throw up in my mouth a little.

    I'm not particularly queasy, but... icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 01, 2010 9:39 PM GMT
    jocktalk_TO saidThe shower idea could work but what if we have sex in odd places like his car or a stairwell lol. Its a pain in the ass to get him to bathe every time i wanna suck him off. Maybe I should move on haha


    Always always carry around individually packaged moist towelettes. Tear open one of those babies and clean the guy yourself......whatever you put your mouth on will be sanitized and rank smells are gone.
  • rnch

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    Aug 01, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    KissingPro said....Always always carry around individually packaged moist towelettes. Tear open one of those babies and clean the guy yourself......whatever you put your mouth on will be sanitized and rank smells are gone.


    Yup!! i keep 'em in the bedside nightstand, next to the lube, condoms and poppers.

    give a trick a good cleaning, breathe gently on the swabbed down area and watch 'em squirm! icon_wink.gif

  • Aug 02, 2010 3:22 AM GMT
    I once got a blowjob from a guy who'd used mouthwash not more than 10 minutes before hand, and you sure as hell can bet I told him my cock felt like it was on minty fire. The next time we messed around he still had great breath, but it wasn't a danger to my penis.

    Seriously, people appreciate it when you tell them this stuff. If they're even halfway decent lovers then they have an earnest desire to make you feel good. So they'll take whatever you say into consideration. Good sex is based on telling people what works and what doesn't.
  • Beeftastic

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    Aug 02, 2010 9:07 AM GMT
    I kind of like that minty fresh coolness on my cock when a guy sucks me after using mouthwash icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 10, 2010 5:41 AM GMT
    Im sorry, truth hurts, but tell him whats wrong.