30s & 40s guys are just..better!

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    Jul 26, 2010 2:02 PM GMT
    Just my opinion but men in their 30s and 40s ("older guys" whatever that means) are superior partners in every way I can think of. Physically more mature bodies, nicer skin tone more developed muscles generally. In correlation with age, older means more experience which translates, usually, to more intelligent. More confident, less flakey, learned more so they are more interesting right off the bat. Other than being more convincing liars because of experience I can't think of a single reason anyone online would ever write "under 30 only" on a profile.

    This seems logical to me, it's just a fact. Not sure why any guy in his 30s or 40s is neurotic about finding dates/hookups/relationships. You're in your prime. It's young guys like me who should be jockeying for a 30 or 40 y/o stud's attention.
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    Jul 26, 2010 3:18 PM GMT
    yes they are. love their mature bodies and the fact that they are older and more experienced makes me feel safe being with them.
    i don't feel very attracted to young guys, if at all. only like sweet, fuzzy, older guys

    i'm always looking for their attention as you said, it's just that most of the times they are chasing me.
    i have a 43 yo bf and i just couldn't see a better scenario
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    Jul 26, 2010 7:13 PM GMT
    I dunno. I find that most guys in their 30's don't like to date each other. Guys in the early 30's chase after guys in their 20's. And guys in the late 30's chase after guys in their 40's. Guys in their mid-30's are in kinda in limbo. icon_lol.gificon_confused.gif
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    Jul 26, 2010 8:02 PM GMT
    With age, you can sometimes become a little more cynical about things. And it's always refreshing when you meet someone who's not. The issue with 20-year-olds is that they may not be ready for a relationship yet. While a 30-year-old eventually will be seeking such.
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    Jul 26, 2010 8:04 PM GMT
    i find that my 40-something bf is MUCH more enjoyable and sexy than some skinny, vain, self-absorbed 20-something kid. icon_exclaim.gif
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    Jul 26, 2010 8:22 PM GMT
    Don't forget their salt & pepper hair, deep voices, beautiful faces... *Sigh* okay I should stop now if I don't wanna cum icon_razz.gif
  • jgymnast733

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    Jul 26, 2010 8:57 PM GMT
    I somehow attract the 20somethings a great deal and i'm not sure why?, yeah we screw around and all but the guys i meet in their 30's , 40's or even 50's want an instant relationship...... I'm all for relationships but dont put a ring on my finger after only 1 or 2 dates......give it some time, then we'll see.....
    Guess i just dont like rushing into things, and i hope and pray i havnt sent THE ONE packing...
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    Jul 26, 2010 9:03 PM GMT
    marcobruno1978 said The issue with 20-year-olds is that they may not be ready for a relationship yet. While a 30-year-old eventually will be seeking such.


    Quite often it is rather the opposite, in my experience. Younger guys are quicker to fall in love.
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    Jul 27, 2010 1:32 AM GMT
    viveutvivas said
    marcobruno1978 said The issue with 20-year-olds is that they may not be ready for a relationship yet. While a 30-year-old eventually will be seeking such.


    Quite often it is rather the opposite, in my experience. Younger guys are quicker to fall in love.
    Same here. I'm 39 and happier single than I ever was in a relationship.
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Jul 27, 2010 1:38 AM GMT
    YES I love guys in their 30's and 40's icon_biggrin.gif but I also like younger guys too I mean if you're hot, you're hot
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    Jul 27, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
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    Jul 27, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    C_J35 saidicon_wink.gif
    oHai! How YOU doin? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 27, 2010 1:56 AM GMT
    I'm partial to guys in their 30's-40's too, but I know of a lot of guys in their 20's that are just as masculine and intelligent.

    I'm still confused as to why some consider guys in their 30's old or older?icon_confused.gif
    When I think of age 30, I think of it as "your first year as a man" lol.
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:00 AM GMT
    When I wrote 30s guys i meant late 30s because I actually think that guys in their early 30s have often just entered into a new stage of financial establishment and social prosperity and so they are more inclined to be the youthfully arrogant ones in a relationships. As for 20s guys, yeah of course they can be hot in a really obvious way but late 30s and 40s guys have a subtler sexiness that appeals to instinctual needs as well as physical wants. Older guys have more potential to be trustworthy and honest, not that they all fulfill that potential, but intimacy and security are attractive qualities.

    And besides who could say no to this..

    ross-hurston-001.jpg
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:00 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    C_J35 saidicon_wink.gif
    oHai! How YOU doin? icon_biggrin.gif


    Ha Ha! Hey what's up?
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:02 AM GMT
    WolfRain saidI'm still confused as to why some consider guys in their 30's old or older?icon_confused.gif


    Yeah really that needed to be said. How is 30 old?
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:03 AM GMT
    LucasJames said
    WolfRain saidI'm still confused as to why some consider guys in their 30's old or older?icon_confused.gif


    Yeah really that needed to be said. How is 30 old?



    I don't think its old at all, it's just not young anymore
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:04 AM GMT
    rnch saidi find that my 40-something bf is MUCH more enjoyable and sexy than some skinny, vain, self-absorbed 20-something kid. icon_exclaim.gif


    yeah i find your partner much enjoyable too. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:10 AM GMT
    Thanks, LucasJames for your kind words re my generation! I don't think I had enough stability in my life until my early 30s to enter into a real longterm relationship. Now that I am in my mid 40s, I met a wonderful man 11 years younger, and we are very happy. My BF has always liked "older" men, and I am actually a bit young for him, so I think he would agree with you on your observations and conclusions.
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:12 AM GMT
    As a guy that just turned 40, I am really digging this thread. Keep up the positive posts and I will keep working out.....icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:18 AM GMT
    I agree with everything the OP wrote! icon_smile.gif
  • curve

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    Jul 27, 2010 2:22 AM GMT
    don't knock it "till you tried it...

    if you go for just the superficial wrapping and not what's inside, too... you could be missing out on something great.
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:28 AM GMT
    LucasJames saidWhen I wrote 30s guys i meant late 30s because I actually think that guys in their early 30s have often just entered into a new stage of financial establishment and social prosperity and so they are more inclined to be the youthfully arrogant ones in a relationships. As for 20s guys, yeah of course they can be hot in a really obvious way but late 30s and 40s guys have a subtler sexiness that appeals to instinctual needs as well as physical wants. Older guys have more potential to be trustworthy and honest, not that they all fulfill that potential, but intimacy and security are attractive qualities.

    And besides who could say no to this..

    ross-hurston-001.jpg


    HOT DAMN icon_twisted.gif

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    Jul 27, 2010 2:34 AM GMT
    Damn I know, it's Ross Hurston. I'm gonna hands-free cum in my shorts watching him fuck like a champ
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:51 AM GMT
    i have to agree and also add the 50s!

    Love older guys *_*