I am sick of not knowing or being able to tell if all of these guys that I pass by are straight or not...it makes me afraid to make any moves or to even entertain the possiblity of initiating something. In short, it keeps me lonely and pent up to myself FOREVER. How will you ever know if you get shut down by this obstacle constantly? Its not as if guys who are into the possiblity of other guys wear a sign on their forhead. I think the possiblity of rejection is just so humiliating. That's really what it is..and so I never give myself the chances that could bring something really amazing into my life to happen. I refuse to settle for the only way meeting a guy is to go to gay bars/clubs and pick from the pool there.
I know others on this site have had this issue...please share what you did about it? Have you ever took a chance and just initiated something with a really cute guy even though you weren't sure he was gay?