The guy that everyone wants---- Try this instead of that----- HOT vs Average

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    Jul 27, 2010 2:52 PM GMT
    Here is an analogy

    Stop wanting this for a change

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    Although Dapper is super tasty...

    and try this sometimes.......

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    You can get much more out of it!! icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 27, 2010 2:57 PM GMT
    joe_margliano.jpg TRY HIM


    Instead of

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    HUM its kind of hard for me to go for the average joe...icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 27, 2010 4:38 PM GMT
    i'm not sure i understand what you're asking of people.

    i take that back...

    in my blog i criticize the gay-for-pay scene within adult entertainment. so, yes, i am critical of gay men who fixate on straight men; however, i take that position, because of the political ramifications of disempowering lgbt beauty for the benefit of reinforced heteronormativity.

    are you saying that people should be less superficial? if so, it's a valid point (and speaks to the point i make about setting oneself up for failure in desiring straight men, and can also be damaging to self esteem)... but is it realistic, especially on a fitness site, to ask people to "lower their standards?"

    it's not that i disagree with you.

    but there is a difference between wanting someone who is fit and wanting someone who is straight. although both may ultimately lead to rejection, are they the same? i think they might be, the more i write this, but could you clarify what your analogy IS? (especially when you yourself say you have trouble being attracted to "average" men)