What's the longest you've ever gone?

  • yogadudeSEATT...

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    Feb 14, 2008 4:05 PM GMT
    Not talking about not having sex here, guys. Talking about not cumming. Here's my thinking:
    Sexual energy is the most powerful energy our bodies produce. On a cosmic level, sexual energy manifests as creative energy, the energy of life, the most powerful energy in the universe.
    So yeah, it feels great to shoot, but then with that load goes all that energy. I like to work it up, save it, and then work with it in other aspects of my life, ie. creative projects, working out, better focus, et.
    So back to my question. What's the longest you've ever gone without blowing a load and how did you feel?
    I'm on day 10. I've had sex half a dozen times over the past week and a half, but have saved it each time. I feel great. My senses are heightened, my yoga practice has been awesome, and my energy level has been through the roof.
    Would love to hear from other guys who also experiment with this.
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    Feb 14, 2008 4:11 PM GMT
    I have gone several days, almost a week without going. (partner out of town) I think if you wait too long you will have a nocturnal emission. Your body must relieve itself from the DSB. (Deadly Sperm Backup) icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 14, 2008 4:14 PM GMT
    Well I'm not sure if this is exactly the same thing, but I actually gave up sex completely for Lent. I am on day 9 and I feel great. I have really had the chance to focus on other things like working out and writing, so I feel it's been a positive experience so far. Then again, I have 31 more days to go. icon_confused.gif

    BTW: I'm new here and I love it already.
  • BlackJock79

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    Feb 14, 2008 4:30 PM GMT
    How long have I gone without cumming during sex... lets see... I've had sex for at least 25 or 30 minutes before without cumming, I think that's as long as I have been able to hold it. BUT, that was when I had already had sex twice just minutes before. Time #1 cum in 5 minutes, Time #2 cum in 10-15 minutes, #3 cum in 25-30 minutes. I even went for round #4, I think we were screwing for at least 2 hours, I have no idea how the guy I was screwing entire asshole did NOT fall out. He was a machine, I'm still amazed at him! I've even just screwed the hell outta the bottom I was with and didn't cum at all, I just made sure he came.
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    Feb 14, 2008 5:02 PM GMT
    handsomenyjock saidWell I'm not sure if this is exactly the same thing, but I actually gave up sex completely for Lent.




    I did that 2 years ago, and made it to 90 days!icon_eek.gif
    On the 91st day, the earth shuck for a moment but it was releasing after so long that felt oh so good.
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    Feb 14, 2008 5:57 PM GMT
    Well at least it's been done before. I was starting to think I was venturing into uncharted territory. That gives me encouragement that the impossible can be done. LOL
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    Feb 15, 2008 7:08 AM GMT
    22 years icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 15, 2008 7:17 AM GMT
    Good god there will be a tsunami when you cum!!!!!
  • GQjock

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    Feb 15, 2008 11:40 AM GMT
    LOL...
    There was a scene in Scary Movie where a teen aged guy cums and it's this monster explosion that hits the ceiling
    I almost fell on the floor
    Hysterical

    Mainly because as a gay man who's hit some dry patches sometimes I kinda can relateicon_rolleyes.gif
  • zakariahzol

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    Feb 17, 2008 12:24 PM GMT
    When I was attending some course of team building last month, I dont come about 4 days. When I am backpacking I probably abstained around 3 to 4 days. I guess that is about as long as it go for me. Any longer I start feeling my body temperature kinda go up, I cant focus on my job. It feel so good to have one heavy satisfying sex after a couple of day of abstaining. I can feel the wind blowing on my ears, my mind become clearer and my energy recharged.
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    Feb 17, 2008 10:55 PM GMT
    After some time...you end up having nocturnal emissions (like after 2 weeks to 3 weeks) so if its gonna come out anyways...you might as well enjoy iticon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 17, 2008 11:01 PM GMT
    I was sick in the summer of 1995 with hepatitis, didn't have an orgasm for at least 7 weeks (probably more). After i got better I found out I had a prostate infection so the orgasm feel that good!

    Besides that time, probably a week at least. When I finally did have an orgasm it was pretty intense. Did I feel different not having an orgasm? Yes, but not necessarily better.
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    Feb 17, 2008 11:21 PM GMT
    nysexy saidAfter some time...you end up having nocturnal emissions (like after 2 weeks to 3 weeks) so if its gonna come out anyways...you might as well enjoy iticon_biggrin.gif


    Couldn't agree more icon_biggrin.gif
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Feb 17, 2008 11:50 PM GMT
    Sedative14 said22 years icon_wink.gif


    Try 32 years icon_redface.gificon_eek.gificon_wink.gif
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Feb 17, 2008 11:53 PM GMT
    Cant go 2 days now icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 18, 2008 5:38 AM GMT
    nysexy saidAfter some time...you end up having nocturnal emissions (like after 2 weeks to 3 weeks) so if its gonna come out anyways...you might as well enjoy iticon_biggrin.gif


    Busted my very first nut at age 10 and have not consiously gone more than about 10 days since then...and yeah, NYSEXY is right! It will come out as a wet dream anyways so enjoy yourself.... I find it to be a good stress reliever and a good pre-bedtime relaxation technique.....TMI?icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 18, 2008 5:42 AM GMT
    It's not a bank...you dont get anything by saving it. .. icon_lol.gif

    I actually had the opposite experience. I had to release myself...sometimes 6 times a day...in order to eliminate the sex drive long enough to get something else done.

    I was a slave to that thing. ... icon_redface.gif
  • helium

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    Feb 18, 2008 6:45 AM GMT
    Longest I have gone without cumming was about 7 days. After I came that out, I felt relaxed and then passed out on my then BF's bed for awhile.

    Now I have to cum at night to help me sleep and once in awhile in the morning to get me going. icon_twisted.gif Heh heh heh.
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    Feb 18, 2008 9:39 PM GMT
    Caslon saidIt's not a bank...you dont get anything by saving it. .. icon_lol.gif

    I actually had the opposite experience. I had to release myself...sometimes 6 times a day...in order to eliminate the sex drive long enough to get something else done.

    I was a slave to that thing. ... icon_redface.gif


    Caslon, did you by chance happen to video tape any of those 6 times per day? Ahhhhh.... I have VISA, MC or check ready. LOL icon_wink.gificon_lol.gif
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    Feb 22, 2008 3:49 AM GMT
    Caslon saidI actually had the opposite experience. I had to release myself...sometimes 6 times a day...in order to eliminate the sex drive long enough to get something else done.

    I was a slave to that thing. ... icon_redface.gif


    icon_redface.gif I know exactly how you feel and its gotten worse in the last couple of months!

    Still, its fun icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 27, 2008 3:57 AM GMT
    Hello,

    22 years and counting, but the way I see it. Sex was here before I was born and it will be her well after. I'm not just going to hook-up with someone, I want to be in love.
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    Mar 27, 2008 5:00 AM GMT
    I masturbate ALMOST everyday, its a stress relief
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    Mar 28, 2008 4:08 PM GMT
    cosmicjewboy, it seems like I'm always disagreeing with you. I really hate to be a contrarian, but I disagree on this subject too.
    I've found masturbation, and especially sex to be an excellent method of releasing negative energy. When stress levels rise due to negative energy, some people light up a cigarette, some take pills, I polish my bayonet. So I can focus better.

    It also helps get rid of old fluids that congeal and gunk up in the prostate.

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    Mar 30, 2008 12:43 AM GMT
    I was depressed in college and once went about 12 weeks without cumming.

    Lately I've stopped so I can have wet dreams again. Those are the best orgasms- much more intense.
  • MattyC0709

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    Mar 30, 2008 1:03 AM GMT
    bonobo7 saidI was depressed in college and once went about 12 weeks without cumming.

    OMG! 12 weeks! That's way too long!

    Once my friends decided to try not cumming for Lent. Haha, barely lasted 2 weeks!

    I must admit though, if you don't cum for some time, when you finally do you'll have a great orgasm. I want to try it now hehe! Unfortunately (/Fortunately, hehe) I'm quite a horny bastard! Lol! icon_redface.gif

    Must... resist... the URGE!... icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif