WTF is wrong with men?

  • JimJim

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    Jul 29, 2010 4:11 AM GMT
    I'm not mad or upset or anything, but I'm just baffled by the actions of some guys out there.

    So a few weeks ago I talked to this guy via a dating site, decided we liked each other and that it would be a good idea to meet up. So we set up a time place and I go to meet him there but he never showed up. I waited about a half hour before I left (I couldn't text him because he said he didn't want to give out his number until after we met-looking back that was a definite red flag). Anyway, I go home and email him asking if he was alright but I never got a response. So I figured he just wasn't interested and I was a little angry but got over it quickly.

    About a week later I saw him log onto AIM and I figured I'd say hi and hopefully tell him I had no hard feelings. But he pretended not to know who I was! Even after I told him "My name's _____, we talked online through ______, we were supposed to meet up at ______ a week ago" he still played dumb. I ended the conversation then and there.

    Now here's the kicker. TWO WEEKS later he sends me a message on AIM asking if I wanted to be in a three-way with him and one of his friends. WTF? You stand me up, pretend not to know me, and now are asking me to be in a three-way? All he had to say for himself when I told him off was "So I guess that's a no?"

    icon_evil.gif WTF? I'm not mad but just STUNNED at the audacity this guy had to behave the way he did.

    Rant over
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    Jul 29, 2010 4:16 AM GMT
    Gay or straight, men are pigs. This is not news. Caveat emptor.
  • Crucializer

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    Jul 29, 2010 4:32 AM GMT
    I've got someone that kinda does that --- we make plans, I text him to make sure its still on the day of, I hear nothing - for like a week. Then he texts me and pretends nothing was ever planned. Over and over again.

    I know I'm stupid to keep trying - but its not like the boys are knocking down my door! haha! icon_confused.gif

    He's a pig.
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    Jul 29, 2010 4:33 AM GMT
    Wilton saidGay or straight, men are pigs. This is not news. Caveat emptor.


    May we? Gay or straight (here it comes...) some men are pigs. icon_wink.gif


    xo -us
  • Delivis

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    Jul 29, 2010 4:34 AM GMT
    Give them no attention except in the form of sterm reminders of how pitiful their behavior is.
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    Jul 29, 2010 4:36 AM GMT
    Wilton saidGay or straight, men are pigs. This is not news. Caveat emptor.


    No........Men are psychotic GAY OR STRAIGHT.
    And women get all the bad press.
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    Jul 29, 2010 4:38 AM GMT
    haha i made plans with someone from my city to go on a casual date....

    they never showed.. which honestly wasnt that disapointing, i just ate by myself and relaxed haha!
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    Jul 29, 2010 4:40 AM GMT
    KissingPro, you're not psychotic. Wilton you're not a pig, and we don't think your partner is either.

    We don't think JimJim is, or Crucializer. We're all men here...aren't we?

    (Gosh we sure hope so! )


    So there.
  • Crucializer

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    Jul 29, 2010 4:42 AM GMT
    OK, maybe men aren't pigs ... but their actions are extremely pig-like .... better? LOL! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 29, 2010 4:42 AM GMT
    When you play in the sandbox, you're gonna get sand on you... maybe even a little cat poop.
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    Jul 29, 2010 4:44 AM GMT
    Crucializer saidOK, maybe men aren't pigs ... but their actions are extremely pig-like .... better? LOL! icon_biggrin.gif



    We like the word 'some'....much more accurate. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 29, 2010 4:48 AM GMT
    Being a psychotic pig isn't THAT bad.icon_eek.gif
  • Crucializer

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    Jul 29, 2010 4:51 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    Crucializer saidOK, maybe men aren't pigs ... but their actions are extremely pig-like .... better? LOL! icon_biggrin.gif



    We like the word 'some'....much more accurate. icon_wink.gif



    Agreed. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 29, 2010 4:54 AM GMT
    If you were a farm boy you know pigs clean up quite well. They actually show well also!

    Some of us are better at handling messy jobs icon_lol.gif

    Although you do have to be careful turn your back they are back in the mud! icon_rolleyes.gif