Getting "Hooked" on a Hook Up

  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 29, 2010 12:52 PM GMT
    So its 9:45 p.m. last night and I get a phone call from a good friend of mine,
    I'll call him Jason, 36, a swimmer, good looking, professional guy, swimmer and owns his own log home (which is amazing). Very giving and friendly and single.

    He proceeds to tell me about a hookup he just had (which is a little odd, he doesn't do that very much). He mentions the guy (who I recognize) and tells me how really bad it was. The guy convinced Jason to let him come to Jason's house ("I'm home alone", he said, "we've talked about meeting up for some time). Jason finally agreed to let him come out and say hello, but was very clear that nothing anal was to occur.....

    The guy arrives, didn't want to be kissed, didn't want to be friendly to Jason's dog.. did check out the house, but wasn't really very interested
    ("There was no energy there at all", Jason explained) I was amazed, he has a beautiful home and some of the work he did himself. It's wonderful.

    Jason put up with it. The guy said Jason could give him a massage, but was "irritated" by Jason's caresses and kissing on the guys's back and sides. Apparently Jason did give the guy an awesome bj, but no reciprical behavior, except to try and stick his fingers up Jasons ass. "I just wanted it over", Jason said. The guy didn't communicate, didn't thank Jason or show any interest in anything, except to correct Jason about a few things
    Jason asked about the guys work and life.

    My response: "Why didn't you just ask him to leave, there isn't anything wrong with that... and remember that not all hookups were meant to be"
    I found the whole thing amazing. Jason deserves a lot better, but he let it happen to himself.

    What was your worst hookup?
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    Jul 29, 2010 1:59 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidWhat was your worst hookup?
    100% of them were from a4a, and your story is interesting compared to them.
    Never had a bad "hookup" from RJ, but I've made some great friends. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 29, 2010 2:08 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidSo its 9:45 p.m. last night and I get a phone call from a good friend of mine,
    I'll call him Jason, 36, a swimmer, good looking, professional guy, swimmer and owns his own log home (which is amazing). Very giving and friendly and single.

    He proceeds to tell me about a hookup he just had (which is a little odd, he doesn't do that very much). He mentions the guy (who I recognize) and tells me how really bad it was. The guy convinced Jason to let him come to Jason's house ("I'm home alone", he said, "we've talked about meeting up for some time). Jason finally agreed to let him come out and say hello[...]


    Jason needs to refine his screening techniques substantially if he wants to really enjoy (hooking up with the right people).
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    Jul 29, 2010 2:37 PM GMT
    My worst hookup ended up w/ a headline of boyfriend for 2 1/2 yrs. This was before internet hookups when 1 800 HOT MENN or whatever the number was was the best resource of technology dating.