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    Jul 29, 2010 9:57 PM GMT
    So around the holidays I met this really cool guy on here. He lived in Houston, I lived in NY (Upstate). I hotlisted him and he wrote back and later that night we chatted for like 6 hours. Long story short we ended up dating 6 months and I would fly down frequently to see him. We broke up early June.

    I haven't quite been able to find anything like him, and sometimes I wonder what if he was "the one". He was the one that ended up hurting me but didn't want to fix things even though I did. After 2 months of looking for someone the people I seem interested in aren't interested back.

    I'm usually a pretty positive guy but it just seems weird not having someone to love and talk to every night. On that note if anyone wants to get to know me send me a message.

    Anyone else dated long-distance with someone they met on here? How did it work out?
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    Jul 29, 2010 10:58 PM GMT
    Well, read this ..."I haven't quite been able to find anything like him, and sometimes I wonder what if he was "the one". He was the one that ended up hurting me but didn't want to fix things even though I did."

    He's not 'the one'. Unless, guys that hurt you and don't want to fix things are what you prefer. icon_wink.gif

    Stick around, there's a ton of guys here that are top notch.

    -us guys

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    Jul 30, 2010 12:53 AM GMT
    Breaking up is tough...particularly when the other person is in the driver seat, so to speak. Hang in there bud...if it was meant to be it would be. There's another guy out there waiting to steal your heart. Give it time...

    Until then, focus on being the best you can be. Cultivate interests and passions and work on the things that will make you happy. That will make you an even better catch for your next bf.

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    Jul 30, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    Yeah I know. He said after the fact that I should have just stopped talking to him for a year and see if we got back together. If you really care about someone you can't just say okay and let them go. I've heard the saying "if you love someone let them go, if they come back it's meant to be", but that's easier said than done. icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 30, 2010 1:00 AM GMT
    Just don't let this site skew your standards for finding something closer to you, it can have that effect unfortunately.
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    Jul 30, 2010 1:04 AM GMT
    Hahaha I've already tried to hunt him down and kill him but it's not worth the flight icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 30, 2010 1:36 AM GMT
    Forget the long distance relationships. You're young, good-looking and you live in an area where you should have no trouble meeting other guys.
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    Jul 30, 2010 1:38 AM GMT
    fastfreddie saidForget the long distance relationships. You're young, good-looking and you live in an area where you should have no trouble meeting other guys.


    I second this!
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    Jul 30, 2010 1:41 AM GMT
    No! Haha there are hardly ANY gay guys here. I live in western/upstate NY not NYC. I'm not opposed to a LDR... that wasn't the problem we had... I want to move anyway.
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    Jul 30, 2010 2:14 AM GMT
    I had a number of long distance relationships, especially when I lived in Key West and dated tourists. I would get attached to someone and then it woundn't work out. Now I know that my boyfriend should be nearby. I moved to New England two years ago and met a wonderful man, with whom I now live. It pays to be patient, too. Keep looking, but arrange a happy life while you are still single. Mr. Right will find you when both you and he are ready -

  • Jul 30, 2010 5:08 AM GMT
    i think meet someone you can chat with him six hours.it is hardly.

    everyone want to kown who is the one,buy no one can.

    how many people you love in your life? if you very very lucky.you just can find one.

    so we should take care of each relationships,because you don't kown if he is the one before you death