Import saidDon't wanna sound like a dickhead, but if the kid doesn't wanna live anymore who are we to tell him not to??
you might try a little harder to avoid it then. although it's easy for YOU to take this tone, since you don't know him, how do you think the people who DO know him would feel to see you say something like that? his family? friends? others who depend upon their intereaction with him in some way? his life or death may make zero difference to you directly, but we are all connected, and his loss will ultimately (however indirectly) be your loss as well.
OK, well it's not about his family or his friends or people that depend on him.
It's about his misery in his mind. He's the one that has to deal with the misery, not the other people.
How incredibly selfish to even bring other people into this.
like "don't kill urself because other people will miss u"
well, guess what, it's not about the other people. It's about him. It's about his struggle, its not about the people he interacts with. The people he interacts with aren't helping him now, thats why he's on here making this thread.
Where are those people now? Where are those people who should be helping him? Where are those people he should live for now in his darkest hour?
I'm definitely not advocating suicide. In fact, I wish the OP would seek help and ultimately be happy with his life. I really do. I dont like to see people suffer.
But, at the same time, aren't we being selfish by insisting he has to live? Maybe, deep down, he doesn't wanna live anymore. You're not him. U can't understand what he may be going through. U truly can't