Living out "50 First Dates"??

  • bobntpa

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    Aug 02, 2010 12:03 AM GMT
    Not that i'm having the same date over and over - but i seem to be on a string of first dates.. how do i keep putting myself out there, when there never seems to be a second date??
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    Aug 02, 2010 12:04 AM GMT
    Be thankful you live somewhere with enough material for 50 first dates.
  • bobntpa

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    Aug 02, 2010 1:06 AM GMT
    haha - good point.. it's not really up to 50, though.. just seems like it sometimes!

    but serisously, i'm hesitant to keep asking guys out..
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    Aug 02, 2010 1:34 AM GMT
    I've had about 6 first dates with the same guy. Where you go out with them, they ignore you afterward, adamantly deny that they ignored you ,YOU ignored THEM, then you go out again, they once again ignore you, deny THEY ignored YOU, YOU ignored THEM.

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  • calibro

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    Aug 02, 2010 1:37 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidI've had about 6 first dates with the same guy. Where you go out with them, they ignore you afterward, adamantly deny that they ignored you ,YOU ignored THEM, then you go out again, they once again ignore you, deny THEY ignored YOU, YOU ignored THEM.

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    sorry macy-p
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    Aug 02, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidI've had about 6 first dates with the same guy. Where you go out with them, they ignore you afterward, adamantly deny that they ignored you ,YOU ignored THEM, then you go out again, they once again ignore you, deny THEY ignored YOU, YOU ignored THEM.

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    Aug 02, 2010 2:15 AM GMT
    calibro said
    Ciarsolo saidI've had about 6 first dates with the same guy. Where you go out with them, they ignore you afterward, adamantly deny that they ignored you ,YOU ignored THEM, then you go out again, they once again ignore you, deny THEY ignored YOU, YOU ignored THEM.

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    sorry macy-p


    I'm not sure macy-p is working out...try adding "grandmastah" in front of it...maybe that'll work...
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    Aug 02, 2010 2:19 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo saidI've had about 6 first dates with the same guy. Where you go out with them, they ignore you afterward, adamantly deny that they ignored you ,YOU ignored THEM, then you go out again, they once again ignore you, deny THEY ignored YOU, YOU ignored THEM.

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    So true.....phew........
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    Aug 02, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    I had a head injury that has affected my short-term memory too. I think I know what you're talking about.
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    Aug 02, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    I had a head injury that has affected my short-term memory too. I think I know what you're talking about.
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    Aug 02, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    I had a head injury that has affected my short-term memory too. I think I know what you're talking about.
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    Aug 02, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    I had a head injury that has affected my short-term memory too. I think I know what you're talking about.
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    Aug 02, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    I had a head injury that has affected my short-term memory too. I think I know what you're talking about.
  • bobntpa

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    Aug 02, 2010 12:18 PM GMT
    Mickey - too funny..

    but you guys have been NO help at all!! LOL
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    Aug 02, 2010 12:43 PM GMT
    Sounds like Groundhog day, and not 50-first dates!

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  • bobntpa

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    Aug 02, 2010 12:56 PM GMT
    who, me? no, i live in Tampa.
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    Aug 02, 2010 1:07 PM GMT
    Somethings gotta change. Ask one for feedback about the date.
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    Aug 03, 2010 1:59 AM GMT
    OK bobntpa, try this one on.

    Ever done a jigsaw puzzle? Bill loves them. I watch. You know, when he tries to interlock one piece with another he only does it the one time, and if it obviously doesn't fit, he tries another. Sometimes the pieces are closely alike that he'll turn them this way and that and try again, but most often it's clear that they don't belong together.

    Does that help?

    -Doug

    PS I had many many many first dates and no seconds.

    Here's some stats, from 18 to 34 when I finally met Bill.

    I dated about 150 guys. (eek!) Many were first dates only.

    Doug