What is wrong with me...I cant get enough and it won't stop!

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    Aug 03, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    This entire spring and summer.......My sex drive is going CRAZY! ...not a joke...
    I can't seem to get enough at 2...3...4..5X in a single day....the ex- bf couldn't handle it and now....I am burning up the current BF, with sex, and he is 20 years younger than me!.....Is there something in the water or air this year that is making and keeping my libedo at a record, insatiable level?....
    When I workout or run or bike...it only gets WORSE!....At first it was funny and exciting, now....This is beyond all that and is feeling like some sort of "curse" or obsession that hasn't worn me out! Ridiculous amount of staying power and recovery time is really short...back to a full charge in very short time.....so do I go to my DR and tell him that at 50 I am more horny than my 30 year old BF and can't get enough sex? ...and then wait for his inevitable reply of ..."enjoy the ride while you got it!"...lots of men younger than you wish they still had it........I wish I was joking , but I'm not...This is beginning to consume alot of time...even wakes me up in the middle of the night to JO or something..really it took off in earnest around the time I started training for Marathons and Half Marathons last summer(2009)...icon_eek.gifAny suggestions?
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    Aug 03, 2010 2:16 AM GMT
    start training for ultra marathons.
  • Bunjamon

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    Aug 03, 2010 2:41 AM GMT
    If it's bothering you that much, go see your urologist. Or endocrinologist.
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    Aug 03, 2010 2:56 AM GMT
    Sporty. Look at me. "E-N-J-O-Y I-T-!"

    Is there a mutually agreeable way for you to express yourself AND respect your bf's desires for the relationship?
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Aug 03, 2010 3:15 AM GMT
    I have the same problem....and I am 56. I can't get enough, however, I do not have a BF to channel this energy off of....

    Do you need directions to my place? LOL

    Word to the wise....this will stay with you for a while. Why it happens is beyond me but I have the same issue.

  • mybud

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    Aug 03, 2010 3:16 AM GMT
    Speaking for myself...once spring hits...I'm full of nut horny...I have even talked to bud's about it and they act like I was crazy.....I think it's all the pollen in the air.....I breath it in and my sex drive is working overtime.......
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    Aug 03, 2010 3:17 AM GMT
    I'm just like that, horny all the time, I j/o 7 times a day lol
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    Aug 03, 2010 3:25 AM GMT
    Ya got a tumor. Get checked.








    Hey, how am I supposed to know? ... icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Sparkycat

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    Aug 03, 2010 3:42 AM GMT
    I can't believe you're actually complaining about this.
  • Sparkycat

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    Aug 03, 2010 3:43 AM GMT
    And if you ever figure out what is causing this let me know right away.
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    Aug 03, 2010 3:47 AM GMT
    Sporty_g saidThis entire spring and summer.......My sex drive is going CRAZY! ...not a joke...
    I can't seem to get enough at 2...3...4..5X in a single day....the ex- bf couldn't handle it and now....I am burning up the current BF, with sex, and he is 20 years younger than me!.....Is there something in the water or air this year that is making and keeping my libedo at a record, insatiable level?....
    When I workout or run or bike...it only gets WORSE!....At first it was funny and exciting, now....This is beyond all that and is feeling like some sort of "curse" or obsession that hasn't worn me out! Ridiculous amount of staying power and recovery time is really short...back to a full charge in very short time.....so do I go to my DR and tell him that at 50 I am more horny than my 30 year old BF and can't get enough sex? ...and then wait for his inevitable reply of ..."enjoy the ride while you got it!"...lots of men younger than you wish they still had it........I wish I was joking , but I'm not...This is beginning to consume alot of time...even wakes me up in the middle of the night to JO or something..really it took off in earnest around the time I started training for Marathons and Half Marathons last summer(2009)...icon_eek.gifAny suggestions?


    Um. It's because your Bf is 20 yrs younger than U
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    Aug 03, 2010 3:52 AM GMT
    N8tiveNuYawhka said
    Sporty_g saidThis entire spring and summer.......My sex drive is going CRAZY! ...not a joke...
    I can't seem to get enough at 2...3...4..5X in a single day....the ex- bf couldn't handle it and now....I am burning up the current BF, with sex, and he is 20 years younger than me!.....Is there something in the water or air this year that is making and keeping my libedo at a record, insatiable level?....
    When I workout or run or bike...it only gets WORSE!....At first it was funny and exciting, now....This is beyond all that and is feeling like some sort of "curse" or obsession that hasn't worn me out! Ridiculous amount of staying power and recovery time is really short...back to a full charge in very short time.....so do I go to my DR and tell him that at 50 I am more horny than my 30 year old BF and can't get enough sex? ...and then wait for his inevitable reply of ..."enjoy the ride while you got it!"...lots of men younger than you wish they still had it........I wish I was joking , but I'm not...This is beginning to consume alot of time...even wakes me up in the middle of the night to JO or something..really it took off in earnest around the time I started training for Marathons and Half Marathons last summer(2009)...icon_eek.gifAny suggestions?


    Um. It's because your Bf is 20 yrs younger than U
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    ...is that why after 4X today he said "ENOUGH!" go JO!...please tell me ! I thought 30 y. o. guys were NON-STOP sex machines....and it seem the "energizer bunny" has NOTHING on me.......
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    Aug 03, 2010 3:55 AM GMT
    Sporty_g said
    N8tiveNuYawhka said
    Sporty_g saidThis entire spring and summer.......My sex drive is going CRAZY! ...not a joke...
    I can't seem to get enough at 2...3...4..5X in a single day....the ex- bf couldn't handle it and now....I am burning up the current BF, with sex, and he is 20 years younger than me!.....Is there something in the water or air this year that is making and keeping my libedo at a record, insatiable level?....
    When I workout or run or bike...it only gets WORSE!....At first it was funny and exciting, now....This is beyond all that and is feeling like some sort of "curse" or obsession that hasn't worn me out! Ridiculous amount of staying power and recovery time is really short...back to a full charge in very short time.....so do I go to my DR and tell him that at 50 I am more horny than my 30 year old BF and can't get enough sex? ...and then wait for his inevitable reply of ..."enjoy the ride while you got it!"...lots of men younger than you wish they still had it........I wish I was joking , but I'm not...This is beginning to consume alot of time...even wakes me up in the middle of the night to JO or something..really it took off in earnest around the time I started training for Marathons and Half Marathons last summer(2009)...icon_eek.gifAny suggestions?


    Um. It's because your Bf is 20 yrs younger than U
    .

    ...is that why after 4X today he said "ENOUGH!" go JO!...please tell me ! I thought 30 y. o. guys were NON-STOP sex machines....and it seem the "energizer bunny" has NOTHING on me.......



    Ok big daddy...too much information. You're making me and select few, nauseous.
  • swimjohn

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    Aug 03, 2010 4:05 AM GMT
    I feel like you're just bragging icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 03, 2010 4:18 AM GMT
    How long has it been since your massive weight loss? Maybe it's catching up with you.
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    Aug 03, 2010 4:18 AM GMT

    I'm the same way.

    At 43, I'm hornier than I've ever been in my life. I wore my 21 year old BF out. I can go 3, 4, even 5 times a day.

    I'm glad to know it's not just me.icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 03, 2010 4:25 AM GMT
    With the career and the gym, how do you find the time to have sex 5 times a day? unless its 5 times in a row... I'm actually really curious about this.
  • swimbikerun

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    Aug 03, 2010 4:28 AM GMT
    These sexy guys will drive you crazy!

    HUNKS HUNKS HUNKS! from Everything Is Terrible! on Vimeo.

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    Aug 03, 2010 4:29 AM GMT
    Go to your Dr., find out what it is and then tell all of us what we need to do to get it too! I'm getting married to my 22 year old fiance in September and I'd surely love to keep up with him for the honeymoon! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 03, 2010 4:33 AM GMT
    swimjohn69 saidI feel like you're just bragging icon_razz.gif




    i second to that motion... but dont complain about it, sex is natural, but keep it a personal thing, i am sure everyone gets laid.... icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 03, 2010 5:08 AM GMT
    sorry to tell you but it's almost all over for you.. you're in the final "super nova" stage like the sun does before it explodes. Come fall/winter you'll have a limp noodle which only Viagra can help.. Start saving your pennies now.
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    Aug 03, 2010 5:27 AM GMT
    your body could be just now adjusting to your big time weight loss. It might be temporary, might not. Excess fat, especially around the midsection reduces sex drive by depleting the amnt of testosterone produced.


    Same thing happened to me when I was treated for cancer. (Non Hodgkins Lymphoma in groin area and shut down the testes)They gave me test shots for a while after recovery to boost my weight gain and wore out a few young ones.

    People get exactly as much sex as they need usually, humans are good at finding it..even if it kills them. Your new BF needs to be a bit more grateful that you take an interest in him...

    Just my 2 cents
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    Aug 03, 2010 8:00 AM GMT
    I don't think it's the labido that's overactive - more like the imagination.
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    Aug 03, 2010 8:12 AM GMT
    Sporty_g saidThis entire spring and summer.......My sex drive is going CRAZY! ...not a joke...
    I can't seem to get enough at 2...3...4..5X in a single day....the ex- bf couldn't handle it and now....I am burning up the current BF, with sex, and he is 20 years younger than me!.....Is there something in the water or air this year that is making and keeping my libedo at a record, insatiable level?....
    When I workout or run or bike...it only gets WORSE!....At first it was funny and exciting, now....This is beyond all that and is feeling like some sort of "curse" or obsession that hasn't worn me out! Ridiculous amount of staying power and recovery time is really short...back to a full charge in very short time.....so do I go to my DR and tell him that at 50 I am more horny than my 30 year old BF and can't get enough sex? ...and then wait for his inevitable reply of ..."enjoy the ride while you got it!"...lots of men younger than you wish they still had it........I wish I was joking , but I'm not...This is beginning to consume alot of time...even wakes me up in the middle of the night to JO or something..really it took off in earnest around the time I started training for Marathons and Half Marathons last summer(2009)...icon_eek.gifAny suggestions?


    Hmmm could you post this to my sex additcion thread pls icon_razz.gif

    OK, seriously, have you tried a sex therapist? They usually know alot... a psychiatrist can refer you to one also
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    Aug 03, 2010 8:26 AM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidI don't think it's the labido that's overactive - more like the imagination.

    Well, I dunno. I came out extremely late, at nearly 46, and went into a hyper-horny period, that lasted about a year. And even afterwards, well into my 50s, which the OP is now, I was fucking like a bunny.

    Only in my late 50s, and now 61, did I finally start to slow down. If Sporty_G is still a horny bastard at 50, then bless him. I know I was.

    Exercise produces testosterone, and testosterone causes horniness in men. As for suggestions, the OP can either abandon his exercise, which is likely the source of his horniness, or else find some outlets for it.

    But frankly, a 50-year-old gay guy who is mega-horny is to be copied, not criticized. Just so long as it is channeled into legal and safe directions, I envy him.