Do you prefer to be the hunter or the hunted?

  • GuynWPG

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    Aug 03, 2010 6:08 PM GMT
    Some guys enjoy being the hunter. They enjoy 'dating up' and will try their best to charm and talk their way into getting that special guy. It will be especially satisfactory if the target plays 'hard to get', making the victory that much sweeter.

    Other guys, like to be the hunted. They want to know that a guy is genuinely interested in them and they gauge this by how hard they try to court them. They may or may not play hard to get to see how far a guy is willing to go to be 'the one' that is picked.

    And perhaps there are some guys that like to both hunt and be hunted.

    Which one are you?

    For me, it's definitely being hunted.
  • drypin

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    Aug 03, 2010 9:23 PM GMT
    Ooh, that's not a game I like either way. Others are free to play it, but I stay out.
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    Aug 03, 2010 9:27 PM GMT
    Being hunted, I love complements and feeling flattered, so I don't hunt, I let other guys do the hunting, if they want me they should make their best effort and show it.
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    Aug 03, 2010 9:43 PM GMT
    The hunter. Hollow compliments from being hunted embarrass me, and I immediately question his motives, The WORST way to woo me is with praise. Show me YOUR stuff first before you start talking about mine.

    I will woo YOU, but don't turn that shit on me. I see through false compliments in a second, and you slit your own throat when you try that.

    The guys who attract me are self-assured, accomplished, and my equals, or perhaps better if I'm lucky. In the final analysis, nobody really has to hunt anybody as I see it, because we find each other, and immediately know it. But be hunted? Not ever...
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    Aug 03, 2010 9:46 PM GMT
    I like to be hunted.
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    Aug 03, 2010 9:53 PM GMT
    Actually I enjoy both. I enjoy the thrill of the chase, whether nor not I'm the chaser or the one being chased.
  • yankeesblazer...

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    Aug 03, 2010 9:55 PM GMT
    I prefer to be the hunted. although in my current situation I am kind of forced to be the hunter. We'll see how things go though.
  • JESIE

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    Aug 03, 2010 10:09 PM GMT
    hunted. the chase is arousing icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 03, 2010 10:14 PM GMT
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YZoQ_E8GHsk
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    Aug 03, 2010 10:23 PM GMT
    I would say that I belong in the hunted category, but I try not to go out of my way to attract attention to me. I am not looking right now, but when I was, I never had the courage to go speak to somebody. Often times, that is why some people like being chased down. The person attracted to me had to do make their interests known. That being said, I have put much trained myself to keep a conversation going, to express myself with confidence, because too much humility can be off-putting. If they are genuinely interested, they will keep it going. Because really, the looks are just the bait.

    But if somebody complements me too much, I stop taking them seriously, believing that they are just interested in temporary company.

    In a relationship, I have had played "hard to get" after we had a tremendous fight, or their was an issue that rocked our relationship too much. I guess I was testing how much trouble he would go to keep this relationship, how much I was worth to him.
  • owen19832006

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    Aug 03, 2010 10:24 PM GMT
    i guess im the hunted
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    Aug 03, 2010 10:24 PM GMT
    I would dearly love to be hunted! How flattering would that be!
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    Aug 04, 2010 6:16 AM GMT
    As the guy above says, there is something flattering about being hunted...
  • AlanGZ

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    Aug 04, 2010 6:21 AM GMT
    I am a hunter icon_twisted.gif
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    Aug 04, 2010 6:24 AM GMT
    I'm hunted, without a hunter, hence my being single. Haha... not so funny.
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    Aug 04, 2010 3:11 PM GMT
    dsato17 saidI'm hunted, without a hunter, hence my being single. Haha... not so funny.


    lol! A.k.a 'unwanted' HAHAHAHAHA
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Aug 04, 2010 3:14 PM GMT
    I only enjoy being the hunter if the prey can be caught icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 04, 2010 3:15 PM GMT
    I like to be hunted cos I'm quite shy. Fake charm pees me off...don't really care for stuff like 'the top 10 things to get a guy' or 'the top ten best chat up lines'.

    Although I like to be (*not play*) hard-to-get. But that probably just ends up in me not getting anything at all. Lol@mylife.
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    Aug 04, 2010 3:15 PM GMT
    Most guys, gay or straight, are hunters. It's in our genetic makeup which is one of the reasons that a monogamous gay relationship is not very common.
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Aug 04, 2010 3:19 PM GMT
    Both icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 04, 2010 3:27 PM GMT
    Hunted if it's someone I REALLY like. Hunter if they're nice enough but I'm not particularly arsed.
  • jova

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    Aug 04, 2010 3:45 PM GMT
    try to hunted me, i'm running fast icon_wink.gif
  • GuynWPG

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    Aug 07, 2010 5:10 AM GMT
    jova saidtry to hunted me, i'm running fast icon_wink.gif


    *Readies his cupid's bow* *ZING!*
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    Aug 07, 2010 5:55 AM GMT
    Both work for me.

    I especially like when I'm hunted, captured, and dragged submissive back to the lair...only to suddenly turn and devour my hunter.

    Navy guys and Marines are especially fun to turn the tables on.
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    Aug 07, 2010 5:58 AM GMT
    Some days I'm Hunter and some days I'm hunted. It's nice having options.