Oral Sex and fantasies

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    Aug 04, 2010 3:44 AM GMT
    Blowjobs and role-playing: The Perfect Exchange.


    A bottom is giving head to a top, the top is standing, and the bottom is on his knees.

    The psychological reward for the top is the bottom’s total dedication to provide him pleasure.

    The bottom’s hunger for his top’s cock excites and pleases the top; it is “his” cock that has become the absolute object of desire for the bottom; that in itself is the ultimate validation of his phallus. In between his legs he possesses that which is so precious and desired by the bottom.

    As the bottom eagerly sucks, he looks up, he wants and needs to see the pleasure he is providing to his top, he looks for his man’s eyes. Their eyes lock. For those few seconds. infinite non-verbal messages are exchanged. The bottom goes back to his duty, he will continue to look up every so often, and more silent messages will be exchanged. The bottom looks up; the top looks down, yet another symbol of the dynamic of their exchange.

    The bottom savors every drop of pre-cum from his man, eagerly working for his ultimate reward: the top’s semen and his pleasure.

    The top understands how much the bottom wants his juice, his essence. The top understands that what the bottom wants to have is a “part” of him and this form of adoration is the ultimate aphrodisiac for him.

    Both parties know and revel in their respective roles.

    They both sense the time is coming… the bottom accelerates his eager movements as he gets closer to his reward. When the top explodes and starts squirting his juices into the bottom’s mouth, the bottom makes sure he doesn’t waste a drop; he wants every bit of the top’s essence.

    The top is gratified by the orgasm the bottom has so devotedly provided as well as by the knowledge that his semen is precious to the bottom, what he has given of himself makes him more valuable.

    The perfect [/size]exchange.[/size]

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    Aug 06, 2010 12:57 PM GMT
    why aren't there more (bottom) guys like this out there? i'm definitely more selfish (top, if you will) when it comes to head.
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    Aug 06, 2010 2:06 PM GMT
    socaldrewski saidwhy aren't there more (bottom) guys like this out there? i'm definitely more selfish (top, if you will) when it comes to head.


    Nothing wrong with that. There are lots of guys (not necessarily bottoms in other ways) who love to service guys orally with no reciprocation.

    A lot of good sex is spoiled by the feeling that "Oh, now probably I should reciprocate", the flow gets interrupted, and it becomes blah.
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    Aug 06, 2010 4:48 PM GMT
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    Aug 06, 2010 5:44 PM GMT
    MONOTOP saidBlowjobs and role-playing: The Perfect Exchange.


    A bottom is giving head to a top, the top is standing, and the bottom is on his knees.

    The psychological reward for the top is the bottom’s total dedication to provide him pleasure.

    The bottom’s hunger for his top’s cock excites and pleases the top; it is “his” cock that has become the absolute object of desire for the bottom; that in itself is the ultimate validation of his phallus. In between his legs he possesses that which is so precious and desired by the bottom.

    As the bottom eagerly sucks, he looks up, he wants and needs to see the pleasure he is providing to his top, he looks for his man’s eyes. Their eyes lock. For those few seconds. infinite non-verbal messages are exchanged. The bottom goes back to his duty, he will continue to look up every so often, and more silent messages will be exchanged. The bottom looks up; the top looks down, yet another symbol of the dynamic of their exchange.

    The bottom savors every drop of pre-cum from his man, eagerly working for his ultimate reward: the top’s semen and his pleasure.

    The top understands how much the bottom wants his juice, his essence. The top understands that what the bottom wants to have is a “part” of him and this form of adoration is the ultimate aphrodisiac for him.

    Both parties know and revel in their respective roles.

    They both sense the time is coming… the bottom accelerates his eager movements as he gets closer to his reward. When the top explodes and starts squirting his juices into the bottom’s mouth, the bottom makes sure he doesn’t waste a drop; he wants every bit of the top’s essence.

    The top is gratified by the orgasm the bottom has so devotedly provided as well as by the knowledge that his semen is precious to the bottom, what he has given of himself makes him more valuable.

    The perfect [/size]exchange.[/size]



    an accurate description of some of the foreplay my bf and I enjoy before "the main event" takes place.

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    Aug 06, 2010 10:47 PM GMT
    rnch said
    MONOTOP saidBlowjobs and role-playing: The Perfect Exchange.


    A bottom is giving head to a top, the top is standing, and the bottom is on his knees.

    The psychological reward for the top is the bottom’s total dedication to provide him pleasure.

    The bottom’s hunger for his top’s cock excites and pleases the top; it is “his” cock that has become the absolute object of desire for the bottom; that in itself is the ultimate validation of his phallus. In between his legs he possesses that which is so precious and desired by the bottom.

    As the bottom eagerly sucks, he looks up, he wants and needs to see the pleasure he is providing to his top, he looks for his man’s eyes. Their eyes lock. For those few seconds. infinite non-verbal messages are exchanged. The bottom goes back to his duty, he will continue to look up every so often, and more silent messages will be exchanged. The bottom looks up; the top looks down, yet another symbol of the dynamic of their exchange.

    The bottom savors every drop of pre-cum from his man, eagerly working for his ultimate reward: the top’s semen and his pleasure.

    The top understands how much the bottom wants his juice, his essence. The top understands that what the bottom wants to have is a “part” of him and this form of adoration is the ultimate aphrodisiac for him.

    Both parties know and revel in their respective roles.

    They both sense the time is coming… the bottom accelerates his eager movements as he gets closer to his reward. When the top explodes and starts squirting his juices into the bottom’s mouth, the bottom makes sure he doesn’t waste a drop; he wants every bit of the top’s essence.

    The top is gratified by the orgasm the bottom has so devotedly provided as well as by the knowledge that his semen is precious to the bottom, what he has given of himself makes him more valuable.

    The perfect [/size]exchange.[/size]



    an accurate description of some of the foreplay my bf and I enjoy before "the main event" takes place.

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    I understand the "sexual dynamics" between two men, particularly if they are suited as Top and Bottom.icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 11, 2010 10:42 AM GMT
    I love playing the bottom when it comes to oral sex. Nothing gives me more pleasure than seeing ecstacy written all over a guy's face when I go down on him. But there are only two people I've ever allowed to come in my mouth: My ex, and a former "Survivor Malaysia" (Survivor South Africa)contestant who had a body to die for.
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    Aug 11, 2010 12:05 PM GMT
    Surely in oral it's not a 'Bottom' but a 'Mouth' icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 12, 2010 11:45 AM GMT
    I love the total scene as described....and I have had many happy times whichever role I had. But a couple of thoughts.......first, a really good stand up orgasm can be so intense it makes me wish I was laying down.........and second, I hate it, absolutely hate it, when a guy gets carried away and puts his hands on my head and forces my face into his crotch......I don't care if he puts his hands on my shoulders and pinches hard as hell, but if I am sucking him, he should leave the sucking to me and my technique. The hand forcing the head is all too dom, it borders on forced sex and that ain't a good thing among us consenting adults.
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    Aug 12, 2010 11:53 AM GMT
    Being a bottom is so rewarding icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 13, 2010 12:36 PM GMT
    I love giving head. I am not sure why it is so sexually rewarding for me,
    but it is. I especially enjoy having a guy cum in my mouth. I love
    everything about it. It drives me crazy. My delimma is that I am
    terrified of HIV and STD. Because of my fear of that, I have stopped
    giving head. icon_sad.gif Now I am sexually frustrated and am not sexually content.
    I have never given head to someone wearing a condom.
    I am not sure I would enjoy that. Can someone please give me some advice?