Does this happen to anyone else?

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    Aug 05, 2010 3:24 AM GMT
    When I start seeing a guy that I really like, I'm like wow he's so handsome, intelligent, funny, everything (the infatuation phase) but then one day Ijust wake up and I'm like what did I see in him in the first place? and then I start pondering everything and I just feel like sick of the guy I'm going out with and I just don't wanna see them ever again, it's a really weird feeling, I can't really explain it tho, but is there someone who feels like I do when they start seeing a guy and go out on few dates with him?

    This happened with a guy and I just stooped talking to him (I mentioned it on another thread, and yeah I was wrong) and while I was just getting sick of him he was kinda getting obsessed with me (I hope I don't come off as a douchebag icon_neutral.gif) so I just never called him back nor anything.
  • drypin

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    Aug 05, 2010 7:45 AM GMT
    Get professional help.
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    Aug 05, 2010 7:58 AM GMT
    You're the kind of guy that most other guys hate! You think the dating is going great and then BAM! they drop you like a hot stone.

    If you are no longer into someone, the least you could do is tell them you aren't interested in taking things further. Guys like you turn lots of decent guys to drink, drugs and promiscuity!
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    Aug 05, 2010 6:49 PM GMT
    OMG devilish... and hes gone from RJ too now wow icon_eek.gif in shock
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    Aug 05, 2010 6:53 PM GMT
    devilish_intentions said (I hope I don't come off as a douchebag)


    Your hopes are quashed.
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    Aug 05, 2010 7:05 PM GMT
    amar_m saidOMG devilish... and hes gone from RJ too now wow icon_eek.gif in shock


    REALLY? BELLOs lapdog gone! I'll drink to that!
    Now, one can only hope he stays away....

    it would probably be too much to hope for the other dimwit to get gone as well icon_twisted.gif

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    Aug 05, 2010 8:08 PM GMT
    judoguy said
    amar_m saidOMG devilish... and hes gone from RJ too now wow icon_eek.gif in shock


    REALLY? BELLOs lapdog gone! I'll drink to that!
    Now, one can only hope he stays away....

    it would probably be too much to hope for the other dimwit to get gone as well icon_twisted.gif

    . So I am fairly new to this site...who is this "BELLOs"? I've heard that name mentioned on multiple threads now, and always in a negative way. Is he some kind of troll or something?
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    Aug 05, 2010 8:17 PM GMT
    yankeesblazerscowboys said
    judoguy said
    amar_m saidOMG devilish... and hes gone from RJ too now wow icon_eek.gif in shock


    REALLY? BELLOs lapdog gone! I'll drink to that!
    Now, one can only hope he stays away....

    it would probably be too much to hope for the other dimwit to get gone as well icon_twisted.gif

    . So I am fairly new to this site...who is this "BELLOs"? I've heard that name mentioned on multiple threads now, and always in a negative way. Is he some kind of troll or something?


    yeah he's a kind of troll... very full of himself. you can get get a feel of him and his lapdog here : http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1068472
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    Aug 05, 2010 8:25 PM GMT
    devilish_intentions saidWhen I start seeing a guy that I really like, I'm like wow he's so handsome, intelligent, funny, everything (the infatuation phase) but then one day Ijust wake up and I'm like what did I see in him in the first place? and then I start pondering everything and I just feel like sick of the guy I'm going out with and I just don't wanna see them ever again, it's a really weird feeling, I can't really explain it tho, but is there someone who feels like I do when they start seeing a guy and go out on few dates with him?

    This happened with a guy and I just stooped talking to him (I mentioned it on another thread, and yeah I was wrong) and while I was just getting sick of him he was kinda getting obsessed with me (I hope I don't come off as a douchebag icon_neutral.gif) so I just never called him back nor anything.


    Its called immaturity and being full of yourself. Real men don't treat people like they are disposable. JMHO.
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    Aug 05, 2010 8:36 PM GMT
    You are hoping against hope - you ARE a douchebag. My advice is to stop dating until you learn how to treat people with respect.
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    Aug 17, 2010 6:12 AM GMT
    Um, yeah, it does happen. I forgot what the phenomenon is called but it happens because you become accustomed to the person. It's natural. I would say you need to be upfront with them rather than passive aggressive. Don't pay much attention to people calling you a douchebag. I mean, it is a douchey thing to do but that's how you handle it. We all do stupid shit. Just be upfront with them.