Do you attract women?

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    Aug 05, 2010 8:09 AM GMT
    Just wondering if any of you guys get obvious attention from women - do they make it obvious they find you attractive? And, more importantly, do you even notice when/if they do?

    I can remember when I was younger and girls would sometimes come and chat to me, and I just thought they were being friendly. When they inevitably got bored that I wasn't really responding in the way they expected, they would wander off and my mates would tell me they had been into me. I was totally oblivious! I guess, not being wired that way, I just wasn't receptive to the cues from a female.

    Another time one of my female friends girl friends said to me on a night out that it was a shame I was gay as I was 'fit' (UK slang for 'hot'). I didn't really know how to take that!

    So, do you get girls/women hitting on you, if they don't know you're gay, or even if they do? And, do you realise it when they do? Or are you only tuned into the gay vibe and only notice when it's another guy who's checking you out/hitting on you?
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    Aug 05, 2010 11:08 AM GMT
    I rarely notice when women are interested LOL. But occasionally it's obvious enough. Still, then most women seem to pick up after a short while that I have no interest in them, in that way. Or I just tell them icon_lol.gif

  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Aug 05, 2010 11:36 AM GMT
    yes and I keep telling them no
  • owen19832006

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    Aug 05, 2010 11:38 AM GMT
    sometimes i do...
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Aug 05, 2010 11:48 AM GMT
    Unfortunately I do attract women. If I'm at a non-gay bar and on the dancefloor, a woman's rear end inevitably finds it way to my crotch.

    I can't always notice when a chick is interested though. There's a new girl at work, she's been there two weeks now, and my best friend at work just told me she's convinced that the new girl has a crush on me. If true, I didn't notice. I thought I always looked annoyed when dealing with her.
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    Aug 05, 2010 1:13 PM GMT
    Sometimes I get some women who do, buy not often. Kinda fun...flattering.icon_wink.gif
  • tuffguyndc

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    Aug 05, 2010 1:41 PM GMT
    NickFit, I have to say this is one of my favorite post. For once, I don't have to hear about do you jockstraps are hot or some other stupid topic. Anyhow, I am bi and I am oblivious to anyone trying to talk to me. I actually had both a man and a woman tell me that I come off as aloof. Right now, there is this beautiful woman who comes to my job quite frequently and we always make a habit of speaking to each other. I do find her attractive but she is like 6'3 (jokingly) and I am only 5'9. I do not like pretty much anyone towers above me. ha ha ha Now, that i am serious about. Anyhow, I find it great to have anyone attracted to me. Not because I am a ugly but just because it is nice to be considered attractive.
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    Aug 05, 2010 1:51 PM GMT
    yes. it generally happens to me at the gym. women will try to strike up conversations with me or ask me questions about the equipment and such. even had someone come up to me wanting to introduce a girlfriend that was very interested in meeting me. its flattering at times but can also be very embarrassing when you explain that your not interested.
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    Aug 05, 2010 1:54 PM GMT
    catfish5 saidyes. it generally happens to me at the gym. women will try to strike up conversations with me or ask me questions about the equipment and such. even had someone come up to me wanting to introduce a girlfriend that was very interested in meeting me. its flattering at times but can also be very embarrassing when you explain that your not interested.


    Do you explain WHY you're not interested, or just leave them to ponder?

  • Aug 05, 2010 2:40 PM GMT
    Do trannies count?
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    Aug 05, 2010 3:03 PM GMT
    HugeMuscleGeek saidDo trannies count?


    Answer: Depends, did they wear lipstick?

    Question: Do cougars count?
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    Aug 05, 2010 3:20 PM GMT
    Yeha, I used to be oblivious, but now I do notice, however Im usually just very friendly and use the opportunity to make a new friend
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    Aug 05, 2010 3:27 PM GMT
    Happens a lot to me and they seem to do everything they can to try and have me approach them which is not going to happen as they don't have what i want lol.

    At my last job the woman were more bold. I tend have a serious look on my face when i don't have anything to smile about so i get told i come off as unapproachable. This female trainer at my gym said that she thought she offended me from the look i had on my face which i wasn't aware of.. aww well
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    Aug 05, 2010 3:36 PM GMT
    All the damn time. This weekend was a prime example and I still feel dirty....one of the chicks that was hittin on me at the beach all day put my hand up her skirt. My hand smelleed like tuna until I got home *cry*
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    Aug 05, 2010 3:37 PM GMT
    yes. and they think since i'm gay we can have "sport" sex...NSA.

    thank you, no.
  • Regina_Guy

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    Aug 05, 2010 3:39 PM GMT
    It happens from time to time. The line I hear most often is "why do all the cute ones have to be gay?"

    It's a great ego booster!
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    Aug 05, 2010 3:40 PM GMT
    There are about 4 ladies in my area that are attracted to me. It's cute when I come around and they get giggly icon_razz.gif
  • Regina_Guy

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    Aug 05, 2010 3:40 PM GMT
    Noek_Sivad saidAll the damn time. This weekend was a prime example and I still feel dirty....one of the chicks that was hittin on me at the beach all day put my hand up her skirt. My hand smelleed like tuna until I got home *cry*


    Lame. I'm sure you had NO choice but to put your hand up her skirt.
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    Aug 05, 2010 3:43 PM GMT
    I get this all the damn time...it gets frustrating after a while...makes me wonder if I were straight would they still be after me or not, lol!!!

    I have taken many a "gf" to the gay bar with me and they go bizzerk!!! I ask whats wrong and they say " all these gorgeous men, and none of them are after me"!!!!!

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    Aug 05, 2010 3:46 PM GMT
    i did once at a mall. she must not have been seeing clearing cause i looked fierce and, what i thought, was obviously gay and i mean GAY lol.

    i was so confused i just said hi back and awkwardly walked away lol. it was something i had never experienced before, i was a deer in headlights o_O
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    Aug 05, 2010 4:02 PM GMT
    it's a given that both gay men and women will be attracted to a fit man. Why not?
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    Aug 05, 2010 4:11 PM GMT
    i dont really know LOL icon_surprised.gif
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    Aug 05, 2010 4:24 PM GMT
    Regina_Guy said
    Noek_Sivad saidAll the damn time. This weekend was a prime example and I still feel dirty....one of the chicks that was hittin on me at the beach all day put my hand up her skirt. My hand smelled like tuna until I got home *cry*


    Lame. I'm sure you had NO choice but to put your hand up her skirt.


    first off you werent there. secondly she was grinding on me which i asked her to stop, bends over and grabs my hand through her legs while im talkin to someone, * i feel my hand slide up the moistness and then her hand try to hold it there. icon_confused.gif secondly you dont really have much of a grasp of whats goin on when you been drinkin all day.
  • Joeyphx444

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    Aug 05, 2010 4:37 PM GMT
    I don't know

    It seems like women want you to be the one to initiate everything and since I don't, I never really know. There have been a few girls who have given some pretty big signs though

    It easier to attract women more than men though icon_razz.gif At least the men you want to attract
  • abflexman

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    Aug 05, 2010 4:43 PM GMT
    I go out with my mates a lot (they are straight) and we often all get a bit of attention from girls. It has been a bit awkward a few times, as the girls wouldn't believe me when i said i was gay - often asking me to prove it!!