Aug 06, 2010 1:15 AM GMT
So, I've been going to the same gym for a few months now. I usually go around the same time everyday. So, for the most part I see a lot of the same people everyday I go. There is a HOT guy I see there a couple of times a week. We've been exchanging long glances for a couple of months now. Also he'll find a way to workout in my line of eyesight, and I can just feel his eyes on me at all times. In the recent weeks he started to acknowledge me with a smile and a head nod, and I do the same. I have also observed him chatting with some men at the gym who are obviously gay. My gaydar is usually on point, so I thought I had him figured out with all these slight indications. Then he goes and throws me for a loop. Yesterday he caught my eye and came over and started to talk to me for the first time. He introduced himself and said he was a manager at a strip club. He said the manager wanted to change the atmosphere to more of a hip hop/pop vibe. He then proceeds to give me 5 VIP passes to a STRAIGHT strip club, and told me to stop in. I was like, HUH??? lol... That's not the kicker though. I go home and do some research. The website that's on the VIP card doesn't exist. I guess because it's new. So, then I use my trusty friend google who has never failed me. The name does not bring up any results, so I search the address. Come to find out just as recently as a couple of months ago it was a gay dance club/go-go bar! I wonder was he the manager then? Did he want me to find that out? Hmmm I'M CONFUSED! Guys where should I go from here??? I'm very intrigued! Next time I see him what should I do? What questions should I ask? Could he be a gay guy working as female strip club manager? Is he trying to figure me out? Or is he trying to let me know he is not gay? He really threw me for a loop here guys. Any suggestions on how to approach this would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!