something are hard to know online

  • johnny9027

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    Aug 06, 2010 5:14 AM GMT
    I've been talking to couples of guys through internet, and I made a lot more friends. BUT, when things get down to dating or relationship, I have to know something about that guy which I don't personally wanna hurt anyone but I really wanna know about this person if there's a chance we can go out for a date.
    there are two things which i think they are kinda making no sense if I just trun down the guy for this reason. one is, if this guy is feminine or not. I don't like feminine guys, but I do have experience that when i dated someone from internet, I found out he's so nice but very femine, which is a huge turn-off for me, but it's hard to say I don't like you because u r so fucking gay...

    the other one is the personality, some ppl are really "caring" and "passionate" about life though what i perceive from the conversation online. However, after meeting the guy in person, you will find a lot of exact same things he expressed in real life sounds so much different from msn or stuff, and u can nv know how creepy or anti-social this guy really is in real life, which makes me feel so confused a lot of time.

    well, I think maybe it's only me who think like that. But if u have any common experience, plz shareicon_razz.gif
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    Aug 06, 2010 6:14 AM GMT
    Karma is a bitch. Stop hating the feminine guys and karma will be nice to you.
    You don't have to date them, but don't be mean to them just because they don't fit your ideal of the "perfect" guy.

    Other than that, I really don't have much to add...other than plum wine and Saki taste great mixed together. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 28, 2010 7:40 AM GMT
    It sounds like you're attracting the "wrong" type.
    or maybe you're not their type.
    Maybe you should make you're preferences crystal clear before you meet.

    Or Internet dating is not for you, in the FREE world, people can or can't elude to *certain* hidden things you get on the internet.

    But thats only the esthetics, you should be more concerned about what the persons intentions are.
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    Dec 28, 2010 7:47 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidKarma is a bitch. Stop hating the feminine guys and karma will be nice to you.
    You don't have to date them, but don't be mean to them just because they don't fit your ideal of the "perfect" guy.


    This is a big part of it. Also, you look like a big queen in your main profile pic, so maybe like is attracting like?
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    Dec 28, 2010 8:09 AM GMT
    Curious as to your definition of "so fucking gay..." Don't confuse effeminite with being gay.