The going rates for sex

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    Aug 07, 2010 3:59 AM GMT
    A man walked up to me today as I was standing around in the grocery store. He was a white male in maybe late 40s, a little overweight, and not entirely ugly. He comes behind me and shuffles around for several minutes. I, feeling extremely nervous and harassed, flash him a smile. You wouldn't rob a friendly person, would you?
    He comes close to me and breathes around in my personal space.

    Him: "How does $175 sound for half an hour?"
    Me: "Pardon me?"
    Him: "Don't be a __ idiot. I have a nice room."
    I'm thoroughly fascinated to bits here, by now. No one has ever been so blunt to me about sex.
    Him: A little fun time.
    He was getting redder in the face and kept staring at me. I could see his jaw clench, and the veins in his temples throb. He was also 6 inches away from my face and was taller and bigger than I am. It was my turn to check out. He walks away, lingering by the door. I saw him walk to the car and he kept glancing back.
    I was wearing khakis and a blue dress shirt. I had a John Deere cap on. What invitations could I possibly have been trying to solicit?
    My boyfriend thought it was hilarious. I can safely say that even at the peak of my career, I will never make $350/hr.

    Has someone had a similar experience before? Out of theoretical curiosity, how high does the meter run these days?
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    Aug 07, 2010 4:26 AM GMT
    What a nice complement! Still, I do it for nothing, or it's "nothing" at all. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 07, 2010 8:08 AM GMT
    WOw, I wouldnt know, I looked up the rates while I was living in amsterdam, but I was never actually sollicited for it over there.... Thats pretty unusual man
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    Aug 07, 2010 10:33 AM GMT
    LOL. That was really funny!

    I got mistaken for a drug dealer in Lisbon, Portugal, once while I was waiting at a bus stop with my briefcase. They guy thought I was being nasty because I said I didn't have anything to sell him.
  • Beeftastic

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    Aug 08, 2010 12:09 AM GMT
    I know a few 'working' guys here in SF, in fact I dated a few over the years (really dated, not rented). The going rate here is between $150 and $300 for an hour. The $300 types tend to be brand name famous porn stars.

    But, I actually think you dodged a bullet there, that doesn't sound cute or sexy at all, but rather psycho. Someone with that little self control is very scary to me. I would worry that he would lure you into his room and disembowel you or something. It's very Jeffrey Dalmer not cute!

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    Aug 08, 2010 12:19 AM GMT
    I was once asked if I will have sex for money by a guy at a bar. I told him no and left even before he can say anything more. I was flustered and embarrassed as hell. Never wore that shirt again.
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    Aug 08, 2010 12:24 AM GMT
    tuckers_kahuna said The going rate here is between $150 and $300 for an hour. The $300 types tend to be brand name famous porn stars.


    Yeah- that's about right.

    Jason Ridge once made $25k- or at least he claims to have. Old queens.. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 08, 2010 12:29 AM GMT
    MANY years ago I was in a bar in NYC (ina suit afer work) and after I got my drink, I went and stood across from the bar near a wall---and an older "gentleman" came up to me and said "How much?" I chuckled as I said he was mistaken, as I was not a rentboy......to which he sternly retorted, "THEN YOU'RE STANDING ON THE WRONG SIDE OF THE BAR!"
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    Aug 08, 2010 12:36 AM GMT
    Isnt a Manhunt account free?
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    Aug 08, 2010 12:52 AM GMT
    150-300 sound correct and over nites are about 1000.00 or so. My roommate was a rentboy and it was hilarious that some of his johns would try to "negotiate a rate" w/me.
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    Aug 08, 2010 1:49 AM GMT
    The sad part is that too many gay men view each other as whores or trade.

    What that guy did is not 'uncommon' but it is disrespectful.

    Our 'enemies' already believe that is how we are, and too many gay men accept that idea. That that's what we are all about.
    Early in my coming out stages I vowed to myself never to treat another gay man in that fashion or disrespectfully.

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    Aug 08, 2010 2:03 AM GMT
    he must have really liked your booty! LOL
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    Aug 08, 2010 2:08 AM GMT
    I would have impaled the guy through the eyeballs with my keys when he started to physically flip out... CREEPY! Also, to prospective johns: you cruise, you lose.
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    Aug 08, 2010 5:24 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidIf my house gets egg'd or Tee-Pee'd tonight I'll know who did it... It was that horny guy trying to buy some noockie!


    lol icon_razz.gif
  • upsguy68

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    Aug 08, 2010 5:38 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    The day I have to pay for it.. I don't think I'll want it anymore...icon_rolleyes.gif


    I have to totally agree with you!!!
  • commoncoll

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    Aug 08, 2010 6:26 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidI was mowing the grass this morning around 9 am and a black Mercedes drove past me slowly 3 times....
    I pretended not to notice, but I knew by the speed of the car I was being heavily cruised... As usual, it was an older horny guy..
    Yes.. that's right, he was actually older than me..icon_eek.gif On his forth pass he pulled by the curb and rolled down the driver side and hung his arm out the window with a ridiculous wad of cash.
    I stopped the mower,,, looked at him,, shook my head No.. and something about it all struck me funny and I started laughing.
    Needless to say, he flipped me off and drove away. If my house gets egg'd or Tee-Pee'd tonight I'll know who did it...
    It was that horny guy trying to buy some noockie!
    Nah,, he's just back home whacking it to porno no doubt,, Lord, don't every let any of us resort to that!
    The day I have to pay for it.. I don't think I'll want it anymore...icon_rolleyes.gif

    Maybe he just wanted you to mow his lawn and his bushes too?
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    Aug 08, 2010 6:42 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidI was mowing the grass this morning around 9 am and a black Mercedes drove past me slowly 3 times....
    I pretended not to notice, but I knew by the speed of the car I was being heavily cruised... As usual, it was an older horny guy..
    Yes.. that's right, he was actually older than me..icon_eek.gif On his forth pass he pulled by the curb and rolled down the driver side and hung his arm out the window with a ridiculous wad of cash.
    I stopped the mower,,, looked at him,, shook my head No.. and something about it all struck me funny and I started laughing.
    Needless to say, he flipped me off and drove away. If my house gets egg'd or Tee-Pee'd tonight I'll know who did it...
    It was that horny guy trying to buy some noockie!
    Nah,, he's just back home whacking it to porno no doubt,, Lord, don't every let any of us resort to that!
    The day I have to pay for it.. I don't think I'll want it anymore...icon_rolleyes.gif


    I've seen your pics, Trust me, you will NEVER have to pay for sex, and in the rear event you don't have guys banging your door down, let me know, the airport is only an hour awayicon_biggrin.gif , oh and as for the rate thing, no clue, had a guy try to give me a car once, if I'd come stay with him, kinda creepy
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    Aug 08, 2010 8:05 AM GMT
    icon_biggrin.gif alreay packed
  • drypin

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    Aug 08, 2010 10:22 PM GMT
    umm.. that was me, GuyNextDoor. I didn't want you to come with me. I just wanted you to mow naked so I could watch and jack off in my limo.
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    Aug 08, 2010 10:22 PM GMT
    Dinner, maybe a drink or two.
  • voyager1977

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    Aug 08, 2010 10:44 PM GMT
    I've been offered money for sex by old Bible banners who are married and perceive themselves to be pillars of the community and need it kept discreet.
    And young Asian's attending university.

    The average was around $300 as I recall.

    I've never said yes...and it's been about a year since it last happened.
  • commoncoll

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    Aug 08, 2010 10:56 PM GMT
    voyager1977 saidI've been offered money for sex by old Bible banners who are married and perceive themselves to be pillars of the community and need it kept discreet.
    And young Asian's attending university.

    The average was around $300 as I recall.

    I've never said yes...and it's been about a year since it last happened.

    It's OK. We don't judge. In fact, most of us do it for free anyway.
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    Aug 08, 2010 10:59 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    hotguyxxx said
    TheGuyNextDoor said/>


    I've seen your pics, Trust me, you will NEVER have to pay for sex, and in the rear event if you don't have guys banging your door down, let me know, the airport is only an hour awayicon_biggrin.gif ,

    Humm... I don't hear any knocking much less banging going on,, and Yes.. I've seen your pics. too.. That's DFW you're looking for..icon_cool.gif



    it definitely would be a REAR event! freudian slip by hotguyxxx? who loves ya Tony.
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    Aug 08, 2010 11:32 PM GMT
    carmineastoria saidHas someone had a similar experience before?
    Yes, but it usually happens in bars...never at a grocery store.
    There have been a couple times when I was approached on the street by cross-dresser prostitutes saying "20 dolla for a blowjob." I simply smile and say "sorry hun, I charge 250. Wanna split the difference?"
  • EricLA

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    Aug 08, 2010 11:47 PM GMT
    carmineastoria said... I can safely say that even at the peak of my career, I will never make $350/hr.


    And don't forget, it would have been tax free! ;-) You should have asked how much it would have been for two of you -- so inconsiderate not to include your boyfriend! :-P