Aug 07, 2010 4:27 AM GMT
This past weekend my partner and I went to a club that one of our friends is promoting. There were some go go boys at the club and one of them was particularly friendly to the two of us and hung out with us quite a bit while we were there. I also had him give a lap dance to a friend that joined us at the club and he later danced with her and me for a while. Now, my partner was acting like a puppy dog over the dancer who happens to be drop dead gorgeous. I still am not sure if he is gay, bi, or straight, although my friend said he told her he is straight. After we left the club, I learned that both my partner and my friend had exchanged contact info with the dancer guy. My partner has since friended him on Facebook and they have exchanged some e-mails. I can tell he has a bit of a crush on the guy and I think it is kind of cute. I'm not jealous, probably because I don't think anything will come of it. It got me to wondering though, if your boyfriend of partner is clearly attracted to another guy, does it bother you or are you cool with it?