"How To Approach A Guy" 101

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    Aug 08, 2010 1:46 AM GMT
    What are some of the ways you'd like to be approached in person or online?

    I got a lot of msg on realjock from sketchy profiles asking I'll give a massage or cam with them or a simple dumbass line "wassup". Big turn off.

    I am actually a nice guy who would respond to a msg if they are carefully written with correct grammar and nicely introducing themselves. Is that too much to ask? But, all I get is sketchy msgs. Argh.. (Rant) icon_evil.gif
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    Aug 08, 2010 10:04 AM GMT
    Well, online you sometimes get guys who are dyslexic or illiterate but otherwise sound of health and mind. Also there's the "God, I'm tired of thinking up something sensible to write to hotties just to never hear back"-factor. So you'll get a very short message and if you actually respond you might get a real message. Might not.

    Real life I like a guy to come up and say hi and introduce himself and then wander off before it gets awkward. Then come back and talk to me again later in the evening. Sounds weird but it makes me way more comfortable. I've only actually ever used it once on a guy but it was very successful.
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    Aug 08, 2010 10:15 AM GMT
    frenchatheart saidWhat are some of the ways you'd like to be approached in person or online?

    I got a lot of msg on realjock from sketchy profiles asking I'll give a massage or cam with them or a simple dumbass line "wassup". Big turn off.

    I am actually a nice guy who would respond to a msg if they are carefully written with correct grammar and nicely introducing themselves. Is that too much to ask? But, all I get is sketchy msgs. Argh.. (Rant) icon_evil.gif


    Got the carefully written with "semi" correct grammar...and very nicely
    introducing himself.
    After two and a half months, met up.....Man!!!.....was very pleasantly not so surprised, as I had spent so much time getting to know him as best as one can over the internet. He's an awesome guy.
  • jetzenpolis

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    Aug 08, 2010 10:32 AM GMT
    i don't care how i'm approached - preferably without firearms, knives, bombs, poison, etc.

    whatever happens on the first approach - no matter how badly it might go - it's what happens afterwards that's more important.

    can he carry on a conversation with me? does he want to do things with me? does he make me laugh? do i feel at ease around him?