I'm almost twice your age and I'm not looking for love. But that could be because I already found it...within myself. Through the years I've turned away from dating and turned inward to find that I prefer friendship, which means I can share the love I already have, with others. Sometimes it becomes sexual, sometimes not, but the sex and the friendship always remain separate.
Plus I'm a musician as well, and I know that we (and other artists) are the hardest people on the planet to date. Nobody understands us...not even other musicians.