What do we do when a guy is unspeakably handsome and charming...but he's straight?

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    Aug 12, 2010 5:15 AM GMT
    You know what I mean? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 12, 2010 5:46 AM GMT
    have a wonderful dream about him where the sex is the best youve ever had and hes amazing and wants to do all these special things with just you...and then wake up, snap out of it and realise thats as close as you'll ever get. and then move on.
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    Aug 12, 2010 6:00 AM GMT
    I pray that he might at least do a tranny and grow my hair long again........
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    Aug 12, 2010 6:01 AM GMT
    Buy him a beer. Duh! icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 12, 2010 8:19 AM GMT
    jim_e saidI pray that he might at least do a tranny and grow my hair long again........


    LMFAO! *claps!*
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    Aug 12, 2010 10:59 AM GMT
    Jonno11 saidhave a wonderful dream about him where the sex is the best youve ever had and hes amazing and wants to do all these special things with just you...and then wake up, snap out of it and realise thats as close as you'll ever get. and then move on.


    Good advice, if only this dream is never to get over. Sigh.
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    Aug 12, 2010 12:07 PM GMT
    Aww, shucks....thanks!icon_cool.gif




    but I'm not straight icon_lol.gif
  • twostroke

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    Aug 12, 2010 12:18 PM GMT
    either waste your time or not waste your time
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    Aug 12, 2010 12:19 PM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said Aww, shucks....thanks!icon_cool.gif




    but I'm not straight icon_lol.gif
    LMAO! icon_lol.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 12, 2010 12:30 PM GMT
    Make a friend, I have plenty of straight male friends who are attractive...
    but I tend to come across very differently than with a make friend that might be gay, its all cool.
  • calibro

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    Aug 12, 2010 12:35 PM GMT
    convert him
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    Aug 12, 2010 12:57 PM GMT
    Drug him, tie him up in a basement, have fun, and when he loses his, ummmm, 'potential', just dump him in the first asylum you can find... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 12, 2010 1:01 PM GMT
    I have two mates like that, and have has some in the past two. You get over it. Anyhow they are straight and a friend, anything else is your issue and not theirs.
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    Aug 12, 2010 1:08 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidBuy him a beer. Duh! icon_razz.gif

    I was about to say! And hope you can make him your friend, and nothing more.

    There are billions of people in this world, and handsome gay guys are as common as handsome straight ones, if not more so. Save your energy, and put your efforts where you're more likely to get some real results.

    I mean, there are stunningly beautiful women, as well. You gonna go off chasing after one of them, too? You don't go up dead-end streets when your path is clear. Jeesh, life is so easy, why do we complicate it? icon_confused.gif
  • LJay

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    Aug 12, 2010 1:17 PM GMT
    We act like gentlemen, respect his identity as much as we expect him to respect ours, and perhaps enjoy a friendship if we are lucky. Yes, buy him a beer and enjoy his company.

    The notion that one is wasting one's time if an attractive person is not a potential bedmate is apt to deny us the breadth of experience that makes life worth living. As gay people become more militant in the name of tolerance and acceptance, we need to remind ourselves that those same qualities need practicing as well as advocacy.
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    Aug 12, 2010 1:18 PM GMT
    Sorry. Double post.
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    Aug 12, 2010 1:25 PM GMT
    (step one) Become friends with him.
    (step two) Invite a bunch of people to go hang out somewhere and car pool with the guy. make sure to bring many hot girls.
    (step three) Get him drunk

    I think you know where this is going.
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    Aug 12, 2010 1:27 PM GMT
    LJay saidWe act like gentlemen, respect his identity as much as we expect him to respect ours, and perhaps enjoy a friendship if we are lucky. Yes, buy him a beer and enjoy his company.

    The notion that one is wasting one's time if an attractive person is not a potential bedmate is apt to deny us the breadth of experience that makes life worth living. As gay people become more militant in the name of tolerance and acceptance, we need to remind ourselves that those same qualities need practicing as well as advocacy.

    Beautiful comments. And you know what I also find beautiful? A beautiful mind. And he may not be gay, or maybe it's a she, and a lesbian one at that.

    Maybe it's my age, but even decades ago it was a person's intellect and personality that attracted me. If I could get a good body in the deal, too, well, I wasn't gonna complain, but it's never been body first with me. I often wonder if a lot of the problems guys subsequently have in their relationships is because they entered them "body first" and then tried to make the rest work out later?
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    Aug 12, 2010 1:47 PM GMT
    If you like his personality and enjoy spending time with him, be a good friend to him and maybe he will return the sentiment.

    In the long term that's about the best thing you can get from a person gay or straight. Their friendship.
  • SoDakGuy

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    Aug 12, 2010 1:49 PM GMT
    BE HIS FRIEND AND HIS FRIEND ONLY.


    Gbob saidYou know what I mean? icon_rolleyes.gif
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Aug 12, 2010 2:18 PM GMT
    l have plenty of friends like that but l would never cross the line!

    Anyway l have no need as my other half is the best.
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    Aug 12, 2010 2:45 PM GMT
    Once I know a guy is straight, I almost always lose attraction. Most my friends are straight, so maybe its easier for me. Anyhow, why screw things up with misplaced longing.
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    Aug 12, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    ??? Is there a point to this post? icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 12, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    Say what they say in the south....'Bless his heart...' then you can say ANYTHING about him... as long as you end with 'Bless his heart..'


    He's straight... Bless his heart..
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    Aug 12, 2010 3:09 PM GMT
    LJay saidWe act like gentlemen, respect his identity as much as we expect him to respect ours, and perhaps enjoy a friendship if we are lucky. Yes, buy him a beer and enjoy his company.

    The notion that one is wasting one's time if an attractive person is not a potential bedmate is apt to deny us the breadth of experience that makes life worth living. As gay people become more militant in the name of tolerance and acceptance, we need to remind ourselves that those same qualities need practicing as well as advocacy.


    This.

    The one thing we DON'T do is try to get him in the sack.