My boyfriend broke up with me for another guy!

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    Aug 13, 2010 5:01 PM GMT
    Hello,

    I am 24, going to graduate college in May with a marketing degree and I need some advise. Tonight but boyfriend of about 7 months just broke with me. We are both Bi and he broke up with me for another Bi guy he had been seeing for about a month or so. We are still going to be friends but I just don't know if he's making the right choice.

    They have known each other since January but started dating so to speak in June
    They made it "official" August 8th and they have had sex. My boyfriend told me that he feels like he can conquer the world when he's around him and that he thinks about him all the time. They have already talked about going out to California and getting married in the future.

    My ex just got a nursing job and has started looking at houses. He said he's going to have him move in when he buys one. He said he is on a different level with him than he was with me.

    His new guy is in an "open" relationship with the mother of his like 5 year old son and my ex said that she will not take him moving in with my ex very well and that her friends are very dangerous. His new guy works at advance auto parts and did not go to college...he is 28.

    My ex was my first sexual experience and first true love. He said in the future if things don't work out between them we might can try again. He still wants to be friends and wants to still do stuff on a regular basis. He cried and broke down when he told me about his feelings.

    I just wanted to see what you all thought about this and if you thought it is still a good idea to do stuff together. My ex also said that his new bf is very jealous.

    I am not going to let it drag me down though because the sun will still come up tomorrow, however I am still hurting inside. I just feel like this is one of those falling in love too fast predicaments.

    Pleas give me some advise if you can.
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:10 PM GMT
    now dear, please take a backseat and wait while your now ex
    goes out buys himself a home
    has a new boyfriend move in, who sounds like a load of trouble if ya ask me
    and your wondering if you should wait for him?
    even mess around with him ,possible getting his new boyfriend al mad at you?
    yes it will be your fault not his after all

    and when they break up you want in again?
    well dear now you just sit right there and think

    think damn it
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:16 PM GMT
    Move on....
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:18 PM GMT
    LMFAO. You can't be serious with this right?


    MOVE ON! HONEY,SISTA,CHILD. *Tyra voice* icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:19 PM GMT
    I'll tell you what Dan Savage would tell you, "Dump the mother fucker already"!

    He made his choice. Cut ties and move on.
  • KepaArg

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    Aug 13, 2010 9:26 PM GMT
    Lenoxx saidLMFAO. You can't be serious with this right?


    MOVE ON! HONEY,SISTA,CHILD. *Tyra voice* icon_lol.gif

    tyra.gif
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:30 PM GMT
    Wow, I hope you find a guy who will treat you the way you should soon. icon_smile.gif

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    Aug 13, 2010 9:33 PM GMT
    KepaArg said
    Lenoxx saidLMFAO. You can't be serious with this right?


    MOVE ON! HONEY,SISTA,CHILD. *Tyra voice* icon_lol.gif

    tyra.gif


    ROTFLMFAO!!!
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:37 PM GMT
    You've only been dating for 7 months and your boyfriend couldn't even keep it in his pants for that long. How can you see any kind of future with him, especially when he's been cheating on you (emotionally and physically) for the past month? Take a step back and try to look at your situation. I don't think it would be healthy for you to even be friends to be honest. It will be hard at first, but sometimes you have to deal with it to save yourself from future pain and drama down the road.
  • calibro

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    Aug 13, 2010 9:37 PM GMT
    no pic + no profile + first day joined and already knows how to use the forums = fake profile troll with nothing better to do than make up dramatic stories for attention.
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:42 PM GMT
    Your Ex should STAY your ex, how dare he do this to you and now have you as a back up plan if it doesn't work with his slut?!?! you must know you are better than that and that he just fucked up a great thing! do NOT do "stuff" with him, cause that will just get you tangled up in his web even more and let him step all over you.....what a tool! you are better off dude!
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:45 PM GMT
    calibro saidno pic + no profile + first day joined and already knows how to use the forums = fake profile troll with nothing better to do than make up dramatic stories for attention.



    hmmmm good point....
  • DanielQQ

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    Aug 13, 2010 9:45 PM GMT
    calibro saidno pic + no profile + first day joined and already knows how to use the forums = fake profile troll with nothing better to do than make up dramatic stories for attention.


    logical fallacy. the profile might be fake, but that doesn't mean the story is made up. It's possible that he participates in the forum under another name but didn't want to use that profile because he feels embarrassed.

  • keithmd

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    Aug 13, 2010 9:49 PM GMT
    Get tested for STDs babe first of all. He is a cheat and there is no telling who he has been with and if they have anything to pass on, Move on and dont look back he is a waste of your time. Build your career and look for someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve, if you take him back he may continue to cheat and make you miserable. You deserve better and that guy is looking for you
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:49 PM GMT
    Unless, this one of those situations where you're actually the "ex" in question and you're trying to figure out what to do next? Instead of, dealing with the fact that you fucked up on something good; and you may never get him back... which a crock load of bullshit, but I approach things from different angles. Helps keep things in perspective once the issues are resolved, if so.
    =D I guess this makes me an asshole?!
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:56 PM GMT
    He's a trip - fuck him and get one...you're obviously better - don't get jaded with his fuck up.
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    Aug 13, 2010 10:03 PM GMT
    It happens .
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    Aug 13, 2010 10:18 PM GMT
    that's what you get
    for dating your own kind.
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    Aug 13, 2010 11:15 PM GMT
    Forgive me but I gotta say the following: You'd be a complete fool to stay in contact on any level with this dude. What are you trying to hold onto!!!???

    No bones about it-you're going to be hurting for awhile but time heals.

    Don't backslide or I'll figuratively backhand you.icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 13, 2010 11:24 PM GMT
    You all just make this shit up don't you?
  • solak

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    Aug 13, 2010 11:28 PM GMT
    biguy101 said
    I am 24, going to graduate college in May


    all I needed to hear... blessing in disguise.. use all that extra time to ace your tests and have him crawl back to you once his home forecloses at which point you'll start dating the mechanic and use the wife as your housemaid.
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    Aug 13, 2010 11:38 PM GMT
    Sweetie, It's always hard when your first love ends. Don't let your ex-boyfriend string you along. You need to cut all ties with him (for at least a year) and get on with your life. Make a clean break so you can get over him.
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    Aug 13, 2010 11:55 PM GMT
    Eh, in order:
    1.Delete his number from your cell.
    2. Block his email address.
    3. Remember you deserve better than his douch bag ass.
    4. Do something good for for your self; go to a spa, take a trip, buy yourself a new jacket.
    5. Avoid dating douch bags in the future.
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    Aug 13, 2010 11:57 PM GMT
    To think if you where married, it would be off to the divorce court now wouldn't it. So many gays don't relise the pain they have been protected from and in the past we thought the straight got nasty in the divorce courts, wait until the queens hit them.
  • nv7_

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    Aug 13, 2010 11:59 PM GMT
    I fed a donkey Skittles and he turned rainbow colors.