Desire to make someone ORGASM

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    Aug 13, 2010 7:47 PM GMT
    I've often wondered, are there guys who are really focused on being a dominant role and making guys orgasm? I don't think I'm asking this the right way. Like, look at this pic of Randy Orton wrestler. When you see a guy that looks like he's on the prowl, are they thinkin', I wanna dominate and make this guy mad over me, or are they thinking more about themselves?

    I still don't think I'm asking this question right. Are any of you guys out their looking to make a guy go crazy hot mad over you, almost to the point that you feel like you're being their sexual devil? Like you want to get under their sexual skin and drive them mad crazy hot?

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  • jgymnast733

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    Aug 13, 2010 8:02 PM GMT
    I actually drove someone crazy like that once and it wasnt as great after a while, as time went on he needed to know where i was and who i'm with,,it always ended in a fight..But the make up sex was Fuckin great... So, it became a game for us to get angry about dumb shit and have crazy mad wonderful makeup sex...
    I know it sound a little odd, but hey what the hell..icon_exclaim.gif
    There is someone at work i'd totally drop all the others for but he's still on the fence about commiting...OH WELL...
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    Aug 13, 2010 8:13 PM GMT
    I hate the thoughts that run through your head sometimes: "Are they just trying to get me off to get it over with," etc. You want to feel that they are going mad to make you shoot.

    Sorry if this belongs in the sex talk section. It's just that more guys read the All Things Gay. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 13, 2010 8:21 PM GMT
    wrestlervic saidI've often wondered, are there guys who are really focused on being a dominant role and making guys orgasm? ... Are any of you guys out their looking to make a guy go crazy hot mad over you, almost to the point that you feel like you're being their sexual devil? Like you want to get under their sexual skin and drive them mad crazy hot?

    I don't see why BOTH guys can't have dominant moments in bed together. I realize the word dominant would seem to make that an impossible proposition, but I like to be a strong guy in bed, who also likes to be himself pleased by a strong guy, who knows what he's doing.

    And I do love to drive a man crazy with my technique, especially oral. No lie, most every guy I've ever gone to bed with says I gave them the best BJ of their lives. And then I try to improve some more next time I'm with him, since each time I learn a little more about what that guy likes, until I'm playing his body like a musical instrument.

    Now that might almost sound like I'm being a submissive, but not really. First, I take charge and show the guy what I can do, tell him I've got some things I wanna try on him. Later I modify & adjust as I see his reaction to them. And I just LIKE to see a guy smile and hear him moan in pleasure, and I like to have his body at my disposal, to play with and have my own fun.

    And knowing he's going to be doing the same to me shortly, or some things we're already mutually doing together. Cause yes, I often start things off, take the initiative, and often prefer to let him finish first, too, because my own pleasure can be greater if I'm being acted upon, giving him pleasure first like foreplay to me, then just lying back and letting myself be serviced, in ways that HE likes to do.
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:10 PM GMT
    Meh in my experience mod guys aren't very adaptable in bed...
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:23 PM GMT
    The infatuations of sexual submissives usually end up ruining what makes them so sexually delectable in the first place.
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:28 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidThe infatuations of sexual submissives usually end up ruining what makes them so sexually delectable in the first place.


    I have no idea what that means. Could you explain further?
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    Aug 13, 2010 9:31 PM GMT
    Well hopefully I will answer right lol...I know when it gets down to it with me...I WANT the guy to orgasm. It makes me feel good and makes me orgasm. If they go first or its simultaneous im a happy confident boy!icon_twisted.gif
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    Aug 13, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    cthedj saidWell hopefully I will answer right lol...I know when it gets down to it with me...I WANT the guy to orgasm. It makes me feel good and makes me orgasm. If they go first or its simultaneous im a happy confident boy!icon_twisted.gif


    THIS! I think the best times I have had is when it happens at the same time!
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    Aug 13, 2010 10:29 PM GMT
    rioriz said
    cthedj saidWell hopefully I will answer right lol...I know when it gets down to it with me...I WANT the guy to orgasm. It makes me feel good and makes me orgasm. If they go first or its simultaneous im a happy confident boy!icon_twisted.gif


    THIS! I think the best times I have had is when it happens at the same time!
    Isnt it??? Im getting hard thinking about how hot it is lol icon_surprised.gif Especially if youre kissing during...geesh.
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    Aug 13, 2010 10:31 PM GMT
    my ex boyfriend always wanted me to have orgasm. never thought about himself...
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    Aug 13, 2010 10:31 PM GMT
    cthedj said
    rioriz said
    cthedj saidWell hopefully I will answer right lol...I know when it gets down to it with me...I WANT the guy to orgasm. It makes me feel good and makes me orgasm. If they go first or its simultaneous im a happy confident boy!icon_twisted.gif


    THIS! I think the best times I have had is when it happens at the same time!
    Isnt it??? Im getting hard thinking about how hot it is lol icon_surprised.gif Especially if youre kissing during...geesh.


    You can make me orgasm anytime of the week? LOL
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    Aug 13, 2010 10:44 PM GMT
    I love driving my guy crazy.

    It's easy now because we've been together for so long. I know the buttons to push.

    But I don't know...I'm not overly dominant. I just usually try to push him there first, if that makes any sense. icon_biggrin.gif

    Watching him, driving him, always does it for me.
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    Aug 13, 2010 10:48 PM GMT
    cthedj saidWell hopefully I will answer right lol...I know when it gets down to it with me...I WANT the guy to orgasm. It makes me feel good and makes me orgasm. If they go first or its simultaneous im a happy confident boy!icon_twisted.gif
    thats what its all about with me, pleasing him and if we both hit at the same time well its probably the most awesome time icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 13, 2010 10:51 PM GMT
    When I wrote "driving him" I didn't mean like a car or horse and buggy...

    Just to clarify. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 13, 2010 11:34 PM GMT
    jgymnast733 saidI actually drove someone crazy like that once and it wasnt as great after a while, as time went on he needed to know where i was and who i'm with,,it always ended in a fight..But the make up sex was Fuckin great... So, it became a game for us to get angry about dumb shit and have crazy mad wonderful makeup sex...
    I know it sound a little odd, but hey what the hell..icon_exclaim.gif
    There is someone at work i'd totally drop all the others for but he's still on the fence about commiting...OH WELL...


    ohhhhhhhhhhhh i had one of those once. but then the calls practically every hour began to get on my last nerve. and then the threatening to take pills if i were to leave him really was the icing on the cake....
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    Aug 14, 2010 12:58 AM GMT
    Horsepower saidWhen I wrote "driving him" I didn't mean like a car or horse and buggy...

    Just to clarify. icon_biggrin.gif


    Ha-Ha! I just laughed my ass off when I read this. How cute. icon_wink.gif
  • Celticmusl

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    Aug 14, 2010 1:03 AM GMT
    If they are not completely psycho about me I USUALLY won't date them. I think it has to do with insecurity issues. If I don't catch them staring at me half a dozen times on a date, and see their pupils dilate when talking with them face to face, I'm not sure if they like me.

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    Aug 14, 2010 1:08 AM GMT
    Celticmusl saidIf they are not completely psycho about me I USUALLY won't date them. I think it has to do with insecurity issues. If I don't catch them staring at me half a dozen times on a date, and see their pupils dilate when talking with them face to face, I'm not sure if they like me.



    You always make my pupils dilate, as well as something else. Wait, no, take that last part back.
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    Aug 14, 2010 1:13 AM GMT
    cthedj saidWell hopefully I will answer right lol...I know when it gets down to it with me...I WANT the guy to orgasm. It makes me feel good and makes me orgasm. If they go first or its simultaneous im a happy confident boy!icon_twisted.gif


    Agree with you 100%
  • idkagudname

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    Aug 14, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    I agree with above.

    If I make you orgasm via eye candy or physical intimacy.

    I like it.
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    Aug 14, 2010 2:08 AM GMT
    Well, besides making you feel good about yourself, for me it really is about pleasing the other guy. It shows that you're a caring person, that you like to make the people around you happy. Hell yeah I wanna make my guy orgasm... I wanna make the whole experience amazing for him from head to toe, start to finish...
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    Aug 14, 2010 2:21 AM GMT
    You mean the other guy is supposed to orgasm too?
    Dammit! No wonder I'm single! icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 14, 2010 4:39 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou mean the other guy is supposed to orgasm too?
    Dammit! No wonder I'm single! icon_razz.gif
    HAHAHA! Good response! so many guys on here seem to want to see the other guy cum. Imagine what straight guys go through trying to get girls there. Thats 10x tougher
  • joncfernan

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    Aug 14, 2010 4:43 AM GMT
    Paul! LMAO.
    Its the wierdest thing - but I've had those moments where I instinctively finish as soon as I feel the other guy about to as well even if I'm not close. Its amazing what sight and touch can deliver to the mind...