I am in danger of losing my mind over a guy, how do I get over him?

  • daydreamer85

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    Aug 17, 2010 12:55 AM GMT
    I currently like this guy. I think of him very often. At the sight of him I either break into millions of pieces, lose control and any sense of inner poise, and my behavior becomes that of an of 14 year old girl with crush on her teacher. I have hooked up with twice with him twice before and in between he has brushed me off in the rudest manner (Friday) and hooked up with with one my friends. I felt crushed... I like this guy but I find him intimidating and I am too afraid that if I talk to him. What should I do?
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    Aug 17, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    go to walmart and buy a blow up doll and name him the guys name and fuck it..thrw it away the next day and boom boom pow lmfao
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    Aug 17, 2010 2:37 AM GMT
    simplydario said and my behavior becomes that of an of 14 year old girl with crush on her teacher.


    Well, you hit the nail on the head. You are acting like a 14 year old girl.

    I don't say that to be mean. We queers suffer from a suspended adolescence. Our hetero friends get to public experiment with relationships while we are figuring out of that jerk-off fantasy with the whole football team means anything. That part of ourselves doesn't get to mature until we come out which is a lot later in life than when heteros come out of the closet.

    So, you are having a sweet little crush on a guy who treats you like shit. Honey, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone. Go out, have a drink, fuck someone else and forget about this asshole.
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    Aug 17, 2010 2:53 AM GMT
    simplydario saidI currently like this guy. I think of him very often. At the sight of him I either break into millions of pieces, lose control and any sense of inner poise, and my behavior becomes that of an of 14 year old girl with crush on her teacher. I have hooked up with twice with him twice before and in between he has brushed me off in the rudest manner (Friday) and hooked up with with one my friends. I felt crushed... I like this guy but I find him intimidating and I am too afraid that if I talk to him. What should I do?


    This may make me sound like a crazy person, but I have a two-step system to get over anyone!

    1) Think of the bad things/ the bad times. Really concentrate on how you were mistreated. He was an ass, blew you off, you are better off without him.

    2) To remove sexual attraction. Imagine him on the toilet. No one looks good sitting on the toilet.

    You deserve someone who will treat you well. Not to throw your affections at a hookup. Good luck bud.
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    Aug 17, 2010 3:14 AM GMT
    simplydario saidWhat should I do?

    I've always felt that one of the best ways to get rid of an old love is with a new love. I don't know if you have that option, but I'd get to work on it. When you have a new love interest, you'll begin to automatically forget about the old one.

    Or you should. And if you don't, that's termed an obsession, and you may need professional help. So try it, see what happens.