Kids. Children.

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    Aug 18, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    I want kids. badly. i dont care what anyone says. i want children. i volunteer my time at a daycare. i love kids. icon_smile.gif

    anyone else? want kids? icon_biggrin.gif
  • commoncoll

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    Aug 18, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    Yes! I was lucky enough to have one son. I want more.
    I don't care what they are.
  • KepaArg

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    Aug 18, 2010 12:57 AM GMT
    I would like to have kids, but not until my mid-30s. I will most likely adopt, but open to having Amuro Namie as my surrogate icon_smile.gif, However, I wouldn't date a man who already has a child
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    Aug 18, 2010 12:58 AM GMT
    hell yes i want kids i want all boys so they dont suffer...fuck girls..but i want to raise them by myself so he can be a little guido hahaha

    my sons r gonna be so fucking gorgeous and fearless like his father haha
  • KepaArg

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    Aug 18, 2010 1:00 AM GMT
    BELLO saidhell yes i want kids i want all boys tho so they dont suffer...fuck girls..but i want to raise him by myself so he can be a little guido hahaha

    my sons r gonna be so fucking gorgeous and fearless like his father haha


    Haha, little guidos running around. You'll be like that New Jersey housewife. Yea, I want sons as well.
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    Aug 18, 2010 1:01 AM GMT
    KepaArg said
    BELLO saidhell yes i want kids i want all boys tho so they dont suffer...fuck girls..but i want to raise him by myself so he can be a little guido hahaha

    my sons r gonna be so fucking gorgeous and fearless like his father haha


    Haha, little guidos running around. You'll be like that New Jersey housewife. Yea, I want sons as well.



    hehehe yeah me to but no father lol i want kids when i turn 25 yep yep..i mean im rich so hahaha
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    Aug 18, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    I use to want children really bad. Unfortunately none of my now ex bfs wanted kids. Now at 42 I feel like I'm to old. A couple of years ago I ended up being a surrogate for a friend and her husband who wanted a second child but couldn't have one due to a medical condition. Figured since I didn't have children of my own I could give someone that gift.
  • disasterpiece

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    Aug 18, 2010 1:15 AM GMT
    I always wanted to have kids. Probably two kids ! I feel like this should be one of my biggest life accomplishment, especially since I'm not really in an easy position to have kids, ehm...

    But talking about that, what are the possibilities ? I mean I live in Canada and I think surrogates are not legal here. Is adoption the only alternative ?

    commoncollYes! I was lucky enough to have one son. I want more.
    I don't care what they are.


    Why don't you talk a bit more about your experience ? Is it as complicated as it seems ? Did it went well ?
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    Aug 18, 2010 1:17 AM GMT
    There have been kids around 3-7 years old playing outside my hotel room door, loud, screaming, yelling at the top of their lungs...all...fucking...day...long.

    Do Not Want.
  • KepaArg

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    Aug 18, 2010 1:19 AM GMT
    Have you Google'd any information to see if a surrogate is legal in Canada? I would assume if it's legal here in Argentina, it should be ok there in Canada.

    I think I read in another thread the above poster is married and had a kid naturally. So for myself his opinion is invalid (in terms of method).
  • commoncoll

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    Aug 18, 2010 1:31 AM GMT
    disasterpiece said

    commoncollYes! I was lucky enough to have one son. I want more.
    I don't care what they are.


    Why don't you talk a bit more about your experience ? Is it as complicated as it seems ? Did it went well ?

    I got married. Sorry.
  • disasterpiece

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    Aug 18, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    KepaArg saidHave you Google'd any information to see if a surrogate is legal in Canada? I would assume if it's legal here in Argentina, it should be ok there in Canada.


    Well I just discovered that it's legal in Canada, but not in Quebec, where I live.

    In fact, here's the article 541 of Quebec's civil code :

    541. Any agreement whereby a woman undertakes to procreate or carry a child for another person is absolutely null.

    Apparently, even adoption is not theorically legal between homosexual parents. Only one of the two parents will be recognized as a legal parents. But new law projects are on the way to change this. Thought, this is for adoption, I'm not sure about surrogates...
  • KepaArg

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    Aug 18, 2010 1:40 AM GMT
    disasterpiece said
    KepaArg saidHave you Google'd any information to see if a surrogate is legal in Canada? I would assume if it's legal here in Argentina, it should be ok there in Canada.


    Well I just discovered that it's legal in Canada, but not in Quebec, where I live.

    In fact, here's the article 541 of Quebec's civil code :

    541. Any agreement whereby a woman undertakes to procreate or carry a child for another person is absolutely null.

    Apparently, even adoption is not theorically legal between homosexual parents. Only one of the two parents will be recognized as a legal parents. But new law projects are on the way to change this. Thought, this is for adoption, I'm not sure about surrogates...


    Boo, come marry an Argentine and adopt from here...both you and him will be declared the legal parents of the child icon_smile.gif)
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    Aug 18, 2010 1:40 AM GMT
    disasterpiece saidI always wanted to have kids. Probably two kids ! I feel like this should be one of my biggest life accomplishment, especially since I'm not really in an easy position to have kids, ehm...

    But talking about that, what are the possibilities ? I mean I live in Canada and I think surrogates are not legal here. Is adoption the only alternative ?


    Yes, surrogates are legal in Canada, here:

    http://www.canadiansurrogacyoptions.com/recipients.html

    "Many women have medical issues, or genetic conditions which makes pregnancy life-threatening, or impossible. Unlike adoption, surrogate parenting allows a child to have a biological link to one or both of the Intended Parents. Science has come along way in the last 20 years, and because of these advances many more couples are experiencing parenthood than ever before. Doors are opening for an increasing number of people. Even same sex couples are finding that they too can be parents with the help of an egg donor, and surrogate."

  • westsideindy

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    Aug 18, 2010 1:43 AM GMT
    I have 3 grown chiildren, best thing that ever happened to me!!
  • disasterpiece

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    Aug 18, 2010 2:00 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    disasterpiece saidI always wanted to have kids. Probably two kids ! I feel like this should be one of my biggest life accomplishment, especially since I'm not really in an easy position to have kids, ehm...

    But talking about that, what are the possibilities ? I mean I live in Canada and I think surrogates are not legal here. Is adoption the only alternative ?


    Yes, surrogates are legal in Canada, here:

    http://www.canadiansurrogacyoptions.com/recipients.html

    "Many women have medical issues, or genetic conditions which makes pregnancy life-threatening, or impossible. Unlike adoption, surrogate parenting allows a child to have a biological link to one or both of the Intended Parents. Science has come along way in the last 20 years, and because of these advances many more couples are experiencing parenthood than ever before. Doors are opening for an increasing number of people. Even same sex couples are finding that they too can be parents with the help of an egg donor, and surrogate."



    Yes, thanks ! I noticed that too. The fact is, it's legal everywhere in Canada EXCEPT in Quebec. And I don't wanna move in Ontario... Nothing's comparable to Montreal icon_rolleyes.gif

    KepaArgBoo, come marry an Argentine and adopt from here...both you and him will be declared the legal parents of the child icon_smile.gif


    Sounds like a nice plan ! icon_smile.gif Would you like to be my first co-father ? Ergh ! I mean... date ? icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 18, 2010 2:04 AM GMT
    I love kids but I don't have the patience or the desire to raise them so no.
  • KepaArg

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    Aug 18, 2010 2:10 AM GMT
    disasterpiece said
    meninlove said
    disasterpiece saidI always wanted to have kids. Probably two kids ! I feel like this should be one of my biggest life accomplishment, especially since I'm not really in an easy position to have kids, ehm...

    But talking about that, what are the possibilities ? I mean I live in Canada and I think surrogates are not legal here. Is adoption the only alternative ?


    Yes, surrogates are legal in Canada, here:

    http://www.canadiansurrogacyoptions.com/recipients.html

    "Many women have medical issues, or genetic conditions which makes pregnancy life-threatening, or impossible. Unlike adoption, surrogate parenting allows a child to have a biological link to one or both of the Intended Parents. Science has come along way in the last 20 years, and because of these advances many more couples are experiencing parenthood than ever before. Doors are opening for an increasing number of people. Even same sex couples are finding that they too can be parents with the help of an egg donor, and surrogate."



    Yes, thanks ! I noticed that too. The fact is, it's legal everywhere in Canada EXCEPT in Quebec. And I don't wanna move in Ontario... Nothing's comparable to Montreal icon_rolleyes.gif

    KepaArgBoo, come marry an Argentine and adopt from here...both you and him will be declared the legal parents of the child icon_smile.gif


    Sounds like a nice plan ! icon_smile.gif Would you like to be my first co-father ? Ergh ! I mean... date ? icon_razz.gif


    I need 10 years, ;) and what do you know I REALLLLLY want to visit Montreal....this could work icon_smile.gif haha
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    Aug 18, 2010 2:37 AM GMT
    I like kids and want to be a badass dad! icon_biggrin.gif Not anytime soon though.
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    Aug 18, 2010 2:46 AM GMT
    My sister has had two daughers over the last two years.
    Now I get to go to the petting farm and the hands on museum!

    My partner and I were recently in San Fran and ended up going to a "gay dads dinner" on the Castro.
    He hasn't been too keen on having kids, but not only did he survive the ordeal... he's now thinking it wouldn't be so bad.
    My goal now is to have the first child (how?!) by 50.
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    Aug 19, 2010 2:54 AM GMT
    I want an asian girl and a russian boy.
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    Aug 19, 2010 2:57 AM GMT
    I would love to have a family some day just gotta find the right guy to be the other father first. I want my first before im 25
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    Aug 19, 2010 3:12 AM GMT
    L0NEvvolf saidI would love to have a family some day just gotta find the right guy to be the other father first. I want my first before im 25


    me too before 30 atleast
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Aug 19, 2010 3:15 AM GMT
    icon_redface.gif yes I do. and I have a friend that wants to have my kids so all I got to do is stick in her icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 19, 2010 3:20 AM GMT
    Space_Cowboy_89 saidicon_redface.gif yes I do. and I have a friend that wants to have my kids so all I got to do is stick in her icon_eek.gif


    hahahhaha have fun