Aug 18, 2010 2:31 AM GMT
Im currently seeing a guy. Don't know if id call it dating or not but we have fun together, go to movies and for dinner and drinks and stuff. I've known him for a little over a month, after breaking up with my now ex-boyfriend. We both agreed that because we were trying to find our way through our feelings about our past relationships that we would take things very slowly. I'm heading north for school in two months and i'll be up there until Xmas. We agreed that whatever mght happen between us would be taken slowly. Fast forward to two days ago, when i went to his house to watch a movie. We wound up cuddling on his couch watching the show, and one thing led to another, and we had sex together. He let me top him, which was the first time I topped. It was great! I left that night and went home and crashed before work the next morning. I got home from work that day and checked facebook. He had changed his relationship status to "In a relationship". Now, I know that he places an emotional attatchment on sex. he likes to get comfortable wth a person before he has sex with them. In a way im the same way, but I sometimes just wanna screw a guy i find hot, lol. Anyways, Im concerned that I'm not far enough out of my past relationship to want anything serious yet, and I want to take things slow. Yes I know we fucked but that cant automatically make us BF's can it? I wanna braoch this carefully cuz i really like the guy, he's great. Im just not sure, especially after everything with my ex, and now discovering topping, that I am ready to settle down into a relationship. I dontt wanna lead the guy on and hurt him, cuz he doesnt deserve that, and i refuse to cheat, but if i enter into a relationship right now, i kinda feel like id be trapped. HELP!