Keeping your privates ... private? (RJ profiles)

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    Aug 19, 2010 3:24 AM GMT
    How do you feel about posting pictures of the intimate areas of your person in your RJ profile's "Adult Photos" section...?

    By intimate, I mean typically pics of CBA (cock, balls and ass photos).

    Or would you think that CBA's and/or even racier underwear shots are best kept private?
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    Aug 19, 2010 3:34 AM GMT
    i think every guy would say if he thought the guy attractive then it would be fine, if he didn't the guy was obviously a deranged slut child molester...right?
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    Aug 19, 2010 3:46 AM GMT
    vetteset saidi think every guy would say if he thought the guy attractive then it would be fine, if he didn't the guy was obviously a deranged slut child molester...right?


    That might be pulling it out to the extremes... but of couse, "your mileage may vary".

    I suppose I should go back and re-word it.

    Reworded. Thanks ;)
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    Aug 19, 2010 3:50 AM GMT
    alphatrigger said
    vetteset saidi think every guy would say if he thought the guy attractive then it would be fine, if he didn't the guy was obviously a deranged slut child molester...right?


    That might be pulling it out to the extremes... but of couse, "your mileage may vary".

    I suppose I should go back and re-word it.


    keep an eye on the tongue in my cheek ;-)
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    Aug 19, 2010 3:58 AM GMT
    hehe... understood. ;)
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    Aug 19, 2010 4:08 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]Or would you think that CBA's and/or even racier underwear shots are best kept private?[/quote]

    Are you suggesting people don't show their balls n cock even in the private section? That's some severe expurgating right there. I disagree with it. If I had it my way I would put up naked men and women on billboards everywhere in public with the message, "This is what people look like. Get the fuck over it."
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    Aug 19, 2010 4:27 AM GMT
    I believe what you present yourself as is what other's will base their opinions upon. I want to attract people that are into intellect rather than a package that over-gift wrapped. I want to help people in life who need a strong and compassionate point of view while I find looks to be too distractive. As a Cancer survivor, homeless survivor, HIV survivor, drug abuse survivor, etc. I have experience that outweighs my looks and only I can turn those sparks into a beacon to light the way. My Social Worker's, Doctor's and friends always promised me these things would someday light the way for someone else. Some approach it with looks as a way to inspire people and there's nothing wrong with that. I was taught Jesus Christ was not an attractive man... It allowed him to attract those that needed healing. I got over my looks years ago I guess. But, I do look in the mirror still and thank God for this temple for spirit that he created for me... I would never expect him to provide one that is better looking.icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:29 AM GMT
    JB82 saidOr would you think that CBA's and/or even racier underwear shots are best kept private?

    Are you suggesting people don't show their balls n cock even in the private section? That's some severe expurgating right there. I disagree with it. If I had it my way I would put up naked men and women on billboards everywhere in public with the message, "This is what people look like. Get the fuck over it."


    Not saying anything of the sort. Just asking what people think about uploading CBAs or other risque photos.

    FWIW, I have some rather risque shots in my privates icon_twisted.gif In fact, I have a rather wide exhibitionist streak.

    At the same time, I also think that some people may react negatively toward seeing a CBA in the Adult photos (I mean really - it's there for the clicking... so I'd say most people are going to click and what they see is what they see).

    My own motivation for moving my CBAs and other exceptionally risque shots to my private photos was thinking some folks might be skeeved out by clicking on my adult photos and being greeted by my naughty bits... ;)
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:32 AM GMT
    tasteful nudes are OK, though I don´t really like to be presented with very explicit pics (full frontal erect, gaping ass etc) unless I asked for them icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:36 AM GMT
    I think everyone posting pics of their private parts on their private section is a whore and should be banned for slutness.
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:38 AM GMT
    charlitos saidI think everyone posting pics of their private parts on their private section is a whore and should be banned for slutness.


    Except you icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:41 AM GMT
    Lostboy saidtasteful nudes are OK, though I don´t really like to be presented with very explicit pics (full frontal erect, gaping ass etc) unless I asked for them icon_wink.gif


    Agreed. The only reason mine aren't up is that people from work/etc. might see. I don't see why you should keep them private either, since if you show one person, you might as well show the entire internet since shit like that gets leaked quite frequently, especially if the person you unlock for is a troll. I've actually been thinking of putting some more of mine up since they're already out there, not sure if it's a good idea though to be honest.
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:43 AM GMT
    Lostboy said
    charlitos saidI think everyone posting pics of their private parts on their private section is a whore and should be banned for slutness.


    Except you icon_rolleyes.gif




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    Aug 20, 2010 4:23 PM GMT
    Fearthefall said
    Lostboy saidtasteful nudes are OK, though I don´t really like to be presented with very explicit pics (full frontal erect, gaping ass etc) unless I asked for them icon_wink.gif


    Agreed. The only reason mine aren't up is that people from work/etc. might see. I don't see why you should keep them private either, since if you show one person, you might as well show the entire internet since shit like that gets leaked quite frequently, especially if the person you unlock for is a troll. I've actually been thinking of putting some more of mine up since they're already out there, not sure if it's a good idea though to be honest.


    and wouldn't you ask yourself in a moment of self reflection: what the fukk are people at my worksite doing on a gay jock site in the first place? Now to me, you have a homo after your ass right in your own worksite....lucky you and you didn't even have to flirt with him....
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    Aug 20, 2010 4:24 PM GMT
    i'm not sure why this keeps coming up.
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    Aug 20, 2010 4:28 PM GMT
    I haven't posted anything in the adult section of my profile. I have some pics in my privates that aren't nudes but just more skin then I feel comfortable with everyone seeing. What can I say, I do have some modesty!

    It's a good idea though not to post any photos you don't want all over the Internet unless you really trust the guys you're sharing them with.
  • JESIE

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    Aug 20, 2010 4:35 PM GMT
    I usually like to post pics when I believe of a good angle/shot. Im more comfortable with myself since I went from 250 to 180. To me its alright. Plus, why not show the boys the goods LOL
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    Aug 20, 2010 4:35 PM GMT
    If you click the link that reads "Adult Photos" or "Private Photos" then you are just as much of a slut as the person you're complaining about.
    The links are clearly marked, so if it's not what you want to view, don't click.
    And if you click and don't like what you see, there's this nifty feature called the Back button.
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    Aug 20, 2010 4:38 PM GMT
    I don't see an issue here. The Private Pix is by invitation only. No one can see that unless you allow them to. I do have one such picture, and only one, there. If, by chance, an RJ friendship seems to be heading in a direction that might include that kind of relationship, I'll open that Private Pic. Otherwise, not.
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    Aug 20, 2010 4:46 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIf you click the link that reads "Adult Photos" or "Private Photos" then you are just as much of a slut as the person you're complaining about.
    The links are clearly marked, so if it's not what you want to view, don't click.
    And if you click and don't like what you see, there's this nifty feature called the Back button.
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    Well said. If someone takes the time to LOOK at adult or private pics, then why would they complain about someone posting them?
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    Aug 20, 2010 4:55 PM GMT
    sashaman said
    paulflexes saidIf you click the link that reads "Adult Photos" or "Private Photos" then you are just as much of a slut as the person you're complaining about.
    The links are clearly marked, so if it's not what you want to view, don't click.
    And if you click and don't like what you see, there's this nifty feature called the Back button.
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    Well said. If someone takes the time to LOOK at adult or private pics, then why would they complain about someone posting them?
    Probably for the same reason I "almost" complained with a dude emailed me close-up pics of his hard cock and spread ass cheeks in a jock strap. But then again, I'm the one said "sure" when he asked if he could email me his pics, so I just had to laugh...still haven't replied back to him, though. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 20, 2010 4:58 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    And if you click and don't like what you see, there's this nifty feature called the Back button.


    I keep clicking it and I have yet to see Charlitos back! icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 20, 2010 5:07 PM GMT
    alphatrigger said

    By intimate, I mean typically pics of CBA (cock, balls and ass photos).


    bitch get yo acronyms right.....lolz
    it aint cba....it's ABC icon_cool.gif

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  • metta

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    Aug 20, 2010 5:20 PM GMT
    I have never had any photos like that so the issue has never come up.
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    Aug 20, 2010 5:20 PM GMT
    nycjosh sed
    alphatrigger saidBy intimate, I mean typically pics of CBA (cock, balls and ass photos).




    bitch get yo acronyms right.....lolz
    it aint cba....it's ABC




    ABC it is. Thanks, Teacher Kitteh! icon_lol.gif



    Wan2GetBigRYou got everyone to look at your pics!


    And the irony of it is... a few hours before making the OP, I had moved the naughty stuff to my privates icon_redface.gificon_razz.gif