RJ Hostility

  • tony_boost

    Posts: 390

    Aug 22, 2010 5:08 AM GMT
    I know i'm not the first person to say this, but its so hard to say anything on this site without someone trying to bring you down, this is probably the most hostile site i use, i know this post alone will have at least 10 guys talking shit on me just for posting this, i'm considering deleting my account altogether because theres so many haters on here
  • maximumrisk

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    Aug 22, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    Come on. Most guys who are active in the forums are mostly nice, there are always some jackasses. So if you spot one, block him, and you dont need to bother reading their posts. Easy as that.
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:14 AM GMT
    This sandbox is filled w/ testosterone. You don't really expect everyone to play nice?
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:14 AM GMT
    I'd also say that these forums are the most hostile of the ones that I frequent. But that's part of the fun, right?
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:19 AM GMT
    It's the same on ALL forums.. gay or straight. The RJ forums are quite tame actually. I've seen worse elsewhere.
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:26 AM GMT
    tony_boost saidI know i'm not the first person to say this, but its so hard to say anything on this site without someone trying to bring you down, this is probably the most hostile site i use, i know this post alone will have at least 10 guys talking shit on me just for posting this, i'm considering deleting my account altogether because theres so many haters on here


    This is the internet. This is not a community, at least not yet. I've honestly noticed on popular sites the mentality overall goes through psychological phases. It starts off as a community but as it grows people with opposing views (mostly everyone) clash until people get bored and leave, or compromise and stay, and eventually (this is years down the road) it becomes a community again. Right now RJ is on the rise of clashing as it has been for a while. It will clash for another 2 years before it goes back down.

    Anyway, I'd ask you out on a date because I like your pics and I'm a dude, but I think being 10 years older than you is not a good thing hahahaha.
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:27 AM GMT
    xrichx saidIt's the same on ALL forums.. gay or straight. The RJ forums are quite tame actually. I've seen worse elsewhere.

    Agree. The guys here are the best.
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:30 AM GMT
    BELLO got deleted? I didn't realize...
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:30 AM GMT
    tony_boost, each of us has a choice, bring the site up or bring it down, and there are a thousand flavours of each, and sometimes what seems a down can be an up and oh hell just shut up Doug. icon_lol.gif

    -Doug



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    Aug 22, 2010 5:47 AM GMT
    I´d totally date Tony_Boost. He´s HOT icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:50 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidBELLO got deleted? I didn't realize...

    I guess so. Well, he was a totally loose cannon. I didn't report or complain about him myself, except when he posted a pic about an alleged ex-BF who was HIV poz And I just requested that the pic & thread be removed, not BELLO himself.

    And that was about the first time in 2 years I submitted such a report. I don't even make reports about southbeach1500, or some other troublesome guys here, that's déclassé, something I don't do. If I have a problem with you I'll confront you face-on, not go behind your back and try to have you booted. That's simply not how I operate.
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:57 AM GMT
    The_Grayne said
    unfounded7 saidBELLO got deleted? I didn't realize...


    He probably left this fucking place and I wouldn't blame him...



    If only some others would follow suiticon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 22, 2010 5:57 AM GMT
    The_Grayne said
    unfounded7 saidBELLO got deleted? I didn't realize...


    He probably left this fucking place and I wouldn't blame him...


    You got deleted too, but you started another profile. This one should be deleted shortly too.
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    Aug 22, 2010 6:00 AM GMT
    The_Grayne said
    Hillie said
    The_Grayne said
    unfounded7 saidBELLO got deleted? I didn't realize...


    He probably left this fucking place and I wouldn't blame him...



    If only some others would follow suiticon_rolleyes.gif


    FUCK YOU!


    How many computers do you have at the psychiatric ward? Maybe the admins can just ban the whole building from accessing the internet.
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    Aug 22, 2010 6:02 AM GMT
    The_Grayne saidHey HIllie and JB82, once you are done with your bedroom fuck maybe you can take your little porno elsewhere... YOU MAKE ME SICK.


    Take pictures of all the pills you take and show us. There's something wrong here. They're supposed to SEDATE you from figuring out how to go on the internet. Not the other way around.
  • Webster666

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    Aug 22, 2010 6:45 AM GMT
    It's the same on all sites that have forums.
    Although, there seems to be a much higher percentage of intelligent guys on RJ.
    The few guys who are here for no other purpose than to make trouble, I'm more than happy to slap them down.
    But, anybody else, I try to give the benefit of the doubt.
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    Aug 22, 2010 7:13 AM GMT
    I find lightly moderated forums to be very interesting. I find many people let themselves run free and that is a large part of the attraction for me. It provides insights into people that you do not get in a forum where everybody has to play nice and self censor. It also is more interesting to watch than the vast majority of people in real life. I have problems reading people and I don't “do” politics. On a forum such as this I figure that I will know where I stand with people and I sort of feel comfortable that somebody who hates me will not be typing what a great guy I am while feeling nothing but contempt for me or my views.

    I suppose that many people do not have the ability to navigate a lightly moderated forum. You have to decide if the reasons you are here make it worth braving the hostility- if your personality is such that you can shrug off the occasional insult or attack. Are you somebody who is able to put yourself in an uncomfortable situation and if so, are you getting what you want out of the forum? If not, you may need to find a more comfortable space- if you are then relax and enjoy your time here. (I really hope that does not sound as patronizing as I fear it may...)
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    Aug 22, 2010 7:29 AM GMT
    ...and you would actually LET anyone chase you and bad mouth you out of a website? This place is mellow and easy...grow a set of balls and play......icon_rolleyes.gif
  • maximumrisk

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    Aug 22, 2010 8:06 AM GMT
    I think I have to take my previous statement back. Thats not hostility anymore. First Bello, now The_Grayne is being hateful in every thread. WTF is going on with you People?

    I love this Forums and the People here are mostly fun and intelligent. Is there no way to shut up the idiots? I know its against freedom of speech, but this borders on mental illness.
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    Aug 22, 2010 8:19 AM GMT
    The_Grayne said
    maximumrisk saidI think I have to take my previous statement back. Thats not hostility anymore. First Bello, now The_Grayne is being hateful in every thread. WTF is going on with you People?

    I love this Forums and the People here are mostly fun and intelligent. Is there no way to shut up the idiots? I know its against freedom of speech, but this borders on mental illness.


    HATEFUL??? THESE PEOPLE LITERALLY DISPLAYED THE FIRST AMOUNTS OF HATE AND YOU ARE JUST TRYING TO PREP YOUR ARGUMENT TO CON THE ADMINS HERE THAT I WAS ANYTHING HERE BESIDES LOVE... ASSHOLE.


    I cant say it enough, why dont you freakin just ignore them? If you can be polite and constructive then try to stay on thread and ignore the rest.
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    Aug 22, 2010 9:25 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    Lostboy saidI´d totally date Tony_Boost. He´s HOT icon_wink.gif


    LostBoy apparently has a certain type. Young, pretty and barely legal. icon_razz.gif


    Nope, just hot. I also love this profile http://www.realjock.com/westsidetony
  • jgymnast733

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    Aug 23, 2010 1:50 AM GMT
    I can understand how you feel, i mean the gay community i thought was above that bullshit, but assholes will be assholes....dont let them get to you.
    You should also develop a thicker skin....
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    Aug 23, 2010 2:03 AM GMT
    No offense intended Tony but you're tender in years and finding out that pluto, mickey and minnie are really just plain ol' people wearing silly costumes. Gay, straight,indifferent, humans will be humans. My gramma used to say "men are just little boys growed big". There ya go gramma....
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Aug 23, 2010 2:25 AM GMT
    Hey guys, I know what you mean as I have had some hurtful and hateful things said about me...and it's all due to my age. I'm 56, and according to some RJ members, especially those in their 20's, I shouldn't even exist. Just as an example, I'll quote to you what someone told me in an e-mail:

    "You're 56 years old. WTF are you even doing here? Why are you still alive? People your age are dead by that time..."

    Now, if you are a young dude and I say hello to you, it doesn't mean I'm automatically trying to get into your pants! I'm wanting to have a conversation with you and it would be great if you would chat back with me. I have a couple of guys talking to me on a regular basis that are less than half my age, and they believe age is just a number and I am a human being with feelings as well.

    My hope is as since we should be open minded as to the lifestyle we chose for ourselves, we would be just as open minded with those within our community. That's all I'm asking for....
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    Aug 23, 2010 3:20 AM GMT
    Hillie saidThis sandbox is filled w/ testosterone.
    Seems more like estrogen to me sometimes. icon_lol.gif